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RE: Who is "the best" Match for a SWITCH ??? - 9/27/2007 2:13:33 PM

eratosservant

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A. I'd nab the other switch and hope that (s)he doesn't mind trading places a lot, cause sometimes I want a Top and sometimes I want to Top.

B. Poly... Monogamy is not in my personal vocabulary

C. Depends on who starts it. If I start it, then I'm on top... if the other party starts it... then they are on top...

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RE: Who is "the best" Match for a SWITCH ??? - 9/27/2007 6:55:05 PM

Bondagenexus

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If it had to be only one parter... I'd pick another switch. (Just like I do in real life!)

I would be just as happy in a monogamous or a poly relationship. My first 18 years were married and totally monogamous and wonderful. My last 8 years were poly... and wonderful.

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RE: Who is "the best" Match for a SWITCH ??? - 10/3/2007 4:06:19 PM

Rictusswitch

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Live it all to your fullest.
My sub had become my Mistress as well and we both love it.
I always thought it would be uncomfortable but it just seems natural.

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RE: Who is "the best" Match for a SWITCH ??? - 10/3/2007 10:15:55 PM

bdwosm

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Mary-Ann and the perfessor would make the best mutually switch couple ever on an island. The gadgets, the outfits, yipee!
I could not last deserted for more than a week, no internet (?), no point.

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RE: Who is "the best" Match for a SWITCH ??? - 10/8/2007 6:25:36 AM

Kuprin

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a) Another switch, female. It makes things more interesting as we have both sets of bits between us, and both sets of preferences. Of course it does increase the comedic likelihood of a coconut up someone's ass, but given that this would quickly turn into Gilligan's Island, I'm sure that would happen at some point anyway. :p

b) Poly...I have problems preventing myself from falling in love. It just feels very unnatural to me to tell myself I don't love someone.

c) Depends on the situation and the person really. Personally I'd just challenge her to a Trial of Position. :p

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RE: Who is "the best" Match for a SWITCH ??? - 10/12/2007 1:44:13 PM

lordhedon

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Question A     Another switch.
             B Mono unless one were dom and the other sub and there was definate chemistry.
            C There would be no moe conflict than a regular vanilla man and wife over who does what as each would do what is pleasing to other...would depend on mood of involved switches.

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RE: Who is "the best" Match for a SWITCH ??? - 12/21/2008 10:08:27 AM

boytoyinatlanta

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another switch

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RE: Who is "the best" Match for a SWITCH ??? - 12/21/2008 6:00:36 PM

AStudyInScarlet

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quote:

ORIGINAL: cloudboy

Dear SWITCHES,

a. I have a question for you. If you were to shipwreck on a deseerted island and could chose one other person to be with you, who would you chose ----- Who do you feel you match up best with: a Vanilla, DOM, SUB, or other Switch? Please explain your choice.

b. If you were in a Metropolis with a full menu of delicious others to chose from, would you prefer a poly or monogamous relationship? It would seem to me if you went monogamous --- the best choice for you would be another switch, but what do I know. In a poly world, though, it seems you could indulge both of your roles.

c. If you have been in a relationship with another switch --- and let's say it was an intense relationship --- did you experience conflict over role assumption ---- aka "I want to be DOM," "No, I do." if you get my drift. How do you decide between top and bottom? I imagine if I were in such a position, I would decide through friendly but "binding" negotiation --- so I would know when I was topping (and could plan), botttoming, and being on equal footing.

a. another switch

b. monogamous. there was a time i thought i wanted only open relationships but i'm not interested in that anymore.

c. hmm yes but it has more to do with his selfishness than our proclivities. it's not so much of a conflict though, as it is him deciding and me being unsatisfied. he either has to be on the bottom, or he doesn't want to have sex.

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