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MARAA -> Looks and weight (3/1/2009 10:54:29 PM)

Hello, i would like to ask you about weight and looks. How important is looks and weight for you?
What are you looking after,if any particular?
"The stereotype" girl with long hair, small or not so big body and angelface how important is that?
How many of you would accept larger women? or opposite?
How much do you also look for the inside?
Thank you




SteelofUtah -> RE: Looks and weight (3/1/2009 10:58:36 PM)

Not Shallow. I like a person for who they are. And a girl who longs to serve and has that in her heart can be more beautiful than a hot body who has no desire to surrender.

Looks are Nice but it is amazing what connecting with someone on a serious level can do for the way you see them.

I like Big Girls and Little Girls so Size has never been of importance.

Steel




Maya2001 -> RE: Looks and weight (3/1/2009 11:39:10 PM)

everyone has personal preferences of some type or another  and certain preferences will matter more than others whether you are a sub, switch or dom/me...some may like big women but want them to be in a certain body shape, some will refuse a big women altogether  feeling they are unfit for the activities they enjoy both in BDSM and the vanilla part of their life, some will have age preferences that is important to them.  the thing is they are not wrong in having preferences that are important to them. Most  will far less preferences in a play partner than a life partner..that is reality.

The point is ..do not worry about what the majority find acceptable instead focus on finding the person that accepts you as you are it will create a lot less disappointments




Juliannadelion -> RE: Looks and weight (3/1/2009 11:42:56 PM)

I love big girls.  Could be because I am a big girl!!!  I have love for my smaller lovelies, but nothing turns me on more than a girl with a butt so big you can see it from the front!!!!

There are those that would rather be dead than seen with a woman that is overweight.  And that makes me a little sad for them because, big girls are soft and supple and ever so much fun.  And when you get done playing, you can order chinese and know she's not just going to sit there and pick at it, but actually enjoy it!

To each his own.  Be comfortable with who and what you are - the rest will follow.  If they don't like you - they don't have to look at you and you shouldn't waste your time sweetness. [:D]




kiwisub12 -> RE: Looks and weight (3/2/2009 7:38:50 AM)

My Sir likes big girls - and how!  He plays with smaller women, but body preference is big.  And as a big woman - i love that about him. [:D]





DavanKael -> RE: Looks and weight (3/2/2009 8:23:06 AM)

I don't find large women sexually appealing.  I don't have a primary interest in women. 
I have a wider range of things that appeal in a male partner, though there is a continuum beyond which i find difficult to imagine deviating.  I like large males.  Large in stature and if there is a bit of weight above what the charts say is optimal, I am okay with that to a degree. 
  Davan




jakelogan01 -> RE: Looks and weight (3/2/2009 8:41:59 AM)

each woman is different, inside and outside. and what matters in her cannot be measured in pounds




subangi -> RE: Looks and weight (3/2/2009 8:53:30 AM)

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ORIGINAL: jakelogan01

each woman is different, inside and outside. and what matters in her cannot be measured in pounds
Wow,  put so simply yet so powerful




kittinSol -> RE: Looks and weight (3/2/2009 8:55:41 AM)

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ORIGINAL: jakelogan01
each woman is different, inside and outside. and what matters in her cannot be measured in pounds


True: especially once you're inside.  




EclipseAbove -> RE: Looks and weight (3/2/2009 9:05:49 AM)

If I can find something attractive or sexy in someone's appearance, then their physical characteristics aren't a factor.  I very rarely see people that have nothing in their appearance that is appealing to me.  My focus is more on personality and their inner qualities.




jakelogan01 -> RE: Looks and weight (3/2/2009 9:16:38 AM)


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ORIGINAL: kittinSol

quote:

ORIGINAL: jakelogan01
each woman is different, inside and outside. and what matters in her cannot be measured in pounds


True: especially once you're inside.  


yeah...inside...that's the whole idea...isn't it?




DesFIP -> RE: Looks and weight (3/2/2009 11:51:06 AM)

Everybody has preferences, everybody needs a certain amount of chemistry.




cantilena -> RE: Looks and weight (3/2/2009 1:32:17 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MARAA

Hello, i would like to ask you about weight and looks. How important is looks and weight for you?
What are you looking after,if any particular?
"The stereotype" girl with long hair, small or not so big body and angelface how important is that?
How many of you would accept larger women? or opposite?
How much do you also look for the inside?
Thank you


I'll go out on a limb here and say that actions very often speak louder than words on this issue.  A lot of people will say they don't value looks as a big part of attraction, but I've found it's often so much pc bs when the time comes for the rubber to hit the road.

I don't think there's anything wrong with preferring certain looks in a partner and I wish more people would be candid about it.  If those preferences mean they're attracted to pretty women who eat right and take care of themselves with physical fitness, that should be just as fine as preferring those who eat junk and don't exercise.  There shouldn't be a wrong answer.

As for me, well, I do admit it.  I prefer tall, handsome men who are very physically fit and within 10 years of my own age.  I didn't settle for less.





VeryNastyDom -> RE: Looks and weight (3/2/2009 2:13:48 PM)

There is that slave heart in some women that you simply cannot resist.  Tall, short, skinny, fat, blonde, brunette, redhead, or bald, if  you find a good one you grab them before somebody else does.  I will take a less attractive, dare I say ugly, woman with a great mind over a smoking hot bimbo any day.




Huntertn -> RE: Looks and weight (3/2/2009 6:50:24 PM)

If they don't have it inside..then the outside doesn't count..if they do have it inside..the outside still doesn't count..but I like the overripe girls myself..LOL




bandofthehawk176 -> RE: Looks and weight (3/2/2009 8:38:32 PM)

The subject of wieght and looks is a completely personal choice. Everyone has their own personal style and often then level of submission and devotion to serve must be taken into acount. There is no symple yes or no answer for this subject.




OrionTheWolf -> RE: Looks and weight (3/2/2009 11:12:31 PM)

 

quote:

ORIGINAL: MARAA

Hello, i would like to ask you about weight and looks. How important is looks and weight for you?
What are you looking after,if any particular?
"The stereotype" girl with long hair, small or not so big body and angelface how important is that?


My girl has long hair, very petite, weighs about 100 pounds at 5'3". She has very striking and beautiful facial features.

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How many of you would accept larger women? or opposite?


Some may like larger women, but 120 pounds or so is about my max.

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How much do you also look for the inside?
Thank you


Personality and intelligence mean a lot as well. This is why I have had only 4 slaves in 15 years. I am very picky. Primarily beauty to look at, obedience and to be pleasing is the main requirements.




MARIEL -> RE: Looks and weight (3/2/2009 11:13:30 PM)

Thank you so much,Masters/Dom/Ma´m for your replies.




oneseriousmaster -> RE: Looks and weight (3/3/2009 2:29:00 AM)

Women are like men, they come in all sort of shapes and sizes, and the important areas of the body all seem to have common locations....but to me the nicest feature any of them can have is a great big smile as they kiss me goodnight!




Asherdelampyr -> RE: Looks and weight (3/3/2009 3:39:33 AM)

I love a woman that I can take out to a good dinner and know that it wont be wasted by her ordering a salad :)
I truly adore almost all sizes and shapes of women, that is just the way I am




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