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You raised several good points. I think many men are not really prepared for what "long term" really would be like. My girlfriend is the one that introduced me to chastity. For her, it is a HUGE turnon to own me this way. I never thought I would be in such a relationship, but it has many wonderful benefits too, especially to the dominant. When I first began, I wanted to see (mostly out of ego) how long I could last. I went over 30 days. The first week was really agony. I mean, I was not sleeping well and constantly horny. But about week three, you are right, your sex drive somehow tunes down and that urgency goes away. We found that no more than two weeks tops should go by until I am allowed to cum, and usually at least once a week. Mostly chastity is mental bondage. I am reminded every moment that I am owned and it is a deeply intimate unspoke acknowlegment of my sincere submission to my girlfriend. In addition, chastity has redirected my thinkings from admittedly selfish sexual thinkings and focused it onto considering her needs and pleasures. For me, my pleasure now really comes in providing her pleasure and knowing that I am making and keeping her happy, sexual and othewise. The intensity of the relationship is fantastic and my devotion to her I feel so much more potent than mere words would convey alone. She is the keyholder of my cock and balls, and I would not have it any way.
Than all said, what you wrote many men and women need to be realistic about in this kind of relationship. There is hygeine issues. A man should be allowed (watched if not trusted) to wash every day. Chaffing can be an issue too and baby oil maybe needed, especially when being broken into for the first time. There are also clothing considerations. Tight pants, will definitely reveal the worn device if not careful. Also, if traveling, no metal locks but the number plastic "locks" should be used (unless it really is your goal to set off a metal detector!).
I have found that being locked up without release for about a week or so without cumming keeps me more horny actually. After that, I agree the body starts to adapt and the sexual tenstion wanes off. When I am milked or allowed to cum, it is that more special and intense, and this kind of bondage can be combined with different types of play. Over time now, I have been trained to actually cum through anal stimulation, something I would never have thought possible or believed if told, let alone believing I would be into with any woman. Such chastity training has really molded me and opened my mind and made me truly embrace true submission whereas before I really was being selfish and not genuine as a submissive. For me now, this is about her and doing it for her and having come to love and crave it for her pleasure. It can be incredibly intense and intimate between a couple if done right and realistically.
As for the cb2000, it is a tigher fitting cage. The cb3000 is a bit more loser than the cb6000, which for me fits snugly. But it takes a bit more time perhaps to get used to wearing. I am not a large guy, so I can see how for a larger or endowed man this would be hard. I know a couple of men that cannot fit into the cb6000 or cb3000 because their size is too large even when flacid. But I think most men could fit into a cb3000 well.
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ORIGINAL: Lockit
I am told that the cb6000 isn't the best one for those men who are large. I was told it was smaller than the cb3000 and less comfortable for the larger cock. You can look at the sites that sell them and look for reviews of them. I found you can get a lot of information from the men actually wearing them, all in one shot. I have only seen the cb3000 in person and in use.
I won't use a chastity for long term use for a couple of reasons. One, unless the man is being milked, it isn't healthy and could risk cancer. Then there is an aspect of men losing desire for sex altogether and not being able to perform if they are in constant chastity. You can do a search right here at CM where people talk of some form of these things.
Have you ever seen a Kali's teeth? lol Just showing a submissive one of these brought up lots of interesting responses! lol
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kali's_teeth_bracelet
http://www.stockroom.com/Kalis-Teeth-Chastity-Device---Advanced-P3260.aspx Wicked lil thing! lol
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