RE: Being "honest" or telling Dominant what He/She wants to hear

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yourMissTress -> RE: Being "honest" or telling Dominant what He/She wants to hear (1/14/2006 5:15:38 PM)
ORIGINAL: Noah quote: Truth and honesty are never wrong? I would be unlikely to enter into a trusting relationship someone who held to that credo. Never is a hell of a big word. Thank you for catching this... I agree that never is a big word, and I was taught to "never say never". Therefore I would like to re-word my opinion to say that one can't go wrong by being honest and as someone else once said, the truth will set you free. And then I would like to remind you, Noah, that always is a word that fits in the same shoes as never. And again, thank you for pointing it out to me.

Crazytwice -> RE: Being "honest" or telling Dominant what He/She wants to hear (1/14/2006 7:10:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kyraofMists my Lord, you are an asshole my Lord Knight's kyra LMAO!!! Kyra, I always look forward to your posts but this one was the best. I think if you have a dom that you can say this to and he can handle it, then you are the luckiest girl in the world. ~smiles~ CT

MistressSassy66 -> RE: Being "honest" or telling Dominant what He/She wants to hear (1/15/2006 1:39:40 AM)
I expect an honest answer. When asked a question and the sub or slave girl,answers with... whatever you want...I reply,I asked a specific question of you,and I want an honest specific answer. How else am I going to know,I'm not a mind-reader,I'm a decision maker.

truesub4u -> RE: Being "honest" or telling Dominant what He/She wants to hear (1/15/2006 10:18:06 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MistressSassy66 I expect an honest answer. When asked a question and the sub or slave girl,answers with... whatever you want...I reply,I asked a specific question of you,and I want an honest specific answer. How else am I going to know,I'm not a mind-reader,I'm a decision maker. Was always told... if you don't want to really know the answer... don't ask the question. This falls under your post MistressSassy, when you ask a straight up question. Expect a straight up answer in return. Bottom line.. Question: Would you mind getting me a drink?....... Answer... yes I would mind. I'm tired and my feet hurt. On other note: Get me a drink....... yes Sir, right away. It's all in how is stated. As in other post about the munchkins. It's all in putting the request out there. I know if I tell mine... want to do the dishes tonight?... I get looked at like I'm an alien.. lol But when I tell one to do them.... wait.. I still get looked at like I'm an alien ... LOL.. ok bad example Yall get the drift of it though i'm sure... LOL

kyraofMists -> RE: Being "honest" or telling Dominant what He/She wants to hear (1/15/2006 10:18:17 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Crazytwice quote: ORIGINAL: kyraofMists my Lord, you are an asshole my Lord Knight's kyra LMAO!!! Kyra, I always look forward to your posts but this one was the best. I think if you have a dom that you can say this to and he can handle it, then you are the luckiest girl in the world. ~smiles~ CT It is said with deep love and affection and never meant as an insult, but then again he says this of himself as well. I consider myself to be very blessed in what I have and could not imagine finding a better match. kyra

camigirl -> RE: Being "honest" or telling Dominant what He/She wants to hear (1/15/2006 11:26:21 AM)
quote: If I were asked "You want to get me a drink" I would honestly say "Im really tired so no but will get you one if you want" If I were told "Go get me a drink please" then I'd go and get him one. _____________________________ Find stable partners, not a stable of partners. Submission is in the "wanting". I may be tired and my feet migh hurt but i can still "want" to get him a drink, and will. If i didnt want to get someone a drink, i wouldnt. camigirl

MistressSassy66 -> RE: Being "honest" or telling Dominant what He/She wants to hear (1/15/2006 2:50:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: truesub4u quote: ORIGINAL: MistressSassy66 I expect an honest answer. When asked a question and the sub or slave girl,answers with... whatever you want...I reply,I asked a specific question of you,and I want an honest specific answer. How else am I going to know,I'm not a mind-reader,I'm a decision maker. Was always told... if you don't want to really know the answer... don't ask the question. This falls under your post MistressSassy, when you ask a straight up question. Expect a straight up answer in return. Bottom line.. Question: Would you mind getting me a drink?....... Answer... yes I would mind. I'm tired and my feet hurt. On other note: Get me a drink....... yes Sir, right away. It's all in how is stated. As in other post about the munchkins. It's all in putting the request out there. I know if I tell mine... want to do the dishes tonight?... I get looked at like I'm an alien.. lol But when I tell one to do them.... wait.. I still get looked at like I'm an alien ... LOL.. ok bad example Yall get the drift of it though i'm sure... LOL My questions I guess were in terms of do you want the pink rope or the blue.Clothepins or clips.Does that hurt,would be a time I want an honest answer. I dont ask would you get Me a drink...its get Me a drink,please And yes I always say Please and Thank-you,just because I'm a Domme doesnt mean I dont have manners,even with subs/slave girl.

BitaTruble -> RE: Being "honest" or telling Dominant what He/She wants to hear (1/15/2006 3:00:22 PM)
quote: Part of the path of discovery for a sub/slave seems to be that point in a relationship (D/s or M/s) where she struggles with what she sees as being honest and with telling her Master/Dominant what He/She wants to hear, to be the kind of sub/slave expected. The dichotomy seems to me to be a false one -- either be honest (and likely disagree, object, quarrel, argue) or comply and obey saying what words He/She wants to hear, presumably burying your honesty. Does this situation sound familiar to others? Being only slightly empathic rather than telephathic, I have to stick with the honesty road. I may 'think' I know what Himself wants to hear, but dollars to donuts, even if I was right, I'd be wrong. Celeste

truesub4u -> RE: Being "honest" or telling Dominant what He/She wants to hear (1/15/2006 4:09:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MistressSassy66 [ My questions I guess were in terms of do you want the pink rope or the blue.Clothepins or clips.Does that hurt,would be a time I want an honest answer. I dont ask would you get Me a drink...its get Me a drink,please And yes I always say Please and Thank-you,just because I'm a Domme doesnt mean I dont have manners,even with subs/slave girl. Now this I agree with. Being a Domme, Dom... doesn't mean you can't be nice and polite. Thank you again MistressSassy.

MistressSassy66 -> RE: Being "honest" or telling Dominant what He/She wants to hear (1/15/2006 5:17:42 PM)
Your Welcome... [:)]

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