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How to............... - 12/6/2008 8:17:28 AM

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Deep throat.
I have done a search for this but couldn't find much on the actual 'how to' part. I have tried every angle, every position and still i cannot seem to help but gag, nearly throw up every time.
Amazingly this has not been an issue until recently, i've never dated anyone into deep throat before.
Helllllllllllllllllpppppppppppp please

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RE: How to............... - 12/6/2008 8:20:18 AM

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Hehe, when you are first learning, it's helpful to tell them to just be still so you can fool around and try to get it right. No face humping, no hand on the back of the head... just watch tv or something, I'm trying to learn here...

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RE: How to............... - 12/6/2008 8:24:16 AM

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Frankly, due to jaw problems and small mouth, I use my mouth only 30% of the time doing oral sex.

My generic method is to start with my hands- massage the cock, scratch the balls a bit, get the blood flowing so you can start to sense when it's getting hard.

Then I use my mouth to lick it gently, get it more sensitized and a bit wet. This is about the only time I put my mouth into the cock- when it's still only half hard and can fit easily, and I can roll my tongue around it inside.

After that, I keep my mouth almost completely on the head, which is the most sensitive, just licking and keeping saliva flowing so that my hands, which are doing all of the shaft work by stroking regularly. The fingers cover more area and are more manipulative than the tongue and you can keep the pace going much better than with your mouth alone.

So, teeth aren't a problem at all.

Adding:

Psychologically speaking, it really depends on what situation you want. I mean, get thee to a glory hole if you just want to suck a cock. If you want a warm body who you know and will have a future relationship with, things get more complicated.

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RE: How to............... - 12/6/2008 8:24:56 AM

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did you ever stop to think that you are doing it successfully, and only throwing up because they want you to throw up?

it's an ego thing for the guys, that's for sure!

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RE: How to............... - 12/6/2008 8:47:53 AM

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ORIGINAL: Lynnxz

Hehe, when you are first learning, it's helpful to tell them to just be still so you can fool around and try to get it right. No face humping, no hand on the back of the head... just watch tv or something, I'm trying to learn here...

Good plan, thank you Lynnxz.

Thanks LA, i'll be browsing those.

daddysliloneds, quite possibly. I know he would like me to be able to do it without chucking up though.

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RE: How to............... - 12/6/2008 9:01:50 AM

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First get past the psycholgical part that you will suffocate or he will pee down your throat---

Second its all about being comfortable with spending time there--you have to like/love having a penis in your mouth.

Next, no forcing from his part, stroking the hair is good but shoving, forcing won't help.

Find out how he points when erect, up, down, right, left as that will dictate how to approach it and what position you need to be in to get the most with the easiest work.

Relax--the throat, relax and open the throat--practice while drinking water, swallow not by swallowing but by opening the throat and letting it flow down.

Taking a sip of something like champagne helps too as you have to take it down, you can open and relax---and as LA says, don't force it, if you don't have the jaw muscles to do it or can't get past the choke and puke, don't force it.This is one task I truly believe a woman has to WANT to do, she has to like it or it isn't going to happen.

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RE: How to............... - 12/6/2008 9:33:29 AM

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http://www.lair.org/library/sexuality/how_to_suck_cock.html

Beyond this is your question of gagging. Ask your partner if he wants you to train it out of yourself or if he gets off on it.
Mine just loves it, me gagging, nose and eyes running, gasping for breath between strokes - the whole thing that I am willing or better yet eager, to do this for him, to put myself in this much discomfort for him is probably as much of a turn on as are the actual sensations.

And I'm betting that this willingness, eagerness to suffer to give them pleasure is equally exciting for most dominant men.

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RE: How to............... - 12/6/2008 10:38:53 AM

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