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its great that you can accept it and hopefully you will enjoy it "tiny". :)

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ORIGINAL: SweetDommes
My advice to you is that you mention the interest, but don't focus on it.  You want your potential Dominant to know what you want, but if you obsess over it, you will most likely be dismissed like the one we talked to was. 

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ORIGINAL: jamoke

[/code]Oh man I'm with you on this one! I love the same thing and I'm bettin it's pretty common. I go so far as to soak my lil dude in ice water to get it as small as possible. I havent really had anybody really make fun of my dick since I split with my last wife. A buxom gal she was and horny as hell with a clit the size of my pinky. Anyway she had only had her first husband and me in bed and his cock was even smaller than mine...I saw the poloriods. We moved from a vvery white section of Ky to a very evenly mixed area in Va. Well she started asking about those old myths about black gentelman. One thing lead to another...yada, yada, yada....I bring home an old school now work buddy of mine who was kinda moca colored kinky larger than average and thic who loved full bodied women. Bam! She's hooked on big cock like a crack whore especially men of color. The next thing you know I'm comming home to a worn out wife everyday and I'm getting nothing but the ocasional BJ. So I start to complain and the first thing outta her mouth was something like (I don't remember exactly cause she blindsided me) "Well if you didnt have such a tiny cock you could have some too!". Well as a matter of fact at that moment I started getting aroused.

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ORIGINAL: GoddessDustyGold

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ORIGINAL: jamoke

[/code]Oh man I'm with you on this one! I love the same thing and I'm bettin it's pretty common. I go so far as to soak my lil dude in ice water to get it as small as possible. I havent really had anybody really make fun of my dick since I split with my last wife. A buxom gal she was and horny as hell with a clit the size of my pinky. Anyway she had only had her first husband and me in bed and his cock was even smaller than mine...I saw the poloriods. We moved from a vvery white section of Ky to a very evenly mixed area in Va. Well she started asking about those old myths about black gentelman. One thing lead to another...yada, yada, yada....I bring home an old school now work buddy of mine who was kinda moca colored kinky larger than average and thic who loved full bodied women. Bam! She's hooked on big cock like a crack whore especially men of color. The next thing you know I'm comming home to a worn out wife everyday and I'm getting nothing but the ocasional BJ. So I start to complain and the first thing outta her mouth was something like (I don't remember exactly cause she blindsided me) "Well if you didnt have such a tiny cock you could have some too!". Well as a matter of fact at that moment I started getting aroused.

This from a "male slave"???  (See profile)
Sorry, but that turned My stomach.
Welcome to the boards, jamoke, and here's hoping that you will do some reading so you can figure out what submissive means.
I certainly will apologize to all in advance, if I made a wrong turn and I am in the men's locker room rather than the "Ask A Mistress Forum".

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[/This from a "male slave"???  (See profile)
Sorry, but that turned My stomach.
Welcome to the boards, jamoke, and here's hoping that you will do some reading so you can figure out what submissive means.
I certainly will apologize to all in advance, if I made a wrong turn and I am in the men's locker room rather than the "Ask A Mistress Forum".
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[/I see this one as an ewwww as well....  To comment on the original post, I never measured or compared the penis size of My former submissive with anyone else's, but I enjoyed reminding him of how little, pathetic and and useless it was stuck inside his chastity device.  The thing could have been huge, but I don't think it would have made one bit of difference in his reactions.

I think that if a submissive is overly eager to be humiliated about the size of his penis, there is a good chance he is interested in nothing more than self-gratification.    

 To GoddessDustyGold and MistressLoreleiWell this is very interesting. You see I am not only new to this site but also new to the lifestyle. You two may be correct and I am not Sub material. Maybe I am not currently educated enough to the lifestyle that I am sorely unaware of the proper category to which I belong. I will try to address both of your concerns after I state the intent of my post as it must not have translated as I thought it would. I wanted to let  Mr. Absolutely know that he was not alone on this matter and as things of this nature do not simply manifest themselves and I felt that since I was aware of the origin of this fetish for me I would share that with him. I did not go into any graphic details. I was simply stating some old past history and I feel I was brief as possible to get to the point. That point being up to that moment I had no idea that I would be aroused by such a thing. I will say that if anything I said or the way I said I offended, made ill, uncomfortable or in some manner displeased you I offer my sincere apology. And now on to the rest of the story. You see I do love to serve women and truly feel honored to do so for no other reason than to do as told, therefore I believe I am a viable candidate to be a sub-male. I am trying to learn the proper etiquette, mannerisms, sub-ease and so on. Now I don't doubt that there are some naturals out there but I'd wager that not everyone starts out as fully acceptable to whatever standards exist. I do not believe sharing a certain fetish with someone weather it be deemed acceptable sub protocol or not would preclude me from being a useful one to lets say a Dom that either enjoys that behavior herself or chooses not to indulge me in that narrow area. Am I missing something or would that not be totally up to her and her fancies? As far as weather I may be trying to sneak in some self-gratification. I guess I would have to say your correct. I would again point out that would still be up to Her. I would further submit to you that if you think subs are not gratified by being a sub in and of itself you are fooling yourself.  I really do hope to achieve some level of  competence in what I believe is the right path for me or to find some reasonable parallel as I feel I am going in the right general direction. I don't enjoy being so obviously green anymore than it pains all you fine folks and I will get better with time I hope.  I have received some very helpful advice from a few people in the short time I've taken the first steps and for that I am grateful. Until I make it past the novice stage though you might just wish to skip over what few posts I may attempt rather than risk voiding your lunch. Thanks for the input and I will try not to make the same mistakes.Finally I really hope I posted this correctly so I don't screw up something else.

(in reply to MistressLorelei)

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ORIGINAL: pudgyandsmall62

From my experience in chat rooms talking with other small guys, one of their greatest sources of humiliation is having their smallness seen - or nearly seen - or at least generally detectable - by the public at large. Thus, the wearing of speedos in public, or a dangerously public exposure is both humiliating and arousing to them. I know this is certainly the truth in my personal case.