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ORIGINAL: youQadesh Well, for one, I am new to the whole dominant role so I have questions about it. Secondly there is still a lot of flexibility with how I view my specific form of dominance. Every Dom views their role differently some play the totalitarian, others are a little bit more flexible. I am definitely not the kind of dominant and never will be who says anything even resembling "these are my rules so put up with it." when it comes to chores. When it come to being faithful to my partner and I, sure I will be unyielding. When it comes to other things like respect, honesty, etc I will have no problem laying down the law, so to speak. Though with the chore situation, it's different for me. I don't want to take advantage of anyone, unless they want that of course. Though I don't know if there are people out there who really want it. So I am looking for responses from subs to hear about their dynamic with the mundane aspects of their position. Though some level of household work and chores will certainly be expected, I am just not sure to what degree. On some level I know I can't determine that degree until I enter into the relationship with that given person, because every relationship is different. Thanks for the response. It was thought provoking! Having only read a bit of the way through this post, I have to say, that you sound wonderful. Just take your time, and REALLY get to know those who you are interested in. Make sure they are interested in you for you, and not what you can offer them; and do the same for them. Mine is the same as you, and he is wonderful. Good luck!
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