melycious
Posts: 45
Joined: 1/20/2004 Status: offline
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~chuckles and adds my 2 cents.. if this is how folks are rating potential subs.. then please please let me stay uncollared.... i frequently log on to collarme and alt.. and am not even home, if you are using that as a measure of my dedication to my quest, its a sad mile marker.. personally i applaud that person for being polite enough to say, i'm sorry i cant respond to you now, but will do so later.. better manners then many have... and.. if the 3rd degree is any indication of how quickly you move into major issues from a basic email, i certainly would not have responded back... many of us dont choose to reveal such intimate details of our past lives in the 2nd email, and thank heavens we dont, the ability to have boundries and common sense are what makes folks worthwhile to have in our lives. Dont get me wrong, it may be that this person was looking for nothing more then a quick cyber fuck, it happens, but, if you eliminate everyone that quickly by being that blunt, perhaps you are bulldozing past someone who is truly worthy of the attention, and with some time and relationship building would want to share that info with you... to be honest, many times i get emails like yours from dom/mes, and all it does is reenforce that perhaps that person doesnt feel in charge of their life and abilities unless they make someone they barely know squirm... of course..thats just my opinion and who knows.. i might even be wrong mely
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