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RE: Slave Duties - 2/8/2009 2:50:39 PM

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No asbestos needed here. Some people enjoy drama, but I'm not one of them. I don't judge anyone for doing what they do, and if they in turn want to be judgmental of me that, too, is their deal, not mine. Life is far too short.

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RE: Slave Duties - 2/8/2009 7:31:33 PM

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On the actual topic.... I don't live with my Dom, but when I'm there I usually make him breakfast and lunch, wash the dishes, run and/or fold his laundry, make his bed (that's kind of a joke between us going back to a scene we did) and usually do some light tidying up. When I'm not around, he expects me to go to the gym and work on my artwork every Monday, Wednesday and Friday, schedule permitting - with those, basicaly just helping motivate me to do things I should be doing anyway ;).

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RE: Slave Duties - 2/9/2009 7:27:29 AM

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Since I've been a single mother for the majority of the last 2 decades, I am used to doing all the cooking and cleaning while holding down a job. If one is organized and maintains the work then there is plenty of "me" time.

I'm only working part time now, so I have far more time. I choose to help him with his business to free up his time to expand. I make the bed which is something I chose not to do when I was single and I found out last night that I am required to be his human teddy bear when he has trouble sleeping.

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RE: Slave Duties - 2/9/2009 8:09:48 AM

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here's a short list of some of this slave's duties/tasks/chores:

be available to Him for His use or use by other(s) at His direction, at any time of the day or night, every day and every night.
approach Him and speak to Him in a respectful manner, without attitude, mockery or disdain.
refrain from using the words "I, me, my and mine" as they are no longer appropriate, as His posession.
maintain appearance(dress, hair, etc.) and interact with others in the manner He finds pleasing.
maintain His home in the manner He finds pleasing.
obey Him.
in the morning, after making her body available to Him for His use, make and bring His coffee to Him, with whipped cream applied to her nipples...when possible

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RE: Slave Duties - 2/9/2009 1:46:37 PM

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Mine are all pretty easy really. Because we both work full time he helps with the house and yard work.

1. Wake him with coffee every morning
2. Make the midget breakfast on weekdays, breakfast for everyone on weekends
3. Make sure he has what he needs for work.
4. Make him and myself lunch every weekday at my office. (Yes he comes to my office for lunch ever day)
5. Make supper on evenings I'm home. Have something ready and easy to make on the evenings I need to take the midget to dance or swim practice.
6. Make a pot of coffee as soon as I get home from work
7. Bring him coffee, dinner, snacks etc during home time as requested
8. Shower every night at 9 and sit with him until bed time. Anything else done after 9 pm is up to him lol

Oh ya, always make sure my day necklace is on during the day and to change into a collar when at home if he chooses.

I mean the house work, laundry, and yardwork stuff is a given as everyone needs to do that stuff whether they are single or in a relationship. If everyone is working then it makes sense that everyone help out to get that stuff done.

If I was home full time then I would do all the cooking and cleaning. Tho I'm not allowed to haul the laundry down the stairs or take out the trash lol I've been informed it's too heavy for me. (even tho I did it for years on my own

) Just one of the ways he takes care of me and keeps me safe *S*

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RE: Slave Duties - 2/9/2009 1:54:14 PM

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What are the special tasks or duties that you have to do for your domme/dom?

nothing - i'm not a slave

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RE: Slave Duties - 2/11/2009 3:39:35 AM

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not an expert of course, but it seems to me that, bickering and cattiness aside, y'all are all just being submissive in just the way your master/dom wants. i doubt carmeldelight's dom wants her doing housework any more than he wants to have inimate relations with a lawnmower. nothing wrong with that. other doms like to to put their feet up and watch their subs clean and fetch coffee for them. that's fine too. a submitting partner is submissive in the way her master/dom desires. personally, i've never done laundry or made coffee for my master - he hasn't told me to.

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RE: Slave Duties - 2/11/2009 11:39:51 AM

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Master gives me tasks to do most days while He's at work. ironing His clothes, cleaning the kitchen and the studio, learning HTML to help Him with His business-site... whatever He needs from me.

but for the most part, i am a sex-slave. before He gets home from work, i am waiting, 100% available, usually naked. He has had me studying BDSM, the kama sutra, and pr0n! (always a good time! :-D )

i also assist Master on photo-shoots. He's a photographer, and i'm a model and make-up artist. i do styling for most of his models, and i end up holding lights, reflectors, whatever He needs.

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RE: Slave Duties - 2/11/2009 1:29:46 PM

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i am not expected to do any chores. i do them because they make Master happy. And that is what i am here for to make my Master happy. If Master is not happy then i am not a good slave.

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RE: Slave Duties - 2/11/2009 6:58:32 PM

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i am a very new sub to Mistress Adriana and i live a long way away from Her. Right now i am writing a journal daily and keeping track of my weight. i do adore Her name with roses when i write emails to Her. i cant say i have many chores yet. Because i am overweight, Mistress Adriana is soon to be starting me on a diet and excercise program. She also wants me to send Her pictures of my stomach, behind and midsection on a schedule so She can monitor my progress. i am really in a learning mood for Mistress Adriana right now and cant do too many chores at the current distance we live apart. i certainly would love to do many chores and errands for Her convenience. i hope to relocate sometime soon if She desires it.

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RE: Slave Duties - 2/12/2009 3:20:23 PM

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wow..duities...Master T has lots of them for me to do...
I write about some of the stuff in my blog (www.mtslave.wordpress.com )sometimes about what he wants me to and sometimes just random crap...
Just a little (note I did not say I was going to post ALL, just a few) of what he wants me to do...
Wake him up
make his coffee
get out his clothing
be ready for him when he wants me to be
take care of house
take care of bills
work
write daily in my blog
write my 1000 word essays on what he wants me to when the mood hits him
ask to get into bed
wear what he wants me to
video myself with vibe
and whatever else he wants me to do.

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RE: Slave Duties - 2/12/2009 3:26:28 PM

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I am expected to track down a couple chaco tacos today... does that count?

*Nom nom I found them too... wee! Stupid things are hard to find now that TacoBell doesn't carry them)

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RE: Slave Duties - 2/13/2009 12:38:05 AM

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Well, not actually so much a slave, but there are certain little habits we've fallen into.

If I'm home when he wakes I get his orange juice to wake up to. (Health reasons.)
I roll his first smoke of the day, usually leaving it for him when I go to work.
I bathe him in the shower, but really more for me then him.
I take off his boots, which was a big one, and one that I had refused to do in EVERY other relationship I've been in.
I make myself available for sex whenver he chooses.
I do the laundry, but that's my choice, too, as I don't want anyone else fucking up my clothes.
I cook for him when he's not feeling well.
I share my feelings with him, as openly as I am able to do.
I am required to make myself "pretty" two times a week, his rule.
I am encouraged to write in my journal.
I keep the bathroom clean, but it's my sanctuary and I like it that way.
I generally do all the phone calling, but that's because I'm good at it, and more likely to get things accomplished without becoming aggravated at the sheer stupidity of mankind.
I look after his long hair, cause he'll abuse it if I don't.

Wow, looking at the list I do a lot for him, but most of it I have taken on without any prompting from him. Most of the things are things I've either taken over for my own reasons or because I'm better at it. He does the cooking and most of the housekeeping, since he is home, and he also looks after the dogs, the shopping, the errand running, and the various "manly" chores such as bug slaying and stuff fixing.

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RE: Slave Duties - 2/14/2009 2:36:18 AM

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*fast reply*
Our lives are a little different from most, because Sir has kidney failure and diabetes. We have a haemodialysis machine at home and three days a week (usually Monday, Wednesday and Friday) I set it up and stick cannulas in His arm (because His fistula is in such an awkward place He can't see to do it Himself) and He spends 8 hours hooked up to the machine.

So my duties on a dialysis day would be as follows:
Wake at 8am, test His blood sugars (BSL) and give long acting insulin.
I usually leave Him to sleep for half an hour more while I have breakfast in peace and psych myself up for the needle sticks.
I make His breakfast and get Him up (difficult sometimes because He has insomnia and has sometimes only been in bed for a few hours).
While He eats I set up the machine (usually takes about 40 mins) and clean the bench we use to cannulate on, and get everything together.
Put needles in, flush lines, take bloods if necessary (I run them to the hospital once He is on machine and is comfortable).
Connect to machine, check blood pump and pressures, do another BSL.
He usually sleeps while dialysing, during the time He is on I make a couple of meals and wake Him to eat, do regular checks of machine and more BSLs. I am able to leave Him for short periods (never longer than 90mins or so) to go shopping or to the gym. I have a cellphone with me and He has His close by in case of a problem.
At dialysis end, I help disconnect Him and take the cannulas out, clean the machine while He holds gauze over the spots where the needles were, and help Him tape up afterwards.

This is all on top of the usual household chores - I used to have someone to come in but found I could do a better job myself

Btw I am not a qualified nurse, I have learned to do these things in the last two years because Sir is so much better when He's getting the extra time on dialysis, plus our bed is much more comfy than a hospital one for someone who has arthritis in His back.

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RE: Slave Duties - 2/14/2009 2:52:15 PM

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This slave just wanted to take a moment to commend you. she was somewhat disappointed with many areas of this thread but your devotion and love for your Master touched her, you are a testament to that part of our souls that make us devoted slaves.
*dips her head*
thank you for showing the beauty of soul when this thread needed it most. ;)

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RE: Slave Duties - 2/14/2009 3:59:35 PM

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My Sir used to wake me up rather than the other way around, I could never hear the alarm clock for some reason, it became a standing joke...his foot on my ass kicking me out of bed and onto the floor with a 'wake up wench', used to make me giggle.

Besides the usual housework and PA type run around chores, many of the 'chores' he used to set for me were centered around my own self improvement and well being, as the same time as having an ulterior motive of course! The gym to keep fit, yoga keeping me supple, continuing my education, learning about different cultures and customs, keeping my confidence on a high etc. All these things made us both proud because in public he would hold his head high for having me there with him and i never once stopped feeling that pride burn into me.

In private he would share his secrets, his concerns and his desires, never worrying that the dynamic could alter. He even gave me 'me days' where he would do things for me instead, they never quite managed to extend to a full day but the gesture was there! But he would push me so hard, it wasn't all easy, there would be tears, I would question everything, sometimes I would be stroppy, sometimes just go off in a sulk, that was when the conversations would centre around what I can and cannot do, how I should and shouldn't behave, why i felt the need to be in a huff etc.

All this, it just made me crave him more. He moulded me and one day when I maybe meet my new dominant, I will realise just how far he brought me.
Sorry, think i am wandering off topic here...

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RE: Slave Duties - 2/14/2009 5:11:21 PM

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My M said i should post what my duties are at the moment. See he just had reconstructive surgery on his ankle and is drugged up and laid up. So my duties are to monitor his meds, food, fluid, activity, and comfort. I also bathe him, change the sheets, spray with a scent that he likes (vanilla today), plump his pillows, listen to his ouchies, talk to his doctors, get his refills on meds, find a flavor of ensure that he likes and serve it in a way that he likes, get his tea (change up the flavors so that he doesn't get bored and drinks enough fluids, cuddle him, find ways that he can still get to beat my ass when he wants to, keep the house clean, make food (then change what i am making because he changed his mind), find things to entertain him, elevate his leg then take the pillows out from under his leg, then put them back again, stay cheerful and available, stay out of his hair, stay close at hand, give him his space, and anything else that come up. Oh and give him unconditional love, but that isn't a duty, it is a joy.

that is most of it, but i am sure i am forgetting a few things, maybe even alot of things.

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RE: Slave Duties - 2/14/2009 9:14:00 PM

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Hi, i'm new to the site

and also the lifestyle. i was reading this thread and sent the link to my Dom, for Him to have a look at. He sent me an e-mail back requesting that i join in, and to state if i think He has set me a task or if it is a chore!! my Dom works away and we do live together. When He is home, His children stay a few nights, things have to be vanilla (ish), i'm careful not to give too much away about O/our lifestyle, this could make things difficult with the childrens mother.

i have set tasks :-
1) i am to write in my journal every day
2) i am to put 2 sets of clothes on the bed for him to choose what i will be wearing. Sometimes He will mix and match them (except when I go to work, I get to choose).
3) i am to perform a ritual when i enter the house (if the children are here, then i have to carry it out differently).
4) i am to be honest and open at all times, (He reads me like a book) so it is pointless me being anything other than those things, i am a hopeless liar.
5) i am to phone Him when He is away between certain times, no matter where He is in the world. This he put in place as it's something i was conditioned not to do in my last realtionship (vanilla). So he is un-training me.
6) to follow the correct protocol set out by Him, when in different social settings.
7) make myself available to Him at all times........i like that one :-)
8) when it is just U/us at home, i am to wear matching bra & g-string, or some other cute outfit that meets His approval.
9) to keep my nails painted and micured at all times. i have a job with my fingernails (due to my job), but I do try extra hard to keep them the best i can.
10) do whatever i like with my hair as long as it remains LONG

11) make sure there is a clean towel on the end of the bed, to clean up any mess

12) if i am to be punished, then i have to make sure i arrive on the mat wearing my punishment outfit (chosen and purchased by Sir).
13) i was to join a gym (this one caused grief the other night), i joined and didn't go,(i know, kind of defeats the purpose of joining), it is the first time he has put me back in my place using ANGRY words only

, they hurt more than the cane, needless to say i've been making much more of an effort, He's done with talking to me about it.
14) pick a night when He is home and use that night to pamper him........it's left up to me on how to........scary......I have to decide

i then get given one off tasks......example

a) this is the one i have at the moment, to insert vibrator and hold it in my pussy using my muscles........slippery little sucker......having some bother with that one
b) take a picture using my phone, send the picture then call him........leads to some fun over the phone

c) masturbate so many times a day, sometimes i'm allowed to come, but not always........i had to ask for a reprieve from that one last time, it had got up to 9 times a day, finding the time (with work), staying up late, or getting up early, not to mention my pussy was getting sore.
d) in 3 words only, tell Him why i wanted him as my Dom
Those are just a few.
Ok now to answer His question, do I think this is a task or a chore. It is not a task, as He said please, so it wasn't a direct order. I didn't consider it a chore either. I looked at it as a request, as He said, it was up to me if i went ahead and posted. Sir sometimes has a job in front of Him with my re-training, He said last night, everything He has asked of me so far...........i have complied........as yet i have not said no. It may be a request, but i know it will please Him if i do it.........so i do.......i want to please Him, i want Him to be proud to own me.

He cooks much better than i do, he also enjoys it.........i don't, i will do it, but it's not a task or a chore that has been set for me.
I do the laundry........just cause i do

and the housework, He is only home for 5 days, i do not want Him home and doing
chores that i can do, and as such it gives Him more time for relaxing and fun stuff, and Himself.

Aside from the original reason i came in and posted, may i say, CM is a great resource, and many an hour i have spent reading and soaking up the info posted by others.
Mostly everyone is polite to each other, and that's great to see for such a huge forum

cheers
housemouseinoz

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RE: Slave Duties - 2/15/2009 9:26:52 AM

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sir knows better to ask me to do any chores. he does for him self. i don't clean dishes, or his apartment nor do i wash his clothing i do not even dare think about cooking dinner for him.

Whenever there is an opportunity to please Master, I jump at it (most of the time). In the morning, I make coffee and serve it to Him. I have learned how He likes to have breakfast and sometimes other meals.

He rarely asks me to do anything around the house, especially since I do not live with Him. However, I take pleasure in helping Him with chores. Even though Master is capable of maintaining His own apartment, I do the dishes, sweep the floor, wash the laundry, and anything else that would make His life easier.

I do not have "duties". I do what I please, and a majority of the time, that is to do what pleases Him.

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