From: Island Of Misfit Toys
Katy, of course not. *snort* These men are in the same class as those who want only 20 yr old submissives who are size 4 and 34DD. They are focused on the picture in their head, and not the PERSON.
Intellectual, I look for intelligent men myself. I don't think it's shallow to seek intelligence---or anything else, truly---because intelligence is a thing that stays with you and grows. An intelligent person enhances his or her companions. (at least I would like to think so) Beauty is transitory.
It's true that beauty and intelligence are subjective things, but the real issue that I have with the fantasists is that they are not looking for a compatible human being, they are looking for a customized toy. We all have an array of needs, and not all of them are "worthy" necessarily---I need a masochist, and I know that I would never be 100% satisfied in a relationship with a pain-phobic. The foot fetishist has his needs, and he wouldn't be 100% satisfied with me, who would only indulge his desires, but never really share them.
I want a real man, not a shell. It would be lovely if those men who write saying that they would love to submit to me really MEANT it, but they don't. I point out kindly that they don't even know me, how could they make such a claim? More often than not, I don't get a response.
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