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My experience so far. - 1/7/2009 7:12:21 AM

Vinmier

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    My Lady and I met through a game called 'Neverwinter Nights' some time back. We began talking about day to day stuff and quickly became friends, confiding in one another about things that were going on in both of our lives. After a time, our conversations began to steer themselves down the road of D/s, to which I was very new and wishing to explore that side of myself. We decided to start an online D/s relationship, and she gave me some daily chores that she trusted I would accomplish, and I did without any qualms. Such things as daily stretches to help with my recurrent neck and back pain. We have mutual friends which I trust implicitly, and they verified that she was who she said she was, so the journey with her began.

   We had intended to meet and get to know one another in real life before making any decisions to move it to a 24/7 D/s relationship, unfortunately, time was not on our side. There were some issues where I was living that made it very unhealthy for me to live there. I would go into detail, but I'll spare you all what I was putting up with. Suffice to say, I needed desprately to move, and she requested I move to her. From Portland, Oregon down to Austin, Texas, I accepted the move and made plans. It was a horrid drive, one that I wouldn't suggest anyone make in the dead of winter. Three days driving on icy mountain roads, pulling a trailer is quite a challenge. The drive itself took 5 days, and was around 2500 miles, every minute of the trip was worth it.

   Arriving on the 29th, I've gotten myself moved in and am ecstatic with how things are turning out. As per our talks, we're taking it slow. Developing a relationship beyond the internet that doesn't revolve around sex, but moreso leaning to our individual natures as Dominant and submissive. I'm finding that I like service very much. I make our meals, keep the coffee in the morning hot, clean portions of the house daily, and do minor repairs that need to be done. There is more that I do, but the list would grow and grow. The best way I can describe it, is fulfillment.

   Having lived with my Lady for 9 days now, I can honestly say this is the best decision of my life. It was hasty, and I do not recommend it for most people. Our circumstances drove us to this end much quicker than we had wanted. The end result couldn't be better though. Thank you all for reading, and any responses. :)

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RE: My experience so far. - 1/10/2009 6:04:07 PM

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Dear Vinmeir,

i was happy to come across your thread today. i had remebered reading about your plans to pack up and move to your Mistress without ever having met. i was glad to see your update and that all is well and you are feeling fullfillment in your service. i hope for you and your Mistress much more joy and happiness.

may we all find our bliss.

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RE: My experience so far. - 1/11/2009 9:18:35 AM

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i really hope it all works out! Sounds like a wonderful experience.

Good luck to you B/both!

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RE: My experience so far. - 2/4/2009 7:13:50 AM

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It's been a little over a month now, I'm working and still maintaining things here at the house as I like. We're very compatible, and we have a lot of things in common that we're finding out still. It's been the best decision of my life, and I wouldn't change a thing. Although we haven't gone out and played any pool yet, that's on the horizon. My question is, do I let her win? *grins mischievously*

I remember the drive here 2500 miles, three days on icy roads dragging a trailer using snow chains off and on. Once I hit San Fransisco, it was quick and painless, just 2 days about 900 miles a day. All the while wondering how things would be. It just amazes me that someone can finally understand and respect me for who I am, cherishing the things I do for her.

I need to get ready for work. You all have a wonderful day, I will. :)

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RE: My experience so far. - 2/4/2009 7:16:32 AM

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Very glad to hear the update is a happy one!

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RE: My experience so far. - 2/4/2009 7:21:21 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Vinmier

It's been a little over a month now, I'm working and still maintaining things here at the house as I like. We're very compatible, and we have a lot of things in common that we're finding out still. It's been the best decision of my life, and I wouldn't change a thing. Although we haven't gone out and played any pool yet, that's on the horizon. My question is, do I let her win? *grins mischievously*

Awesome post :)

(And on the pool issue....take her down and make her cry like a little girl hahahahahaha)

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RE: My experience so far. - 2/4/2009 7:46:12 AM

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I'm glad that things are going so well. And of COURSE you don't let her win!! Make her your bitch!

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RE: My experience so far. - 2/4/2009 3:12:05 PM

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For some reason it always warms my heart to hear of people meeting in online games. I guess its the dork in me. I like being able to turn to someone and say, "See ? All that gaming ISN'T a waste of time !" Funnily enough I've only ever met underage boys and married people on games, but you make me want to go against my better judgement and start playing WoW again :p. Then again, once a junkie, always a junkie, so many things make me want to do that. I'm glad to hear things went well for you, and hooray for NWN !

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RE: My experience so far. - 2/4/2009 5:49:05 PM

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I remember the drive here 2500 miles, three days on icy roads dragging a trailer using snow chains off and on. Once I hit San Fransisco, it was quick and painless, just 2 days about 900 miles a day. All the while wondering how things would be. It just amazes me that someone can finally understand and respect me for who I am, cherishing the things I do for her.

..........and hopefully a lifetime of good health and happiness ahead. I wish you both the very best.

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RE: My experience so far. - 2/4/2009 7:25:06 PM

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ORIGINAL: Voodali

For some reason it always warms my heart to hear of people meeting in online games. I guess its the dork in me. I like being able to turn to someone and say, "See ? All that gaming ISN'T a waste of time !" Funnily enough I've only ever met underage boys and married people on games, but you make me want to go against my better judgement and start playing WoW again :p. Then again, once a junkie, always a junkie, so many things make me want to do that. I'm glad to hear things went well for you, and hooray for NWN !

I don't know if I recommend it or not, to be honest. There really isn't a way to truly get to know someone online, unless you visit often and get to know them outside the game. I've heard 1000 horror stories to every success. I am still asking myself how I got so lucky. I've told her that I wonder how I got so lucky, and she just smiles and ruffles my hair a little. When she and I originally started talking, it was a fluke. She was online and was a DM on the mod I had been invited to play on, so I sent her a buddy request through Y!. We talked about miscellaneous things through the day about our jub hunts and other things. The topic of D/s remained untouched for a good while. One thing led to another, and viola! here I am.

Thank you all for the well wishes, I'll post periodically at milestones and special occasions. Have a good evening everyone. :)

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RE: My experience so far. - 2/4/2009 8:14:03 PM

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blessed be and im very happy for you

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