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Your thoughts please !! - 1/16/2006 2:04:45 PM   
dave1212


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I have recently tried watersports and also public humiliation i enjoyed both activities very much..
The question i would like to ask is :
Could you please tell me what you as Mistresses get out of this or what if anything it signifies to you !!
Many thanks..



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RE: Your thoughts please !! - 1/16/2006 3:24:23 PM   
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no one has yet answered you?

MY Ms likes to "claim" Her boys..with water sports..
but so far "I" am Her ONLY boy..

the rest?

i have NO idea.
maybe?
some do it coz it is fun for both parties?
maybe coz the-boy likes it?
maybe coz........?

take care


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RE: Your thoughts please !! - 1/16/2006 4:22:04 PM   
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i do not know myself, but am very interested, in both activities, and in reading the answers to your questions from the kind Dommes.

veronicaofML - are you ALMOST finished with that wall yet?

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RE: Your thoughts please !! - 1/22/2006 2:36:38 PM   
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Once I dove into a pool so hard my trunks came off. It was embarrassing and humiliating. All the ladies at the pool had a good laugh. So, I imagine Mistresses derive amusement from watersports and humiliation.

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RE: Your thoughts please !! - 1/23/2006 1:46:06 AM   
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Ahhh, but the use of a human toilet is just a nice treat! I enjoy knowing that the sub is, yes, 'claimed' I suppose. He/she is taking not only the exertions I give them of myself, but also my waste! Though, for some, it is the humiliation of the play. Suddenly that person is not worth anything more than a place to put what you no longer want: your waste.

Thus, I suppose that my use of someone in this way, affects me depending on what the sub is getting out of it.

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RE: Your thoughts please !! - 1/23/2006 9:49:37 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: dave1212
I have recently tried watersports and also public humiliation i enjoyed both activities very much..
The question i would like to ask is :
Could you please tell me what you as Mistresses get out of this or what if anything it signifies to you !!
Many thanks..



I'm responding to public humiliation, not watersports.

I absolutely *adore* public humiliation of My subs. In part, because it simply amuses Me. I always tell My subs "If I'm smiling, rest assured you're doing something right." I make it clear to them that it's very important to Me that I smile, laugh, and enjoy life. When I publicly humiliate them, I'm amused, and I laugh (out loud). That they stand there and take it, shows Me that they are willing to do what it takes to meet the goal of making Me smile and laugh, even if it comes at their own expense.

It's a bit of a power trip and a good way to keep My subs attentive. Through humiliating, I have the power to control My subs' emotions, stance, poise, and facial expressions, even when in a room full of people, and without even touching. I can hang the threat of humiliation over their head and keep them on their toes. It keeps them in line and quick to My needs if I hint at publicly humiliating. If I've told My boy to fetch Me a drink and he fails to comply within a matter of seconds, I can whisper in his ear "Or maybe when you stand up to fetch My drink, you prefer I tell all of these people about [such-and-such]." Chances are, he'll be more attentive to Me the rest of the evening for the fear of My revealing his embarrassing secret that he and I share.

It's also a form of bonding with Me. I humiliate in a very condescending manner. Others around us see it as demeaning and cold. At the time, My submissive is very embarassed and humiliated. After the fact though, I positively reinforce for the exact subject I was humiliating for and turn the same remark from condescending to coddling. My sub walks away knowing that I accept them for the subject at hand and that I find them special. They end up feeling like they are loved, accepted, protected, and nurtured by Me. They usually understand too, that only *I* have the power to do that to them, for if anyone else dared talk to My subs in a demeaning and disrespectful manner, I'd be quick to take up for them.

And I probably shouldn't leave out that I'm fond of attention. That combined with the public "shock factor", brings a sense of enjoyment when I see the reactions of others around us. (In an appropriate environment of course.)

Those are a few of the things I personally get out of it.
~Miss P.

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RE: Your thoughts please !! - 1/23/2006 1:15:43 PM   
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quote:

I have recently tried watersports and also public humiliation i enjoyed both activities very much..
The question i would like to ask is :
Could you please tell me what you as Mistresses get out of this or what if anything it signifies to you !!
Public humiliation I've only done in my head so far, and have very limited interest in it; I realize some people love it and need it, and have met men with whom I was incompatible because they were more interested in being humilated by me, than relating to me as a woman...
Watersports, I've done twice and loooved; for me, it just is another, more intimate way to connect with my boy if he enjoys and wishes to submit that way... Major turn on if/when we get there. M

< Message edited by BlkTallFullfig -- 1/23/2006 1:17:49 PM >


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RE: Your thoughts please !! - 1/23/2006 1:50:07 PM   
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I love public humilation, it pleases me to NO end

and agree fully with Miss P as to why I do it.

and

as far as watersports
Its an honor for my boi to receive my nectar. It please me to know that he is SO submissive and owned as to receive the pleasure of my waste. Its a very humbling and I adore humility

Miss Tanya


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RE: Your thoughts please !! - 1/24/2006 4:33:02 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Proprietrix

quote:

ORIGINAL: dave1212
I have recently tried watersports and also public humiliation i enjoyed both activities very much..
The question i would like to ask is :
Could you please tell me what you as Mistresses get out of this or what if anything it signifies to you !!
Many thanks..



I'm responding to public humiliation, not watersports.

I absolutely *adore* public humiliation of My subs. In part, because it simply amuses Me. I always tell My subs "If I'm smiling, rest assured you're doing something right." I make it clear to them that it's very important to Me that I smile, laugh, and enjoy life. When I publicly humiliate them, I'm amused, and I laugh (out loud). That they stand there and take it, shows Me that they are willing to do what it takes to meet the goal of making Me smile and laugh, even if it comes at their own expense.

It's a bit of a power trip and a good way to keep My subs attentive. Through humiliating, I have the power to control My subs' emotions, stance, poise, and facial expressions, even when in a room full of people, and without even touching. I can hang the threat of humiliation over their head and keep them on their toes. It keeps them in line and quick to My needs if I hint at publicly humiliating. If I've told My boy to fetch Me a drink and he fails to comply within a matter of seconds, I can whisper in his ear "Or maybe when you stand up to fetch My drink, you prefer I tell all of these people about [such-and-such]." Chances are, he'll be more attentive to Me the rest of the evening for the fear of My revealing his embarrassing secret that he and I share.

It's also a form of bonding with Me. I humiliate in a very condescending manner. Others around us see it as demeaning and cold. At the time, My submissive is very embarassed and humiliated. After the fact though, I positively reinforce for the exact subject I was humiliating for and turn the same remark from condescending to coddling. My sub walks away knowing that I accept them for the subject at hand and that I find them special. They end up feeling like they are loved, accepted, protected, and nurtured by Me. They usually understand too, that only *I* have the power to do that to them, for if anyone else dared talk to My subs in a demeaning and disrespectful manner, I'd be quick to take up for them.

And I probably shouldn't leave out that I'm fond of attention. That combined with the public "shock factor", brings a sense of enjoyment when I see the reactions of others around us. (In an appropriate environment of course.)

Those are a few of the things I personally get out of it.
~Miss P.


Miss P! You have hit the nail right on the head regarding why *I* love using public humiliation with my pup. Very nicely written! Thanks.


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RE: Your thoughts please !! - 1/30/2006 1:29:23 PM   
dave1212


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Thank you all for answering my questions with great wisdom !


As a relative newbie i just wanted to understand in a little more detail !!

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RE: Your thoughts please !! - 1/30/2006 2:24:28 PM   
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veronicaofML - are you ALMOST finished with that wall yet?
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what friggen wall ya talkin bout?


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RE: Your thoughts please !! - 1/30/2006 2:48:19 PM   
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Any form of humiliation is a power thing.

Water sports? I get nothing out of it.

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RE: Your thoughts please !! - 1/30/2006 2:51:53 PM   
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Hmmm... well.. I've gotten bonked on the head while playing water volleyball (ala meet the parents) does that count for watersports/humilation?

jk :P

Me personally.. the thought of being urinated on, doesnt appeal to me.. so that may be a hard limit for me..

however... watching is an entirely different story..
The intimacy involved.. well...who WOULDNT want to be closer with their Missus? (providing its earned of course :) )

For me..there's something inherently erotic about watching my Missus pee

I wish i could elaborate further.. but no clue how to explain it *scratches head*


Hope this helps


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RE: Your thoughts please !! - 1/30/2006 3:10:41 PM   
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The intimacy involved.. well...who WOULDNT want to be closer with their Missus? (providing its earned of course :) )

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me!


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RE: Your thoughts please !! - 1/30/2006 6:27:12 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: blackpearl81

Hmmm... well.. I've gotten bonked on the head while playing water volleyball (ala meet the parents) does that count for watersports/humilation?

jk :P

Me personally.. the thought of being urinated on, doesnt appeal to me.. so that may be a hard limit for me..

however... watching is an entirely different story..
The intimacy involved.. well...who WOULDNT want to be closer with their Missus? (providing its earned of course :) )

For me..there's something inherently erotic about watching my Missus pee

I wish i could elaborate further.. but no clue how to explain it *scratches head*


Hope this helps



Let me tell ya. I was with you on that. The idea totally grossed me out. And the idea that some guys liked to drink the stuff? Ewww, to each his own I guess. I was with you on that, until last Thursday.

It was late in our private scene. I was on my back and she had me lift my head and she put a towel under it. My first thought "what in the hell is the towel for?" Then the thought hit me. I was like OW MY GAWD!!! I didn't even have time to think about running when she said "open your mouth, but you don't have to swallow." First a trickle, then a flood. I was gone. It totally floored me. I just couldn't believe what was happening. It was creepy, it was gross, it seemed to last forever, IT WAS GLORIOUS! I can't explain it. But I felt totally hers. Completely in her power. She did not hit my mouth. But at the time I was wishing she would. Man was I flying.

The funny thing is, as I sit here and type this. I'm once again repulsed by the idea. Go figure. I sure can't figure it out

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RE: Your thoughts please !! - 1/30/2006 8:49:22 PM   
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The funny thing is, as I sit here and type this. I'm once again repulsed by the idea. Go figure. I sure can't figure it out
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well at least ya got the guts to openly admit...i admire that ..


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RE: Your thoughts please !! - 1/31/2006 8:55:58 AM   
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We are all a little on the...um...strange side. For myself, I'd take the golden shower as oppossed to say no-strings housework. But that's just me. Housework=limit. (Just don't let Ma'am see that, 'cause then I'd be doing housework dammit.)

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RE: Your thoughts please !! - 1/31/2006 12:13:57 PM   
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Wow thanks for all your replys and thoughts !!

It was the first time i had tried it myself !!! And i was a little shocked as to how enjoyable i found it !!!

Perhaps my own "hard" limits are on the move ??



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RE: Your thoughts please !! - 1/31/2006 12:26:39 PM   
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veronicaofML - are you ALMOST finished with that wall yet?
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what friggen wall ya talkin bout?


Ummm ... the one in your avatar ...

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RE: Your thoughts please !! - 1/31/2006 1:28:21 PM   
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Ummm ... the one in your avatar ...
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nawwwwwwwwww

new house new walls

didnt ya know??????????????
lol


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