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ItalianSMistress -> RE: Instadommes (1/6/2009 7:41:28 AM)
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Wow, what a thread. When it first went up, I opened it quickly, and did not really have anything to say about it. When I saw all the posts, I opened again, but usually get bored very quickly and would shut it again. Not this time, it was one of the very few times a thread this size held my interest to read it right through. There were so many fucked up things in this one, LOL. First off, just wanted to say this made me piss my pants laughing:
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ORIGINAL: Lynnxz
About the avatar thing... it's a forum. I don't expect people to actually be little pink fairys. O.o.
Thank you
Now, I have a few opinions I want to share. I personally don’t really understand Pro except for profit even, but I don’t slam it either. I do understand girls that do Pro Domme as a business, to make a living. What I don’t understand is if you are really a dominate personality how it would interest you. Personally, I could never do that, just because I have the view that it is the paying customer in charge, not the Domme. Like any business you have to make sure your customer leaves happy, to ensure return. This also means playing with people that you never would out of interest. That being said, I have nothing against Pros, and think that they serve a great purpose for subs that can not commit to a Mistress or someone just wanting to try a few things. I know a couple of Pros, one of them is really a submissive and “puts on the Domme” as she says, to make a living. She told me once that she feels submissive in sessions, in the way that she is doing exactly what the client wants her to do, what pleases him, from his list of fantasies and fetishes he fills out. I also know two others that are Pro/Lifestyle and even though I have my point of view, they are both wonderful. I don’t see anything wrong with it, I just could not do it myself. They have every right to be on this site, just like anyone else, AP, if you don’t like it, TOO BAD. According to your profile, you are a Dom anyway, so what does it matter to you? You sound like a moron.
Now, even with that said, MadameT, you take the cake. First off, if you are so jumbled that its hard to see if you are making any valid points or not…..I certainly did not see any. If these forums are so ridiculous and you are so busy, why are you wasting your time here at all? Why did you even see this? Get over yourself, we are all busy, and have lives, but enjoying reading/posting here, or we would not do it. Also, since you spend so much of your FREE time reading these forums, then you know that 99.9% of the Dommes on here, Pro or not, get those same 500 stupid weekly emails. And just the fact that you will eventaually agree to met with someone you were not interested in, just because he keeps bugging you, does not say much for you. Perhaps that is why you get stood up so much.
Now, on to the next idea, no matter how much experience you have now, at some point, everyone was inexperienced. Now, some people, myself included, don’t like playing with partners with little/no experience. That does not mean anything is wrong with those people who are inexperienced, after all, we all start out that way, its not like you can skip it. And all older Dommes, were at one point, younger, were they not? In fact, I have also heard a lot of the young Dommes get upset that no one takes them seriously. So both those are just silly points to start with. The other two things you mention are poly and overweight. I know many people who are in successful poly relationships, that work very well. Just because you don’t understand something, does not make it wrong, (you know, just like me with the Pro Domme thing?). I am not even sure why you added that one, like really, aren’t Pros in a sense poly, or do you only have one client? And as far as being overweight, again, that is irrelevant, of course there are going to be a group of people not interested in a BBW, the same way some are not interested in a red head, or a girl with small breasts. There are also a group that prefer this, in fact, one of the Pro/Lifestyle girls I know weights over 350lbs, and makes a killing doing her job.
To ModeratorSixteen, I have not been in a thread yet that someone spoke in on…..not 100% sure what you were talking about, but people were posting after this, so I decided to give it a go, if that is what you meant……er, sorry about that….[8|]
Edited cuz for some reason my text was HUGE
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