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A Master Who Steals - 1/14/2006 5:34:12 PM   
phoenix1


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Status: offline 		In Nov & Dec 2005, I lived in Myrtle Beach, SC... with my new "Master", his alpha wife/slave, their 2 teenagers and their minor grandson. I was the beta slave.

I knew in late December, that I HAD to leave that house, because of the way this man was, how he ran his household and how he treated his family and myself. I had tried to leave about 6 different times, in an amicable way, but I was talked out of it, pressured out of it, or scared out of it. I planned to just sneak away and return back to my home town, getting my personal possessions later, after I was safely out of there.

Right before I did this, in one of his fits of rage, he "released me". I waited about 30 minutes until he was calmer, and had him verify my release in front of the alpha slave. I accepted the release and stated that I am no longer his slave.

Within a day or two, I got up enough courage to sneak away and return to my own state.

My rude awakening is that this person refused to give me my personal possessions. After calling the police about getting back my stuff, and driving from PA to SC... I only got back part of my things.

The police said I have to file theft charges to have my other things returned. I will be doing that asap.

The possesssions of mine that this person is keeping.... is my computer that has thousands of family photos for the past 7 years on it, including all of my children and extended family, private journal entries of mine that I've kept for years, business records, documents and customer's private contact information on it, all my personal medical and psychological journaling regarding my past several years of counseling I had with my psychotherapist for a problem that I have, and hundreds of extremely great triple x-rated photos of me (blush). He also kept a binder of my entire life journaling information of extremely personal information and personal information about my entire family and friends.

The reason why he kept these things of mine (returning only my clothing and a few other things) is because he told me he wants to make a website where he can make money selling my x-rated photos. I believe he's planning to use my personal journaling to write and publish a book.... the book that I told him "I" was planning to publish one day.

What he's going to do with my family's, friends and customers' personal information and photos I have on there? God only knows.

The police had told me that they would go into their house and retrieve MY possessions if I went there... after all, it's very easy to prove that they are mine and not his.... but when it came time to pick up these things from his house, the cops said we could only take the 2 bags of clothes he plopped outside his door and could not get the other things.

Now... here's what I don't understand... this man has been informed by me... that if he doesn't give me back the rest of my things.... I'm going to respond by....

~ turning him in for the illegal drugs he does ever single day, which will most likely result in the loss of his much needed job.
~ telling child and youth protective services of the horrible, abusive atmosphere his children are living in (not expounding on that on this post)
~ the physical abuse I witnessed, that he did to his alpha slave and that she and I discussed in great detail many, many times (this is not 'lifestyle' stuff, this is abuse)
~ stealing that he does from his place of employment
~ 1 incident of assault that he did to me (I'm not counting the other times that were "lifestyle" activities)
~ that he has stolen the possessions named above
~ threats that he made to me, regarding my health and safety in the future

Why would he go to court with me, just to keep my journals, first drafts to my future book, my computer (it's old, broken and he has a better one... and heck, if he gives me back my stuff I'll let him keep the $350 monitor)....

and risk losing his job, going to jail, paying a fine, upsetting his family, having CYS investigate the welfare of his children and etc.?

He did tell me that he had fallen in love with me, but geez.... sorry... it just ain't gonna happen... so give me back my friggen stuff!

Note: I did not put his name on here, so I'm not badmouthing any "one"... so I hope the monitors let my post stay on this message board.

I thought this person was smart.... newsflash for me... he's pretty stupid. Almost as stupid as me.
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RE: A Master Who Steals - 1/14/2006 5:42:39 PM   
MHOO314


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Status: offline 		uhm I am a tad confused as your profile says you are collared to Master Dragon, you joined as of a week ago-- someone has your computer but you are here, can you help us with more details and what advice you want from us?

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RE: A Master Who Steals - 1/14/2006 5:49:08 PM   
Arpig


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Status: offline 		I wish i could explain to you why he did what he did, but there is no real logical explanation I can come up with. I am one to always try to give the benefit of the doubt to somebody, but there doesn't seem to be much doubt on which to extend any benefit. He is one twisted puppy (no offense to any puppygirls intended).
You can probably kiss goodbye most of your personal info, if he didn't just delete it, he probably copied it and then wiped it.
A hard lesson here, but never assume another person is going to be at all reasonable in any form of break-up, especially when they have shown themselves to not be reasonable in other aspects of their life.
I wish you the best of success in your efforts to get your stuff back, but rather than telling him to give it back or else, I would be going right to the or else....let him have it with both barrels, its people like him who make it hard for the rest of us who are only mildly messed up.

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RE: A Master Who Steals - 1/14/2006 5:50:54 PM   
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Status: offline 		miti is with Mistress Hathor on this one....

The Drop Scone was one of the most feared of the battle breads -- heavy enough to do serious damage if dropped from a height of six inches, and aerodynamic enough to stun an opponent at a distance if hurled from a sling. A variant was designed to shatter on impact, scything the surrounding area with razor-sharp crumbs.
Dwarvish cuisine. [Nanny Ogg's Cookbook]

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RE: A Master Who Steals - 1/14/2006 6:07:41 PM   
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quote:

Right before I did this, in one of his fits of rage, he "released me". I waited about 30 minutes until he was calmer, and had him verify my release in front of the alpha slave. I accepted the release and stated that I am no longer his slave.

Within a day or two, I got up enough courage to sneak away and return to my own state.


If you were released I am not sure I understand the need to sneak away.

quote:

My rude awakening is that this person refused to give me my personal possessions. After calling the police about getting back my stuff, and driving from PA to SC... I only got back part of my things.


If you left your things there I would have to believe that the law would see it that you had abandoned them. I would think that, especially if you left him no instructions as to what to do with them or what arrangements you were making to get them, that he would be free to do as he wished with them.

quote:

Now... here's what I don't understand... this man has been informed by me... that if he doesn't give me back the rest of my things.... I'm going to respond by....

~ turning him in for the illegal drugs he does ever single day, which will most likely result in the loss of his much needed job.
~ telling child and youth protective services of the horrible, abusive atmosphere his children are living in (not expounding on that on this post)
~ the physical abuse I witnessed, that he did to his alpha slave and that she and I discussed in great detail many, many times (this is not 'lifestyle' stuff, this is abuse)
~ stealing that he does from his place of employment
~ 1 incident of assault that he did to me (I'm not counting the other times that were "lifestyle" activities)
~ that he has stolen the possessions named above
~ threats that he made to me, regarding my health and safety in the future


You can certainly go to the police and tell them about the drugs and all of this "abuse" and theft. I am not so certain that they will take you very seriously though. Quite frequently they are approached in this manner by ex's trying to get revenge or get even. Now I am not saying that these things are not true. What I am saying is that your timing is suspect. If you were being abused, the time to report was when it occurred. If the children were being abused...one does not stand idly by until the relationship ends before they do something to protect the children. If the alpha slave was being abused....it is up to her to report that. They are not going to want to hear "I saw him do this" if she stands there saying "No he didn't". Threats are hearsay at this point....if you felt threatened, once again the time to report that was the moment it happened.

This depiction of events as you have stated it just does not make much sense.

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RE: A Master Who Steals - 1/14/2006 6:13:10 PM   
phoenix1


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Status: offline 		I was married to my husband (Master Dragon) for 7 years... it was a fantastic relationship for both of us. In June 2005, we began a rough spell in our relationship...
and then wandered on to the collarme site.

BDSM activities were not new to us, only the titles, definitions, and framework that the BDSM community has out here. This was back in Aug or maybe even July. My profile name back then was zaynab, and Dragonzaymaster was the official name my husband/Master had back then.

In about Sept, The Master who is ripping me off, began "mentoring" myself and Master Dragon.... to be nice... and to help us... because "he never minds helping others in the lifestyle if they need mentoring or advice". Shortly after, he became a duel owner of me, for the purpose of "me not becoming confused" while he was mentoring me/my Master.

My marriage soon took a nosedive.... and Master Dragon and I separated and I was 'uncollared'. According to protocol (sp?), I then became the slave of this other Master. And that's ok.... I was ok with relocating to SC and being a part of his poly family. This new Master had already given me a new slave name, even before I became only his... the name "phoenix". I had a profile on here with the name phoenix but when I left his house early Jan, he deleted it. So, I made this one.

So, I've been on this site since July 2005, just using different profile names that are now deleted.

The computer I am using right now, is not mine. One of my relatives is allowing me to use his computer this evening. MY computer is in SC at this man's house... sitting there in the white plastic bag I have wrapped around it to keep dust off of it.... doesn't work but he'll be removing all the information off the hard drive soon, if he hasn't done it alreadly.

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RE: A Master Who Steals - 1/14/2006 6:24:05 PM   
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Status: offline 		Why do people do stupid things....that's like asking why does the sun shine.....there's a reason, but hell if I can tell you. One thing I have discovered over the years...you can't fix stupid.....as for as the things you stated that you would do...go for it...in my opinion, anyone that acts the way you have said he acted, isn't a Master and deserves what ever he gets.....besides, I am so tired of some jerkoffs makeing all of us look bad.

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RE: A Master Who Steals - 1/14/2006 6:24:58 PM   
Arpig


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Status: offline 		And that, dear friends, is as fine an example of why one should give the benefit of the doubt as we are likely to come across.
Again phoenix, good luck, but I wouldn't hold my breath

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RE: A Master Who Steals - 1/14/2006 6:29:06 PM   
phoenix1


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quote:

ORIGINAL: mistoferin

quote:

Right before I did this, in one of his fits of rage, he "released me". I waited about 30 minutes until he was calmer, and had him verify my release in front of the alpha slave. I accepted the release and stated that I am no longer his slave.

Within a day or two, I got up enough courage to sneak away and return to my own state.


If you were released I am not sure I understand the need to sneak away.



For the 2 months I lived at his house, his communication technique with myself and his alpha slave, was that we had to live two totally different 'realities' that he determined for us. Every day, he would tell her one thing, and minutes later he would tell me the exact opposite. Our tasks were that even though we knew that he was telling us both completely opposite things, we both had to accept what he said as the true reality. This was over some very serious issues. This caused immense stress, confusion and heartache for the alpha slave and myself. By the way, she and I got along great through all of this and were very close, even when he tried to bait us against eachother, we saw through it all and didn't let it happen.

I was afraid to leave, even after the uncollaring, because he took fits of rage ever few days that were very scarey. He usually took it out on the alpha slave, but I got it once. It's been about one month since he gave me only 2 strikes with the crop, as hard as he could, 1 on my thigh, a second on my left foot/toes... and the outer side of my left thigh is still totally grey in color, from where the bruising was, even after 30 days past and the original bruising went away.

He played so many mind games with us... he told me that he was going to "fake my uncollaring" so the alpha slave would think I was gone... then he would have me nearby in an apartment, without her knowing it. Then, he was going to add another slave with me (who he had just collared online days before I left there).... a girl only 18 years old!

He said if I ever leave him... he would hunt me down until he found me, not in any hurry, but that I'm to know that one day, he would find me... and I'm supposed to think of all the time, effort, and money I caused him during his search for me... and he would make me pay for it (he didn't mean pay as in money).

"If your level of pain tolerance is a 6, I'll take you to 600!!' I remembered those words!

Looking back... I should've called 911 and had them escort me out of that house with all of my possessions, but... I didn't. I guess there is some value for Masters who practice "mind control" and brag that they are an expert with it.

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RE: A Master Who Steals - 1/14/2006 6:33:29 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: mistoferin

quote:

My rude awakening is that this person refused to give me my personal possessions. After calling the police about getting back my stuff, and driving from PA to SC... I only got back part of my things.


If you left your things there I would have to believe that the law would see it that you had abandoned them. I would think that, especially if you left him no instructions as to what to do with them or what arrangements you were making to get them, that he would be free to do as he wished with them.

quote:



When someone is afraid, and they flee the house... they are not expected to drag heavy travel bags of their possessions with them. I RAN when I left, and ran into a neighbor's house... I was shaking... I had already been shaking for 4 days before I was brave enough to leave.

The woman who's house I went to, saw how hard I was shaking.... and heard my voice shaking... I did tell her that I was afraid and a little bit of what was going on, but not everything... I'm not a sissy and I'm not a squealer... I don't want to get this family in trouble... I just wanted to get out... and away....

now, I want my stuff back... it's not valuable.... if he tries to publish the book, I have proof that all that information of my story has been my information and my story for many years by other documents I have, so he would get in trouble anyway....

my xrated pics? I'll have to find out what the law says about those.

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RE: A Master Who Steals - 1/14/2006 6:38:05 PM   
Arpig


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Status: offline 		I am not a lawyer, and am not an American, but my basic understanding of it is, one cannot use likenesses of somebody to make money without their permission. However tabloids seem to do it all the time, so maybe I am wrong.

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RE: A Master Who Steals - 1/14/2006 6:41:08 PM   
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ORIGINAL: mistoferin

You can certainly go to the police and tell them about the drugs and all of this "abuse" and theft. I am not so certain that they will take you very seriously though. Quite frequently they are approached in this manner by ex's trying to get revenge or get even. Now I am not saying that these things are not true. What I am saying is that your timing is suspect. If you were being abused, the time to report was when it occurred. If the children were being abused...one does not stand idly by until the relationship ends before they do something to protect the children. If the alpha slave was being abused....it is up to her to report that. They are not going to want to hear "I saw him do this" if she stands there saying "No he didn't". Threats are hearsay at this point....if you felt threatened, once again the time to report that was the moment it happened.

This depiction of events as you have stated it just does not make much sense.


I don't care about my timing... I don't care if I don't appear believable... if the cops do nothing... that's their decision... I just want my stuff back.... that's it. I had 3 items that I brought back to PA from their house.... 2 of them were gifts, sunglasses and a cigarette case... even though they were gifts to me, I sent them back to them, immediately.... along with the free cell phone that was mine but was on their phone account.

I didn't even keep the things they gave me as gifts.... broke my heart to return them as one of them was from the alpha slave and I wanted it to remember her by. But oh well.

As for the kids and CYS? I am very familiar with the child protective services... I have zero faith in those types of agencies... There's one thing that most people don't know.... even in abusive families.... sometimes it does more damage to the family members if their abusive structure is ended... than to let it go on... it all depends on many factors... what type of abuse it is... how it is harming the child/children... to what extent... and what the consequences those children will suffer if the family unit is broken apart, or heck, even if CYS gets in there and "investigates".

I believe it's a flip of the coin, as to whether CYS would actually do any good or cause additional harm to an already hurting family. THAT's why I did not call them before this. That's why I still may not call them now.

If anyone disagrees with the point I just made, and if you are interested enough.... surf the net on the topic.... there's a lot to learn about this.

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RE: A Master Who Steals - 1/14/2006 7:06:13 PM   
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Status: offline 		I can't let this drop... I absolutely HAVE to get my medical and psychotherapy journal papers back... and my family photos... I don't have copies and that's 7 years of all my kids pictures I have. All of them!

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RE: A Master Who Steals - 1/14/2006 7:08:22 PM   
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Status: offline 		then I advise you to contact the police, and hire a good lawyer

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RE: A Master Who Steals - 1/14/2006 7:09:25 PM   
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quote:

Right before I did this, in one of his fits of rage, he "released me". I waited about 30 minutes until he was calmer, and had him verify my release in front of the alpha slave. I accepted the release and stated that I am no longer his slave.

Within a day or two, I got up enough courage to sneak away and return to my own state.


++I second Mistoferin's question. If you were released, why did you feel the need to sneak away. Also, if you waited 3 days before sneaking away with some of your belongings, why did you not utilize those 3 days to arrange for someone to move the rest of your belongings?
++ I dont know what you told the police, but ever state that I know of...you make a complaint, the sheriffs office issues an order to the people involved that on a certain date, they are to allow the sheriffs dept and YOU into the residence to collect the belongings. I have NEVER heard of a person being denied their belongings after filing a police report. Unless it was proven that the belongings were not theirs.
++As for the rest...I am sorry, but I am just having a hard time believing that ANYONE would be stupid enough to put themselves in a situation where they could be sued and sent to jail.

Just the feel that I get from your post

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RE: A Master Who Steals - 1/14/2006 7:24:24 PM   
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Status: offline 		Excuse Me for being abrupt, but honey, you are an adult, knows things are major screwed up---you know what happened, what you need to do and you are the only one who can fix it---

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RE: A Master Who Steals - 1/14/2006 7:25:27 PM   
phoenix1


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ORIGINAL: Arpig

then I advise you to contact the police, and hire a good lawyer


Thanks for the advice... we're going to go the lawyer route... I hope our lawyer won't be too mad at us though.... because he happens to be one of those customers of our business... who's personal information is on my computer down in SC. LOL

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RE: A Master Who Steals - 1/14/2006 7:55:40 PM   
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Status: offline 		If you were released, why did you feel the need to sneak away.

Because he very frequently would tell me that he would never, ever release me. He also told me that he would be doing a "fake release" to fool the alpha slave (she loved me but was never in agreement with him having a poly family). That way he could keep her, and keep me (and other slaves he added) in an apartment nearby. He also played so many mind games with us on a daily basis about so many different things... I began to second-guess every single thing he ever said and wonder if it was truly real, or just him testing me with some type of loyalty/mental/emotional test or whatever the heck he said he was doing.

He, the alpha slave and the teenagers had me under constant watch. At first I thought it was cute... then it became annoying... then it stressed me out.... then it made me afraid. No matter where we went or even at the house, one of them was always watching where I was and what I was doing.

I could've called the police but don't forget... I really, truly didn't want to cause any problems or get this family or him in trouble. I just wanted to leave quietly. I am not a trouble-maker. If I was, I would've called the police, told them he has drugs in the house, that's he's abusing us... etc. I don't want to rock his boat, I just want my friggen stuff. It's not like it's diamonds and gold.. it's just pictures and my therapy notes.

Also, if you waited 3 days before sneaking away with some of your belongings, why did you not utilize those 3 days to arrange for someone to move the rest of your belongings?

Please don't quote me on the "3 days"... heck, I might have left that house the same day I was uncollared... I had the journal I kept while I was at their house still in my purse when I left, and I'm going to check it to see how long it was from when he uncollared me and when I actually left the house. The way he uncollared me matters too.... I overheard him screaming on the phone to the alpha slave... "That F-en bitch can get her F-en clothes and get the F out of the house! FIRST, we'll get her F'en money, then she can get the F out of the house!!"

When he got home, and was calmer, I asked him about what he said.... he repeated it word verbatum... when I accepted the release, he then said, "Well, that is NOT a release, because I didn't say that is what I want you to do!" The alpha slave and I just looked at eachother like "Oh god... more bullshit... how ridiculous"..... he talked in the context of mind games all the time. But I knew one thing.... if I attempted to leave, he would have physically prevented me, regardless of what that took.

I didn't take some of my belongings, I only took my purse.

I dont know what you told the police, but ever state that I know of...you make a complaint, the sheriffs office issues an order to the people involved that on a certain date, they are to allow the sheriffs dept and YOU into the residence to collect the belongings. I have NEVER heard of a person being denied their belongings after filing a police report. Unless it was proven that the belongings were not theirs.

As for the rest...I am sorry, but I am just having a hard time believing that ANYONE would be stupid enough to put themselves in a situation where they could be sued and sent to jail. Just the feel that I get from your post.

All I know is that Master Dragon called the police in Myrtle Beach, SC. and told them the situation, faxing them a list of my possessions that was there. All of them are easy to identify as mine, like I have photos of those possessions in the background of pictures of my kids... oh oops... he has those pictures on my computer that he has. Oh well.

The police called this person, he said he would give me back all of my stuff. Master called this person to verify that today would be a good day to come and pick them up. The man said he had the Constable pick up all my things to hold them for me. After driving to Myrtle Beach, Master went to the police station to find out how to get the stuff from the Constable. The police said none of that is true, and one of them would go to this man's house to get my stuff. Before the trip, the police said they would go into the house and remove my things. At this man's front door, the police changed it and told Master Dragon he'll have to file charges to get the stuff this man refuses to hand over. So, that's what we'll do.

One of the things he made sure to keep is a stuffed animal I've had for 5 years that has very special meaning to me. He's a "therapy monkey" and is going to be used for therapy at Children's Hospitals or Nursing Homes. He even has outfits and hats to wear for his visits. Actually, this stuffed animal has a reputation already and thousands of people all over the united states already know him by name. I made that happen... *smile
This man knows that will hurt me, not to have that stuffed animal back.... why else would a big, strong Master want to keep a small stuffed animal?

I know one thing... when we go to court... I sure hope this man, his alpha slave, his teenagers, and the neighbor who's house I ran to... and anyone else I can think of who may be helpful with this court case.... won't be too embarrassed when we get into testimony about BDSM sex relationships, crops, floggers, paddles, 18 year old girls (oh sorry, young women) being brought into the house for sex and to earn him money, etc.
I won't be embarrassed by it at all.

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RE: A Master Who Steals - 1/14/2006 8:06:45 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MHOO314

Excuse Me for being abrupt, but honey, you are an adult, knows things are major screwed up---you know what happened, what you need to do and you are the only one who can fix it---


I know what I need to do? And how to fix it? I don't think I do. I'm just floundering around here. Heck, I don't want to go to court with these people! I will if I have to, but why doesn't he just give me my stuff back? Just to hurt me?

That means he's hurting from me leaving and this makes him feel better.

I'm sorry that he's hurting, but I told him before I went there that I can't handle it if there is any physical violence being done to his wife or his children, including screaming at them. I told him if any of that goes on at his house, I would not be able to be there. He assured me that none of that happened at his house. I'm sure the next door neighbors can verify that they hear him screaming horrible things, threats and x-rated, graphic things quite often.

The reason I got hit so hard with the crop during his fit of rage, is because I had finally had enough... I told the alpha slave I was going to take a stand... and refuse to obey him unless he promised he would stop physically abusing her during his anger fits. I told her no matter what he did to me, I would stand my ground.

He kept screaming as loud as he could for me to get upstairs and get in bed with him and his alpha slave over and over (all the kids heard this for about 20 minutes non-stop). "GET THE FUCK UPSTAIRS RIGHT NOW AND GET IN THE FUCKING BED! THIS IS NOT A GAME!" That was the main thing he kept saying. And he kept screaming that I think this is all about me and I'm supposed to only think of what he wants.

I told him several times that this (my rebellion) was not about me... but he was on such a screaming fit of anger, he wouldn't listen. After he hit me twice with the crop (as hard as he could) and saw that I did not give in.... I calmly told him this was about the alpha slave and not about me at all. Then he remembered his broken promises of not abusing her anymore (yes, he already promised this several times to me).... probably felt like quite a fool.

Of course I would get beat for the alpha slave, I love her! But, was all a waste, he still did that to her after that anyway. Sorry I went on and on... I'm mad.

< Message edited by phoenix1 -- 1/14/2006 8:12:40 PM >

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RE: A Master Who Steals - 1/14/2006 8:10:12 PM   
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Status: offline 		No let Me explain-- your so called Master is no more a Dom than I am a nun--he is an abuser, major---screw him, do what you need to do.

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