RE: Slave Duties

i am not projecting.....little pussy cat. we where all here chatting about something and you came along to spoiled it. just in case you do not know how you spoiled things. you claimed that i was a lazy bitch, that is your though, you claim that i was a troll, because i do not submit to your standards.

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RE: Slave Duties - 2/7/2009 9:37:34 PM

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Looks like you're only chatting with me and lecturing me...what are you trying to do, make ME submit to you?

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RE: Slave Duties - 2/7/2009 10:50:59 PM

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Sooo...Who wants to take bets on then the vaseline and razors come out?

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RE: Slave Duties - 2/8/2009 5:40:01 AM

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I don't have any, to be honest. There are some ritualistic things but they aren't really tasks or duties.

If he asks me to do something I do it, with varying degrees of willingness...lol.

I do have a hot coffee ready when he arrives because I'm nice like that.

People have their relationships set-up in the way that suits them best and in some ways I could envisage being rather content living the way Kyra and Alandra do, even though I can already hear M's loud and long laughter when he reads this.

I live in a permanant state of worship and indignance and we both find a lot of amusement in that fact, though not necessarily at the same time.

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RE: Slave Duties - 2/8/2009 7:23:43 AM

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i see anastasia has been busy here too...telling others how to behave, live etc. Nice. Last night, she had 50 some odd posts when she bashed the OP on a poly thread.....she didn't waste any time moving on to greener pastures, so to speak....

For me, i serve 2 men and i serve each differently. As far as duties, i really like, and hope, that one day i am able to have a poly family much like Kyra, Alandra nd Knight....but, i don't see my men and i in a group hug...lol.

My life is a bit more like agirl's....lol. i like that phrasea and may have to start using it with my guys - "listen, i'm living in a permanent state of worship and indignance...i'm doing my best here!"

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RE: Slave Duties - 2/8/2009 8:00:24 AM

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Hmmm..........I clean the house, although that was a task that was set aside for me during our vanilla years. (He is a cook, so we made a deal that he'd clean the kitchen and I'd take care of the rest of the house). I usually get the towel for clean up after sex.

Like Agirl said, though, there aren't any real "rituals" or "duties", or any real expectations. We aren't a M/s relationship, though, and that might have something to do with it. I'm finding more and more often that he will tell me to do something and I actually get off my lazy butt and go do it. Don't know if that counts, though????

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RE: Slave Duties - 2/8/2009 10:49:15 AM

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Good post 4 sure... Duties are duties-\
Think often we all need to trade them for out a week at a time and then more duties are properly signed off on and we all end up with a much better slave with a better apprecian for their masters when they return back! Dirty buster services

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RE: Slave Duties - 2/8/2009 11:33:05 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: T1981

Hmmm..........I clean the house, although that was a task that was set aside for me during our vanilla years. (He is a cook, so we made a deal that he'd clean the kitchen and I'd take care of the rest of the house). I usually get the towel for clean up after sex.

Like Agirl said, though, there aren't any real "rituals" or "duties", or any real expectations. We aren't a M/s relationship, though, and that might have something to do with it. I'm finding more and more often that he will tell me to do something and I actually get off my lazy butt and go do it. Don't know if that counts, though????

We are an M/s relationship but it's not made so because of duties. He owns me and therefore can have things how he wants them. He could have me up and down like a jolly yo-yo and sometimes he does but just as often he prefers to do things himself.

I used to roll over in the mornings, reluctant to leave the warm covers to get his coffee.....he didn't make a song and dance, or say anything much ......I just did it one day and found myself flying from the mattress from the jolt of a cattle-prod. I try not to underestimate the ways in which he gets the *job done*....lol

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RE: Slave Duties - 2/8/2009 11:56:56 AM

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So who wants to take bets on how many pages this thread will go on for???

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RE: Slave Duties - 2/8/2009 12:11:22 PM

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i pretty much have to just do what i am told, and be respectful. although i do an awful lot of things....

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RE: Slave Duties - 2/8/2009 12:31:24 PM

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I was thinking of getting some popcorn or cookies and watching the show. I am guessing 5 pages, how about you?

And to stay on topic here. I have duties from the time i wake up (set by my Master) to the time i go to bed (also set by my Master) I have chores, duties, responsibilities, activities, and any other semi-synonym you want to use.

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RE: Slave Duties - 2/8/2009 1:30:55 PM

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I have several duties about the house, including, but not limited to:
1. Making the coffee in the morning
2. Making Master's breakfast while He showers on work days (On His days off He likes to cook His own)
3. Getting His children up, in the tub for school if it's a Tuesday, making their lunches, and getting their breakfast (Hats off to the single mothers in the crowd. I have to do it one day a week, and it's about all I can handle)
4. Make the beds
5. Go to school myself if it's Wednesday (I'm getting my Master's degree with His support and encouragement), work on my thesis
6. Walk the dog
7.Brush the dog
8. Clean the house
9.Do the laundry
10. Do the dishes
11. Work out for an hour a day
12. Water the plants, pull weeds in the yard if I have time
13. Write in my journal, both here and offline, and on my workout chart
14. Read a chapter of whatever book we are reading at that time to Master at night in bed (yes, I read to my Master, too, but it's a special time for us. He has a PhD, so I'm pretty sure He can read.)
15. Make sure He has clean towels in the bathroom, and make sure there is extra TP at all times (rule #1 never let Master run out of TP....that makes Him beyond sadistic, bordering on evil, even)
We cook dinner, and do the grocery shopping together, as these are things that He enjoys doing, and while I don't enjoy things like scrubbing the bathrooms, and the constant vacuuming of dog hair, I do them because they make Him happy, and I want Him to know how much I appreciate how hard He works for all of us. Little things count a lot in our household.

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RE: Slave Duties - 2/8/2009 1:41:26 PM

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you said several chores but i see 15, dam when do you have time to your self!??!?!!?! I take my hat off to you, because I would never do any of those things he wanted done, he would be an upset dom.

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RE: Slave Duties - 2/8/2009 2:21:39 PM

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Here it comes... get on your asbestos suites...

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RE: Slave Duties - 2/8/2009 2:47:00 PM

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None of those chores, in and of themselves, take all that long. If a house is kept clean, the effort needed to maintain it is minimal. You actually miss the point, which, I made quite clear. I do these things because I want to. There isn't an assignment checklist on the wall that says to do this, or that on such and such a day. I do them without being told as I realize that they are expected, but most of all I do them because I love my Master. There is nothing on that list, except perhaps the workout part, that most of us wouldn't be doing in our day to day lives anyway. The fact that I do them for somebody else, and I get rewarded for them, is just icing on the cake. If you choose not to do those things that is your deal. Trust me, I have plenty of me time, and in the bargain, I have a very happy Master that gives me plenty of play time.

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