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switches that stay as subs? - 11/9/2008 6:39:12 AM

iwearpanties

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i was wondering if any switches or those that are and do . have you become more sub and less dom after play or go rite back too very Dom / Dome roles

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RE: switches that stay as subs? - 11/9/2008 7:21:53 AM

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Hmm... Truth be told I do. I'm more of a bedroom switch, then once whatever the activity is over I go back to being more dom.

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RE: switches that stay as subs? - 11/9/2008 6:16:49 PM

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I tend to be one or the other depending on who I'm with. I'm always sub to my S.O. But we have a male friend I always dominate.

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RE: switches that stay as subs? - 11/22/2008 9:47:00 PM

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I play off who I'm playing with and what the scene requires. That latter isn't so important unless I'm at a party and it's "play as X or sit everything out."

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RE: switches that stay as subs? - 11/22/2008 11:25:39 PM

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It definitely depends on what sort of dynamic I have with the person I'm with. Since I tend to be monogamous, it tends to stick until that relationship is over.

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RE: switches that stay as subs? - 11/23/2008 12:06:39 AM

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I'm generally in neutral all the time. Depening on who I'm with, what they want and what I want is how it goes.

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RE: switches that stay as subs? - 11/23/2008 7:06:51 AM

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I have gone to being a full time slave. I am now a Domme only when my Master requests it of me. I have found much more fulfillment in this role.

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RE: switches that stay as subs? - 11/25/2008 10:42:36 PM

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Generally speaking, it's scene-specific for me. My partner and I will agree beforehand on which way the power vector is going -- that's part of scene negotiation. Outside the bedroom or dungeon, the concept of dom or sub doesn't really exist in our relationship -- we're not doing 24/7 BDSM, and we both believe in keeping the relationship as eqial as possible when we're not explicitly playing.

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