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AcademyForSlaves -> How do you view female submission? (1/3/2009 8:47:56 PM)

There's lots of women that are submissive to men even outside of bdsm. Maybe your mom stayed in the kitchen and always did what your dad wanted or maybe you have female friends that are not dominant or maybe you attend bdsm parties and see female slaves being tied up and led around by men.

As a dominant mistress what do you think about women that submit to men?



VampiresLair -> RE: How do you view female submission? (1/3/2009 8:50:47 PM)

Some women submit to men, some submit to other women. It is a choice they make most of the time. Or, it is what best fits their personality and works for them. I figure, to each their own. I feel the same way about male dominants, it doesnt work for me or on me, but for others it is a perfect match.

DV



CatdeMedici -> RE: How do you view female submission? (1/3/2009 8:54:07 PM)

I'm really cool with it, one of My best friends is a female slave with a Master--I respect what they have just as I expect them to respect what I have-----I believe for every ying there is a yang---orientation is what it is.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: How do you view female submission? (1/3/2009 8:59:24 PM)

I am not submissive, so the idea that *anyone* would be baffles me---though of course I am grateful to those that are!  Many of my friends are submissive females.  I even have a few dominant males as friends!  I choose people for other reasons than their orientations.



Tantriqu -> RE: How do you view female submission? (1/3/2009 9:02:50 PM)

Saddened, with a hope that they've at least had a chance to try Domination, and a wish they teach their daughters they always have a choice.  Sadists posing as doms who are threatened by Dommes, and passive-aggressive masochists with zilch self-esteem are big reasons I eschew most meetings. 
And I'm repulsed by the sadistic banner ads in CM; I have to alter my browser to keep 'em out. 



VampiresLair -> RE: How do you view female submission? (1/3/2009 9:04:51 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Tantriqu

Saddened, with a hope that they've at least had a chance to try Domination

Do you feel the same about male submissives?



SlaveBlutarsky -> RE: How do you view female submission? (1/3/2009 9:11:08 PM)

It makes me sick to be completely honest with you. That's just one less possible FemDom in the world with far too few as it is. Will someone PLEASE think of the FemDoms!





MissxLuna -> RE: How do you view female submission? (1/3/2009 9:18:32 PM)

It depends on the dominant and how he treats her. I was bought up in a house where domestic violence was an everyday thing - and some of the things I see on here are very, very similar to that, but as long as it's consensual I guess I can't complain too much.
I do have a hard time understanding these women however, I can't comprehend why anybody would want to submit, either way. But, it's all good.





RainydayNE -> RE: How do you view female submission? (1/3/2009 9:26:51 PM)

i'm not a mistress so i might be "overstepping" or whatever, but this thread reminds me of a response to ANOTHER thread by a Domme, where she basically said that femsubs made her sick or whatever and she felt like all the work women's libbers had done was being thrown out the window =p
women's lib, as far as i understand, was essentially about freedom to be who you are, without having society dictate what you "should" be
i can be submissive because i WANT to be submissive, not because i'm supposed to be, or because men are better or God made women that way. =p
i see consensual submission as being totally in line with "liberation," just not the type that makes certain types of OTHER people happy.
oh well.
just my $0.02



LadyHibiscus -> RE: How do you view female submission? (1/3/2009 9:29:43 PM)

Well said, RainydayNE! 



albert1000 -> RE: How do you view female submission? (1/3/2009 9:30:47 PM)

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Reigna -> RE: How do you view female submission? (1/3/2009 9:40:50 PM)

How do I view femsubs? As people who are way, way, WAY on the wrong side of the kneel. I don't get my feminist panties in a twist over it, though.

How do I view female submission? As I would a place where I once spent a couple of miserable years. Count me as someone who doesn't understand why anyone, male or female, would submit--though I sure love it when they do!



ShaktiSama -> RE: How do you view female submission? (1/3/2009 10:04:55 PM)

Depends on the nature of the submission and the man they choose to submit to. I respect a woman who submits to a man who is loving, strong, and a positive force in her own life, and the lives of others.

I do not respect the choice to submit to a monster, a bully or a tyrant, of either sex. Such people do not need to be enabled or served.





LadyPact -> RE: How do you view female submission? (1/3/2009 10:50:11 PM)

Females who submit to males don't bother Me in the least.  I don't happen to believe in supremacy or domination according to gender.  It's not genitalia that dictates what side of the kneel a person is on.  It comes from within.

If a person is inclined to be submissive, that's who they should be.  For Me to want to change them is no better than someone wanting to change Me because I happen to be a Dominant.  If they are happy in the life they are living, who am I to tell them that they are doing it wrong?



Lashra -> RE: How do you view female submission? (1/3/2009 11:49:25 PM)

It is their life and their choice, it does not effect me in anyway. If they are happy, I say let them do it.

~Lashra



Lashra -> RE: How do you view female submission? (1/3/2009 11:52:30 PM)

Yes women's lib is about choice, those who say otherwise just do not know what they are talking about. I think a woman should do what makes her happy, whether it be having a career or staying at home, it is her choice to make. In BDSM if she wants to kneel before someone that is her business, just as it is mine not to do so.

~Lashra



Lordandmaster -> RE: How do you view female submission? (1/4/2009 12:43:36 AM)

I usually view female submission from above.



FullfigRIMAAM1 -> RE: How do you view female submission? (1/4/2009 1:32:39 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: AcademyForSlaves
As a dominant mistress what do you think about women that submit to men?
As long as it is done because of their nature/conscious choice, and they aren't hostile, abused, miserable human beings as a result, I say good for them. I sometimes wish I had that gene, alas... M



Vendaval -> RE: How do you view female submission? (1/4/2009 2:39:55 AM)

So long as we are talking consenting adults, to each their own. 



MasterFireMaam -> RE: How do you view female submission? (1/4/2009 3:11:41 AM)

?

What am I supposed to think of them?

They're looking for fulfillment just like the rest of us.

Master Fire



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