HeavansKeeper
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Pardon my constant intrusion into the Ask a Mistress forum, it's simply more lively and fun here. Though BoiJen's question specified "in front of other FemDoms" I'm going to generalize it to dominants, for the purposes of my answer. There is an expectation of a slave, though it varies from house to house. Pet's slave mantra is "You say, I do. I swallow. I thank you." No where does it include forming opinions, or saying no to tasks we agree she can and will do. Assuming I'm doing my job (as there are expectations on slave owners as well), her refusal would come as a complete surprise to me. I'd be taken aback, and in that time of surprise, I'd have a brief moment to ponder why. I have some experience with curbing such sudden and awkward changes in atmosphere. I'd probably switch from tasks to humiliation, but soothe the poor pet with a pat on the head. Hopefully the atmosphere remains fairly stable, and I can deal with the toy's limitations when I get back to my lab. I understand playing in public magnifies the force of acts such that a "simple" task becomes mentally, physically, emotionally laborious. Assuming it was a case of willful disobedience, a "No" followed with a grin and a wag of the tail, I'd play it cool. Remembering I have the power, I switch her task to something in which she receives, not provides. Example, if she was tasked with stripping, and said no, then I would have her be fondled. Should she continue this "no" attitude I'd be forced to set down my toy. If my pet was aware her obedience was being tested, and she purposefully failed the task, I would be disappointed. My punishment for disappointment is not, in any way, fun. If I had Pet sleep in a different room, she'd cry all night. It's not where I want "us" to ever be. If my pet was aware her obedience was being tested, and failed the task outside of her control, there is no punishment. Her failing as a slave is my failing as a trainer. Share victory, share defeat.
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