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RE: A couple Q's on slaves... - 3/6/2009 10:40:58 AM   
Kana


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RE: A couple Q's on slaves... - 3/6/2009 12:50:42 PM   
WiseCracknSadist


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Status: offline 		I think you should club her in the head when she's not looking then shackle her in your basement.

Now if you don't have a basement you're going to need to move. My advice would be to get a really cute real estate agent so when she finds you the right house you can kill twp birds with one stone.

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RE: A couple Q's on slaves... - 3/6/2009 6:11:09 PM   
MarcEsadrian


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ORIGINAL: darkblonde

New male to the site and I am looking into getting my first slave. I need to find one, and since I am totally new to this, I would LOVE some direction. What are the best methods for getting a slave and how should I go about doing it?


Self-reflection and eschewing this concept of "need" is where I'd start, foremost. Knowing that most would-be "slaves" are not in reality suited for such a way of life is a truth I'd sober up to, second. Authenticity is rare from both sides of M/s. Be prepared for a long search, if you're really serious.



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RE: A couple Q's on slaves... - 3/6/2009 8:17:04 PM   
SirDarkside357


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Status: offline 		Keep your eyes open, Walmart runs specials on them at times.  I just had to say it.  But really, the truth is keep your eyes open, they are everywhere, and some don't even know it yet.  Be patient, stay on the move, and always...always pay attention.  You'll trip over one if you don't and miss out.

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RE: A couple Q's on slaves... - 3/10/2009 9:03:42 PM   
masterlink65


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Status: offline 		he never said he was looking for a female. he said he was looking for a slave. needs a slave i believe it said

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RE: A couple Q's on slaves... - 3/11/2009 7:53:10 AM   
DomM&SubK


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Status: offline 		Ok First let me say I started out as a Sub to a Dom that freed me rather quickly because I was too much of a dominant for him to handle. So I was a Dom for many years and at times the Dom inside me comes out. But this is what I see from looking at your profile.

Looking for a female
slave for part time edging,
cum collection, humiliation, and fucking.

This is all you have in it and your likes and dislikes that we all fill in when we join.
So to my topic you need to make it more HUMAN and less ASS HOLE! Because as a lady if any one sent me an email it would go to the trash Because of what the profile say or dint say.

I truly hope that you under stand that that is what I see from what you have in the profile is you’re just looking for a lady to abuse and not train and nurture in the craft or lifestyle. Another thing to think of is “Dominance is an art crafted from the heart Submission can only be given from the heart.”  Also you need to know that Masters are Born not made just like Slave are Born not made.

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RE: A couple Q's on slaves... - 3/11/2009 7:55:23 AM   
IrishMist


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ORIGINAL: Kana

I always buy mine on E-bay.
Never pay full price
Good guarantee
Large selection
And a selection from around the world.


Barring that, I man up, grab some decency, integrity and honesty and go searching.

Though I have heard from a few friends into the kink, that there is a web site called CollarMe that is exemplary in the slave finding regard.


Wal-mart is better.
Money back guarantee.



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RE: A couple Q's on slaves... - 3/11/2009 8:04:40 AM   
masterlink65


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Looking for a female
slave for part time edging,
cum collection, humiliation, and fucking.


i dont see how this is inhuman and makes him an asshole one thing i cannot stand is a mouthy sub.

how is this abusive or how do you read into these 14 words as he wants to beat someone?

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RE: A couple Q's on slaves... - 3/11/2009 11:51:53 AM   
DomM&SubK


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Status: offline 		I am not being Mouthy and i know he never said abusive. But from the lack of any information i told him what i as a Sub and My Sir and i both saw from his profile. Nothing he is looking for pretty much a CUM WHORE and we were tring to offer up an idea to help him in his search. If being honest makes me Mouthy than i am. Thank You Master M and Slave K

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RE: A couple Q's on slaves... - 3/11/2009 1:22:23 PM   
masterlink65


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Status: offline 		hmmmmmm, a slave speaking for its master. thats a new one for me. however i dont think i will be using that one anytime soon. read what you wrote at the end."what you have in your profile is you are just looking for a lady to abuse and not train" looking at the OP's profile is says nothing of abusing anyone, and the profile also has a large list of likes and dislikes.

dominance is not an art. it is either part of you or it is not. it cannot be taught, just as common sense cannot be taught.

as far as i know,,, the OP still NEEDS a slave.

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RE: A couple Q's on slaves... - 3/11/2009 7:47:25 PM   
DomM&SubK


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Status: offline 		I didnt mean abuse is the negative sence i ment in the kinkster lifestyle

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RE: A couple Q's on slaves... - 3/11/2009 8:54:56 PM   
WyldHrt


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i dont see how this is inhuman and makes him an asshole one thing i cannot stand is a mouthy sub

One thing I cannot stand is a dominant too lazy to use proper punctuation and capitalization.

To the OP- A one sentence profile that says nothing about who you are and lacks a photo is not the best way to find a slave. If that one sentence talks only about what you want kink-wise, your initial letter is very likely to wind up binned by many if not most people that you contact. That said, please do some reading and get a better understanding of what it is you seek.


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RE: A couple Q's on slaves... - 3/11/2009 8:58:28 PM   
Lynnxz


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quote:

ORIGINAL: masterlink65

quote:

Looking for a female
slave for part time edging,
cum collection, humiliation, and fucking.


i dont see how this is inhuman and makes him an asshole one thing i cannot stand is a mouthy sub.

how is this abusive or how do you read into these 14 words as he wants to beat someone?



Dude, loosen up that tie. It's just an opinion... and pretty sure as SubK doesn't belong to you, that s/he doesn't have to go by your 'mouthy' rule.


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RE: A couple Q's on slaves... - 3/11/2009 9:03:59 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		I like mouthy sub's.  Especially when they get on the nerve's of sensitive dom's who think they rule the world.  I also like submissive's to get a bit of respect with the useage of submissive rather than sub's.  Too bad we don't always get what we like...

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RE: A couple Q's on slaves... - 3/11/2009 9:12:17 PM   
Lynnxz


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ORIGINAL: masterlink65

hmmmmmm, a slave speaking for its master. thats a new one for me. however i dont think i will be using that one anytime soon. read what you wrote at the end."what you have in your profile is you are just looking for a lady to abuse and not train" looking at the OP's profile is says nothing of abusing anyone, and the profile also has a large list of likes and dislikes.

dominance is not an art. it is either part of you or it is not. it cannot be taught, just as common sense cannot be taught.

as far as i know,,, the OP still NEEDS a slave.



You know... if someone presumed so much to call me an "it" in person without my express permission... I'd expect I'd get pretty jacked off. Online though, it just appears to be another dude trying to stroke his epeen.

Soooo. Yes.


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RE: A couple Q's on slaves... - 3/11/2009 9:50:45 PM   
Interesdom


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quote:

ORIGINAL: darkblonde
New male to the site and I am looking into getting my first slave. I need to find one, and since I am totally new to this, I would LOVE some direction. What are the best methods for getting a slave and how should I go about doing it?

I have to agree with some of the earlier replies.  Especially "why do you want a slave?"  That's not a stupid question - it's one you really should think through:
WHY do you want a slave (that is, what is you true motivation and is it good for you and a potential slave);
Why do you NEED a slave (since there was such an implication in your post);
above all: Why do you want a SLAVE?  (They are a lot of responsibility.)
and to directly consider the matter from the woman's viewpoint: Why do YOU want a slave?

I read from your profile that you want a female of indeterminate age, weight, color, height, appearance etc. who is sexually liberated into something vaguely to do with S&M.  (My understanding is vague about what you want as I don't know what you mean by 'part time edging'.  I hope you, as a newbie, don't mean you intend to get into what people on this site would consider edge play anytime soon!)

Alt.com might be a better place and there are other ways to find a kinky girl who might well suit you.  In the meantime, by all means hang around here reading forums and read generally on the more established BDSM web sites.  And work hard at being a man worthy of a woman voluntarily giving up so much.

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RE: A couple Q's on slaves... - 3/11/2009 11:19:37 PM   
IronBear


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ORIGINAL: masterlink65

hmmmmmm, a slave speaking for its master. thats a new one for me. however i dont think i will be using that one anytime soon.




Not sure where you've been hiding then old chap. Most of the slaves and more than half of the submissives I know socially speak for their Master, Mistress or Dominant when said Master, Mistress or Dominant is not there. Admittedly they speak on behalf in areas in which they know about and probably been briefed. I can assure yiou that a slave who graduates from a Bruin Cottage Collar to my personal one, will as part of her duties speak on behalf of my Wife and I if we are unavailable such as one would expect any Aide de Comp to do. In the circles I move in it is rather the norm than unusuall..


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RE: A couple Q's on slaves... - 3/12/2009 1:31:58 AM   
ApathyRomance


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Status: offline 		Africa.  Old school.

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RE: A couple Q's on slaves... - 3/12/2009 6:49:11 AM   
DomM&SubK


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Status: offline 		I would really like to thank you all for your support and that yes I am alowed to Speek for Sir when he is at work since i called him and said i have a issue and i would like to know what to do about it so i wrote what i was told to and posted it.  I was also told By MY MASTER that yes i can get my panties in a twist at times since at times i will go from Sub/Slave Mode to Dom/Bitch mode when i feel that the need is there.  

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RE: A couple Q's on slaves... - 3/12/2009 8:57:19 PM   
masterlink65


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Status: offline 		i dont hide anywhere. last i knew, slaves were owned property. i do not let my cat or my motorcycle speak for me. why then would i have my slave speak for me? i am perfectly capable of doing that myself. i am sure you have all noticed. in an all male household there are no wives here,,,, only master and slaves.

the man needs a slave. i female slave from what i have read. so,,,,,hook him up.

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