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the very large majority of them have not taken as good care of themselves as I have which is usually apparent so I screen them out.

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ORIGINAL: Padriag:

Emailing some lady and saying, "Hello, saw your ad and think you're cute as a button. I see you live nearby and maybe we could get together to see if there's any interest," is not going to work.

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ORIGINAL: willing2serve
...but i refuse to become a woman with brown pants, grey sweatshirt, short hair, no style with sensible orthopedic band shoes and complain of how i worked so hard through life i didnt have time to care for myself.

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It is nothing wrong whit having standards, but why do the OP complain when the submissive women he writes to have the same. Perhaps she dont want a man 20 years older than her, perhaps she dod not want one that worry so mutch aboute her looks, perhaps she just plain is not interested. Foxer, do you belive that we submissive women stand lined up in a row, willing to acept anyonethat would be gracious enough to take us.

i am sorry if i sound rude, but that is the way you come across to me. Now if you used less time complaining aboute women and more time searching you might get more luck.

i mother have a friend, he is a man in his 60 like you, and hadsome like few, but he demand that the women he want to be young, preferable under 30, have a good education, be articulate, preferable have a bit of money. Well after several years of searching my mother said, you are looking for a beauty queen half your age, that is inteligent and rich and have a good job and is good to comunicate, do you not think that this dream woman will have many suitors, so why should she fall for you, esecialy since by your atitude you love her wealth and looks not her and will dump her when she reatch 40? Why would she want you?

Now that isa question you need to ask yourself to Foxer, is there a chance there is not the women there is somthing wrong whit, but you?

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Oh my. I'm 37. Is this how I've been expected to dress? I'm screwed. :)

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ORIGINAL: willing2serve

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the very large majority of them have not taken as good care of themselves as I have which is usually apparent so I screen them out.

As a submissive woman, Im still in agreement.

Im a 37 year old woman, so not a young chick by any means...but i refuse to become a woman with brown pants, grey sweatshirt, short hair, no style with sensible orthopedic band shoes and complain of how i worked so hard through life i didnt have time to care for myself.

Im a very busy woman too. I own two small businesses and a partner in a larger company. I have two small children, including all of the school functions, sport activities, and a slave to my Master. That gives me no excuse not to take care of myself and be the sexiest, classiest sluttiest slave to my Sir.

Sorry to jump on your soap box Foxer...but it is a pet peeve of mine that women think as they get older that it is somehow not all right to make themselves not attractive as when they were younger.

Life is all about choices, not excuses. If you chose to put your husband through school and not take care of yourself...it was a choice.

My great grandmother was 97 when she passed away and still got her hair and nails done weekly...a lady of pride to the end.

I still stand firm in my opinion, the off-the-wall responses are coming from women with their own issues.

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As a submissive woman, Im still in agreement.

Im a 37 year old woman, so not a young chick by any means...but i refuse to become a woman with brown pants, grey sweatshirt, short hair, no style with sensible orthopedic band shoes and complain of how i worked so hard through life i didnt have time to care for myself.

Im a very busy woman too. I own two small businesses and a partner in a larger company. I have two small children, including all of the school functions, sport activities, and a slave to my Master. That gives me no excuse not to take care of myself and be the sexiest, classiest sluttiest slave to my Sir.

Sorry to jump on your soap box Foxer...but it is a pet peeve of mine that women think as they get older that it is somehow not all right to make themselves not attractive as when they were younger.

Life is all about choices, not excuses. If you chose to put your husband through school and not take care of yourself...it was a choice.

My great grandmother was 97 when she passed away and still got her hair and nails done weekly...a lady of pride to the end.

I still stand firm in my opinion, the off-the-wall responses are coming from women with their own issues.

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love your post willing2serve.
44 and haven't even hit my prime.Master is younger, grad school is good, my kids are even better. my career fulfilling

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ORIGINAL: Foxer55

willing,

Thanks again. And yes, there are so many women who think that just because they're women they're in demand. Not!

If you don't have any vanity or pride you'll be a slob by the time you're 50. Your teeth will look like hell, you'll look like a beached whale, and that's when the brown slacks and orthopedic shoes come in. A younger woman recently said to me her mother told her if she didn't present herself to others everyday in the best light she could she was disrespecting other people. Right on! Damn good on her mother and damn good on her! That girl's going to have a good life.

Foxer

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Btw, just because someone says they are comfortable in their finances doesnt mean they want to be a sugar daddy. Just means the power company isnt knocking on their door on the 15th.

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willing,

Damn! Dead-on again. You and I must have been somehow connected in a previous life.

Foxer

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I say screw looking your best every single day..

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...I choose to be my best daily because i am a reflection of my Master...

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but I guess it's just not that important to me..

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willing2serve that's great that you look your best everyday because it makes you feel better.. I on one hand sometimes just dont have the extra time in the morning to maybe do a great job on my makeup or spend that extra time on my hair.. could I wake up earlier yes.. but I guess it's just not that important to me.. don't get me wrong.. im no slob, I have all my teeth, and people say they like my hair. And I do dress nice usually. But I have been known to show up for class in jeans and a "goonies" t'shirt.. hehe just part of who I am.