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Leonidas -> RE: Daddy? (8/11/2004 3:47:25 PM)
Welcome morgan. I'm pleased that this thread "de-lurked" you.

stormiKnightBEAR -> RE: Daddy? (8/11/2004 3:49:04 PM)
wyldhearted, Simply put..... B R A V O!!!! well said!! Thank You! stormi property of Master Bear

afmvdp -> RE: Daddy? (8/11/2004 4:01:44 PM)
Quite a decent read. Very similar thoughts as my own in the matter.

MrThorns -> RE: Daddy? (8/11/2004 4:30:05 PM)
Nicely said, Morgan... ~Thorns

Leonidas -> RE: Daddy? (8/11/2004 4:43:03 PM)
Hi newflowers. What I think has been uncovered on this thread is that the Daddy/girl situation has become more of a lifestyle thing than it was a decade or more ago when it was more of a role-play/scene-play thing. I wonder if the role-players/scene-players of that era who typically engaged in scenes that started: "Daddy told you not to suck your thumb precious, what did I tell you I would do?" "You said you'd spank me, Daddy, please Daddy, don't spank my bare bottom in front of everyone, I'll be a goooooooood girrrrrrrrl" (geeze, I grimace just remembering those as I type that) were really looking for a more sustainable relationship along the Daddy/little girl lines, but hadn't yet gotten past it being just a kind of role-play that turned them on. Take care of yourself Leonidas

FirmLovingDaddy -> RE: Daddy? (8/15/2004 10:50:58 AM)
Greetings A/all, There is a wonderful article on "Daddy Dom's" that explains what many, (including me), feel explains the whole Daddy/little girl/babygirl dynamic as it relates to the lifestyle: http://dollhous.hyperchat.com/

WayHome -> RE: Daddy? (8/15/2004 5:32:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: afmvdp Somebody has to do it...might as well be the one already labeled as asshole by most. I think there are a number in that situation, but I don't think you are one of them. (I'm hoping I'm not either, at least not yet [:@] )

WayHome -> RE: Daddy? (8/15/2004 5:38:39 PM)
Wow, after getting very behind on reading these threads during the hurricane that passed over my home, I almost gave up reading this "hopelessly derailed" thread and then I get to the bottom and find some great links. Thanks guys!

LadyBeckett -> RE: Daddy? (8/15/2004 5:47:02 PM)
What a lovely name, morgan, and likewise, your entrance. Welcome to the message boards.

wyldhearted -> RE: Daddy? (8/15/2004 5:54:26 PM)
~beams~ Thank you. One of these days I'll even figure out how to add a lovely picture beneath my name like the rest that I see as well as having a little icon. Respectfully, morgan

MsSimone -> RE: Daddy? (8/15/2004 10:42:11 PM)
quote: For me, it's just an energy that can be really fun to play with sometimes. I don't think it has anything to do with my "formative" years. Excellent point! I am called Mommy by both my husband/co-dominant and our slaves. It a term of endearment stemming from my strong Mom energy to take care of them all. It feels natural to me when called "Mother" or "mommy", a bit like a relaxed playful take on "Ma'am". However, I do age play with one of our girls and this does connect in her head to triggers from her childhood. It is her way of expressing afftection towards me and allowing herself to go to the sometimes scary places I take her. She feesl safe with my Mother persona. Ma'am

topcat -> RE: Daddy? (8/16/2004 6:40:35 PM)
Funny thing, for me, this 'Daddy' thing... About three weeks after making Squad Leader, My S.A.M.s (Smart Ass Marines<g>) started calling me Corpral Mom. Coming from a Marine Corps Family, I knew that it meant I was doing a good job, and as much as I bitched at them about it, It made me proud. Someone has been throwing 'Daddy' at me a bit lately, and while I can understand that my Style is somewhat paternal, it doesn't sit quite right with me. I think of it as being maternal, in fact. Oddly, while neither of my parents were competent parents, My father actually tried, and was more classicly maternal than my mother, who at best was absent. In the scene, others using 'Daddy' as an honrific or affectionate term of address usually doesn't give me pause, but from time to time a particular instance leaves me a bit uncomfortable- but more, as I think of it possibly something about the person using the term unsettles me. Stay Warm, Lawrence

pixieunleashed -> RE: Daddy? (8/20/2004 7:04:53 PM)
(just adding in my two cents) Holy wow, I guess I found one of those heated threads about he said she said etc, and it is very funny that it isn't even about the topic being discussed. As for me, the Daddy thing is something that, although I am a poly girl that adores age play, there is only one man that can fit THAT role. Daddy to me, is my closest partner, the one I can tell all my secrets to, etc. I was raised in my later years in a fatherless home due to some inappropriate behavior on the part of my father. I have found the Daddy thing to also be a huge help for me in living with some of the left over feelings from those incidents. I don't know why there seems to be a huge amount of people seeming to flock to the Daddy play, I just know what my reasons are. My Daddy is my mentor, provider, dominant figure, punisher, etc. My Daddy is still just my Daddy, however, which means at any given time, the little girl can grow up and be treated like an adult and an equal. My Daddy doesn't "own" me, I am his little girl, I obey him not because he tells me to, but because I love and trust him, and if he says that is how something is done, than that is how it is, the end. On the flip side, my Daddy encourages me to question him and everything I come across. I can also be the horrible little girl that blackmails her Daddy and "makes" him do things. The Daddy relationship allows me and him both the personal freedom to take our relationship whereever we want to. thank you for reading this, have a great day, pixie

Richard49 -> RE: Daddy? (8/21/2004 4:13:34 PM)
I would like to thank all those that posted to this thread It is a subject I have a deep interest in Before I found this thread I had started on on Literotica It is interesting the difference in the tone and information on the two threads ................... Richard

lisaluvscock515 -> RE: Daddy? (8/24/2004 8:30:46 PM)
i agree with u..years ago i thought it incestual but now it turns me on.i have learned to deiiferentiate between my daddy who is no longer living and my daddy figure...my Master,Mentor,Dominant..and yes age play comes into it..the giving up of control...i find it very erotic..

silvertongue -> RE: Daddy? (8/27/2004 7:42:51 PM)
at one time I prefered the daddy title instead of "master". hell i would rather her think of me as daddy than anything..to be honest, but I aint daddy. So master would seem to be my only choice. However, I can be knky, if she must call me something, then we can play nicely with that, or at least i can think of a few things other than the bland, dull, "master". Sir can be nice in formal settings, even in the intimate, yet sometimes i wana be called different things...like baby, or darling, or honey, a girl getting dominated that can call me that, and mean it...well, thats a special girl. guess i can't use my usal signature, so i will just use the one i got... Love, Silvertongue "There are two things I have learned in life, there is a God, and I am not him."

silvertongue -> RE: Daddy? (8/27/2004 7:50:49 PM)
Leonidas shares: >>> quote: or in the extreme, in trap-door jammies carrying a teddybear and sucking their thumb. <<< White cotton panties...YEHAW, thumb suckers...ummmmm well maybe if they were sucking my thumb, I dont get off on the baby thing, but healthy horny females..i do.

silvertongue -> RE: Daddy? (8/28/2004 8:58:56 AM)
Dear dixiedumpling (I do not use the term "dear" frivolously), The daddy/babygirl affinity is far from incestual. A babygirl, a little vixen, a happy little sex pot free from all the stigmas sex had among the family, as this is what is to be escaped in a D/s daddy/girl relationship, is the primary concern twixt the daddy, and babygitl. At least the ones I would enjoy. See I want her to be free to come to me as her guardian, her authority figure and simply explain she simply wanted to play in the cum. And we would play, hopefully she has a special problem as she is inclined to play more than ...whatever else must be done. I never had any children, don't think I will...but I do have this need, to nurture some nasty little misfit girl. It may seem as a family thing, and it is family in the sense we are lovers...but the similarities end there. The family I want is not my carnal family, it is a family of much freer affection, but a family that is as real, and simply...simply is. love, Silvertongue http://members.cox.net/silvertongue/ "There are two things I have learned in life, there is a God, and I am not Him."

silvertongue -> RE: Daddy? (8/28/2004 9:11:27 AM)
Dear Sherri, I am simply amazed at this term youve coined >>>"daddy" energy<<< It is perfect. It isnt daddy, or even master that is the point, it is their energy that fuels the emotional fulfillment. Hmmmm "energy"...its very profound when you think about it... love, Silvertongue http://members.cox.net/silvertongue/ "There are two things I have learned in life, there is a God, and I am not Him."

AzureLove -> RE: Daddy? (9/22/2004 10:38:25 PM)
Hello everyone, This is my first post. I am new here, but not new to BDSM. Many times in reading this topic I wanted to reply. But, there were so many wonderful replies I had to only post to the topic instead. The "daddy" issue came up for me when I recieved my first message from a member here. I only had a photo up and not a word for discription of myself. The desire for a "daddy" is in her name and in her profile. It is not the first time I have seen "daddy" but, I have always been curious about its meaning. After several messages I knew that what I am is a Daddy type Dom. After a while to consider all this new understanding, that set so right with me, my profile reflectes part of the daddy in me. I thought it fitting because this is what I am and portray, Daddy Energy. Today, I searched for a topic like this in the forums here and found this one. All I can say is Thank You all for your great posts and for helping me to understand myself even more. For me, Master and Dom never seemed to entrench all that I am, tho I fit into both of those catagories as well. In my interactions with subs/slaves in the years I've been connected with this life style, I have always had the daddy energy, as I see it now. And those I have spoken to and had in my real life were seen in this image. This is now the focus of my search, to find one that desires this as much as I do. Thank you Loenidas for starting this topic. Thank you to all who have shared you views, particularily those who have shared their experiences in this form of interaction. You have aided in my growth and understanding of who I am. AzureLove

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