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RE: Marriage? - 2/21/2010 3:37:22 AM

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Looking for monogamous LTR, so 24/7 or marriage could happen, but has been said, aren't the goal.
Definitely not interested in one-night stands, in part since it takes time for the lovemaking to go from great to excellent to peerless, and I also require a vanilla relationship, not just someone else's vanilla fantasy.

Yes, that's what most women here want. A vanilla marriage, or a lot of payola. I think they would have more luck going to dating sites instead of pretending they are femdoms, or whatever.

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RE: Marriage? - 2/21/2010 3:38:46 AM

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What most aren't looking for is to fool around with someone else's husband.

Perhaps, but most don't know what the hell they are looking for.

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RE: Marriage? - 2/21/2010 3:41:00 AM

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From what I have seen, most female dominants on this site are looking for marriage or a 24/7 guy.

What most aren't looking for is to fool around with someone else's husband.

Of course not! All women here are innocent angels and virgins that have never played around.

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RE: Marriage? - 2/21/2010 5:19:47 AM

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From what I have seen, most female dominants on this site are looking for marriage or a 24/7 guy.

What most aren't looking for is to fool around with someone else's husband.

Of course not! All women here are innocent angels and virgins that have never played around.

You've said that over and over.
You get that 'but they all did it too!' isn't actually a valid defence, right?

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RE: Marriage? - 2/21/2010 9:48:14 AM

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He's just pissy because we won't condone him cheating on his wife. Ignore him and he'll go away again (for awhile, at least).

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RE: Marriage? - 2/21/2010 9:52:17 AM

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Looking for monogamous LTR, so 24/7 or marriage could happen, but has been said, aren't the goal.
Definitely not interested in one-night stands, in part since it takes time for the lovemaking to go from great to excellent to peerless, and I also require a vanilla relationship, not just someone else's vanilla fantasy.

Yes, that's what most women here want. A vanilla marriage, or a lot of payola. I think they would have more luck going to dating sites instead of pretending they are femdoms, or whatever.

After we've told you repeatedly what the issue is, why do you continue with this broken record?

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RE: Marriage? - 2/21/2010 9:55:01 AM

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because it justifies his behavior to remain convinced that we are the hypocrites in the equation.

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RE: Marriage? - 2/21/2010 1:09:46 PM

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In IN, unless something has changed since my most recent relative died - the spouse becomes executor of the estate unless otherwise specified. So no will = estate goes to spouse.

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Even if it doesn't all go to the spouse, at least he wouldn't be left in the lurch with nothing. 2/3 is better than 0.

Executor does not equal sole beneficiary.

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RE: Marriage? - 2/21/2010 1:29:26 PM

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Ladies:

How many of you entered into your relationship with the hopes that marriage would be Your end game?

How many of you say, (like Me), you may be My sub, but you won't ever be My hub?

I will never marry-- (A) My reasons are simple, I have far too many assets to be tied up in community property that need to go to said UM

(B) been there done that and won't go again

Submissives: How many of you enter into the relationship hoping for marriage as an end game?

That's what pre-nuptial agreements, wills and trusts, etc. are for.

Edited to add: OralCuckgirl, please don't dredge up threads that are over six months old. Please read the FAQ thread at the top of the Ask A Mistress forum.

Start a new thread, and you can link old ones for reference in your OP, if you like.

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RE: Marriage? - 2/21/2010 2:13:58 PM

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I'm aware of that - but with no will, the executor decides who gets what here. Therefore, if the spouse wants to divide the estate up, then the spouse does - if the spouse wants to keep 100%, then the spouse does.

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RE: Marriage? - 2/21/2010 2:35:08 PM

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I will never marry-- (A) My reasons are simple, I have far too many assets to be tied up in community property

Common law marriage cases do see the light of day--including palimony.

Common law marriage is more than just living with a person for 7 years( or whatever period the state has)
You not only need to cohabitate person for set period of time but you also need to have the invent to get married and hold yourself out to the public as man and wife(like registtring hotel rooms and Mr. and Mrs, joint bank accounts, introducing each other as husband or wife, etc.).

Pre-nups can get rid of community property stuff. You can contract away your rights to community property. I live in a private property state and intend to stay here for that reason
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My end goal when I first joined collarme was just relationship with a dominant women and then see where it went from there. I still would like to have a relationship with a person I can share my submissiveness with BUT I am not looking to tie myself down to relationship right now. I'd rather play around and when i find a compatible person then I'll settle down....But then again I am just 24years old and not even sure where I'll be 5 years from now

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RE: Marriage? - 2/21/2010 3:11:50 PM

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