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ORIGINAL: beargonewild

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ORIGINAL: masterlink65

a master that cannot keep its slave in place, is not much of a master in my eyes, sure isnt much of a dom ..maybe your egos should be checked before mine. first time i have heard of making a true statement is seen as an ego exposure, i think alot of people on here are confused as to how to use the terms of the lifestyle properly. with some experience and some guidance, hopefully this misuse of terms will cease

That may be true if all masters were created from the same mold yet that isn't the case. You have to realize that each M/s relationship is uniquely created and lived according to how the people in that relation want it to be. Look....you can see that with the responses you are receiving to your posts, many do not agree with your concept of a master/slave dynamic. This expected because you live your dynamic how you see fit, other do the same with theirs.
It would be nice if you and other would understand that there is no Book of Rules that specifically spell out how to create and live a master/slave relationship, same way there is no book that tells you how to be a master or me how to be a switch. We learn as we we go in the realm of BDSM.

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

You live in Colorado Springs... so the first step for you, after you determine what kind of Master you are, would be to attend the Celebration of Power munches.  If you don't want to do that, then head north to Denver and go to The Enclave.  The alternative to getting a ready-for-Domming slavegirl is to meet someone in the nilla world and covert them.

Summary - logoff and go into the world.

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ORIGINAL: subangi

When i started shopping for one,  I observed there behavior in the cage...some peed when i spoke to them, others tried scratching out of there cage to come to me, and some just gave me that look of "take me home with you, I want you to be my master".  Oh, wait, you are talking of getting a slave, not a dog.  Nevermind me then.

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ORIGINAL: MG4Apuppygirl

Just had a look at your profile. First off slaves are full time 24 hours a day 7 days a week 365 days a year. Secondly there are no slaves left in the world since subbies apparently got rights in their relationship dynamics. Thirdly if there was such thing as a slave "it" would smell you like a rat and steer clear of you. You are out of your depth and considering what you are looking for would be far better off with a prostitute. 

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ORIGINAL: MG4Apuppygirl

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ORIGONAL:SirsHolly

anyone can post on any thread in any forum as long as there is not a violation of the TOS.

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ORIGINAL: masterlink65

in my year and a half on here, and also from other sites over many years now, i have noticed that the hetero community of this lifestyle tends to use terms more loosely than their gay counterparts.

if a slave spoke for its master around my circle of friends, it would not raise eyebrows, it would turn heads, and not in a good way.

the term daddy, is not equal to master. the daddy/boy scene is a role play of younger/older, an intergenerational scene.

sub does not equal slave

leather is for bdsm and fashion, and does not make you a slave or a master

slave does not equal her. i see that alot of that here.

our two worlds are alot different.

i have noticed how people say wife, sub , slave all in the same sentence. i see my slaves as more than that, a multitool, to use and command as i see fit.

this seems more like a costume party for most, rather than a lifestyle. temporary collar, D/s parties, partner swap. yuck

i have a great responsibility to my slaves to ensure that its commitment to me is safe and complete.

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ORIGINAL: masterlink65

i do understand others have different lifestyles.

the words do not change meaning though. do you refer to your doctor as your mechanic?

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ORIGINAL: badlilthang
OP..in my opinion is looking for a kinky playmate - not a slave - maybe he thinks it will be easier to get a girl to do "dirty" things if he calls her a slave?**

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ORIGINAL: chamberqueen

As a slave I can tell you that I already saw a yellow flag in your post - when you said that you need to find one.  For what?  To do your dishes?  Paint your house?  Seeing statements like that put slaves on alert because it makes it look as if you are not in control of yourself.