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InHisChains -> RE: Daddy? (4/26/2005 8:58:36 PM)
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ORIGINAL: EvilMasterJ
I read this thread with extreme fascination. I suppose I never really thought of all the possibilities of the term 'Daddy' in this lifestyle before.
Last year while visiting my slave Aria, she made a plaid skirt, and wore a white cotton blouse and the same color stockings, with bows, to please me. She is not allowed to wear panties in most situations, so you can imagine the pleasure it gave me to have her across my lap for a spanking dressed like that. ~wicked grin~
Having a 19 year old daughter, I guess I haven't really been all that keen on the Daddy/Daddy's little girl thing, although Aria and I have played with it a tiny bit. After reading this thread though I think I can let all that go and pursue it a bit more. My slave is certainly willing, I know. And, knowing she went to Catholic school and hated wearing those red plaid skirts just gives me more evil ideas.
Thanks, y'all
J
I still hate wearing red after all these years - but I’d do it for you any day, Master. *wink*
I believe the reason for the rising interest in Daddy Doms is as varied as each of us is within our own individual relationships. I also believe that the use of the word "Daddy" gives much the wrong impression. Being a Daddy Dom, for the most part, has little to do with incestuous relationships.
We belong to a community where perversion is the norm. While perversion unites us, our individual comfort level in certain types of kink divides us. Its human nature to wonder why others are comfortable doing things that we can’t or won’t do. Yet, we’re intelligent human beings that seek to go beyond society’s norms. Perhaps our search for the answer as to why we are here causes us to attempt to over-analyze others within the community.
Being a Daddy Dom doesn’t necessarily mean that someone lusts over under aged kids. A lot of this desire is built upon fond memories of the past, such as remembering how cute their classmates were in their pony tails, plaid skirts and cheerleading outfits. First love, first unrequited love… none of us ever forgets those times. For the young people here, there’s little to look back upon yet, but you’ll get there one day.
If you’re involved with someone that has reached mid-life crisis, though… lookout lol! This is the typical age group that fuels the market for schoolgirl uniforms, etc. The baby-boomer generation (late 40s to early 60s in chronological age) outnumbers every other age group in the US. They’re getting old, perverted and lecherous… yet as a majority, they grew up in more stable, traditional households than most persons born in the last 35 years.
As some mentioned earlier, a dominant of any gender in the Daddy mode may provide their submissive/slave with different a different type of interaction than normal. (Unless they are full-time Daddies) This might allow the submissive/slave a bit more freedom in speaking openly if there are having difficulty in communicating in a stricter atmosphere. A Daddy listens and can be trusted. They take charge, and use their wisdom, knowledge and experience to redirect their cherished one in a loving manner as needed. However, a dominant in Daddy mode may choose to be extremely strict because they realize that his or her charge may be reaching out for more focus, discipline, guidance and love in this situation.
On the flip side, being a Daddy Dom doesn’t even require use of the name Daddy… it may be nothing more than a relaxed atmosphere where two communicate on a more casual level. Dominants can’t be “on” 24/7. They get tired like everyone else does, and need some downtime. Some may slip into the Daddy mode without giving it thought because they are too exhausted to play the evil dominant at that time. Ironically, they can gather a lot of valuable information that they may not otherwise obtain. Being in a comfortable atmosphere another fosters trust.
While Master and I don’t do the Daddy Dom thing at this time, I respect those that do for the most part. I’ve seen the term used realistically in simple and poly relationships, and also used as something that unites nothing more than a clique of friends that revolve around one Daddy figure.
For the record, though. I have no problem with using the ‘Daddy’ word while involved in play - or simply to throw a curveball now and then just for fun. For example, I could call Him Daddy at the grocery store when shopping together. No reason in particular, other than it can bring certain thoughts to mind. Making my Master smile, and fueling his appetite for things other than food is part of my job ~wicked grin~
I’m not a brat, and I never do things to provoke My Master intentionally. But how evil would it be if I were turned over His knee right then and there, in front of strangers? I’d be mortified! But then again, knowing that he chose to react in that manner would make me one heck of a happy camper because in some perverse way, I may have pleased Him. Or, I may have embarrassed the heck out of Him lol… it’s all good. [sm=tongue.gif]
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