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New Forum required: Daddy Doms - 3/13/2009 8:22:27 PM   
respectyourowner


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We really need a new forum with a discussion on Daddy Doms. Does anyone know how to make the request for a new forum?



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RE: New Forum required - 3/13/2009 8:23:11 PM   
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You already have one, its called Ask a Master

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RE: New Forum required - 3/13/2009 8:25:00 PM   
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It is not the same thing. A Daddy Dom lifestyle is quite different from other BSDM lifestyles.

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You already have one, its called Ask a Master

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RE: New Forum required - 3/13/2009 8:27:24 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: respectyourowner

It is not the same thing. A Daddy Dom lifestyle is quite different from other BSDM lifestyles.

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You already have one, its called Ask a Master



Not really

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RE: New Forum required: Daddy Doms - 3/13/2009 8:27:29 PM   
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A Daddy Dom is the most tender of all Dominants. He loves His adult (18+) little one with an undying passion. He always has his submissive's best interest in mind, even when it conflicts with his personal desires. That doesn't mean that he gives into her every whim. There can be a huge difference in her desires and her real needs. He has to be able to make that sacrifice for her if needed. And yes, at times he does punish her. This usually hurts him just as much if not more than her, but he will always do what's best for her.
He helps her set and reach her goals in life, not just in the lifestyle. He will help her improve herself to be the best she can be, not for HIM but for her ! He's not just looking to make her a better submissive, but a better person in general.

He becomes many things in her life, a mentor, a teacher, a protector, a guide, AND a lover! He offers her what she needs most of all, unconditional love and acceptance. He is consistent in his actions so that she knows what to expect from him, she knows she can depend on him!

He wants nothing more than to pull her close and protect her from the cruel world. But knowing all along that he can't ! So it is up to him to prepare her for whatever life may bring her way, and be there to comfort her when things go wrong. Knowing she will run to him when she becomes overwhelmed or frighten by the harshness of life. The Daddy Dom listens to all her fears and concerns, knowing no matter how silly or childish they may sound to him, to her they are real and he will help her confront them. He slays her dragons so to speak and he is her "Knight in Shining Armor".

The Daddy Dom hears all her dreams, desires and all the dirty little secrets, and smiles because she is bold enough and loves him enough to open herself up so totally to him. He kisses her face and holds her close letting her know she is loved no matter what. she is His little one, and he loves her unconditionally.

There is nothing more satisfying to him than to see her succeed, to watch as she grows as a person. He revels in her daily accomplishments almost as much as she does herself.

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RE: New Forum required - 3/13/2009 8:29:03 PM   
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I am well aware, but you do not REQUIRE your own forum. AS a male dom, you are a master, which means you already have a forum for Ask a Master.
You want your own spot, make a thread in it.

If every incarnation of every type of relatinship had its own forum, thered be tons.

Work with what you have like everyone else here has been for so long. There are many daddy doms on CM, and baby girls/baby boys. They have managed quite well without their own forum, they use whats already here and watch or relavent threads.

And, what you descibed is not exclusive to daddy doms either. There are plenty of us who love and care for our sub/slave that way without the terminology of their being littles.





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RE: New Forum required: Daddy Doms - 3/13/2009 8:31:20 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: respectyourowner

A Daddy Dom is the most tender of all Dominants. He loves His adult (18+) little one with an undying passion. He always has his submissive's best interest in mind, even when it conflicts with his personal desires. That doesn't mean that he gives into her every whim. There can be a huge difference in her desires and her real needs. He has to be able to make that sacrifice for her if needed. And yes, at times he does punish her. This usually hurts him just as much if not more than her, but he will always do what's best for her.
He helps her set and reach her goals in life, not just in the lifestyle. He will help her improve herself to be the best she can be, not for HIM but for her ! He's not just looking to make her a better submissive, but a better person in general.

He becomes many things in her life, a mentor, a teacher, a protector, a guide, AND a lover! He offers her what she needs most of all, unconditional love and acceptance. He is consistent in his actions so that she knows what to expect from him, she knows she can depend on him!

He wants nothing more than to pull her close and protect her from the cruel world. But knowing all along that he can't ! So it is up to him to prepare her for whatever life may bring her way, and be there to comfort her when things go wrong. Knowing she will run to him when she becomes overwhelmed or frighten by the harshness of life. The Daddy Dom listens to all her fears and concerns, knowing no matter how silly or childish they may sound to him, to her they are real and he will help her confront them. He slays her dragons so to speak and he is her "Knight in Shining Armor".

The Daddy Dom hears all her dreams, desires and all the dirty little secrets, and smiles because she is bold enough and loves him enough to open herself up so totally to him. He kisses her face and holds her close letting her know she is loved no matter what. she is His little one, and he loves her unconditionally.

There is nothing more satisfying to him than to see her succeed, to watch as she grows as a person. He revels in her daily accomplishments almost as much as she does herself.


Everything you just described I have experienced as a slave with a Master. I don't think what you specifically described above is any different from other dynamics whatever they choose to call it.

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RE: New Forum required: Daddy Doms - 3/13/2009 8:36:39 PM   
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I wonder how the other dominants, male and female, will feel about the elitist attitude that becasue you are a Daddy Dom, you are the "tenderist" and all that.

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RE: New Forum required: Daddy Doms - 3/13/2009 8:49:27 PM   
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You've described my relationship with my Sir.

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RE: New Forum required: Daddy Doms - 3/13/2009 8:51:08 PM   
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There's no need for new forums every time someone wants to talk about stuff, that's what polls and random stupidit and the off topic forum are for.

Use the search button and put in Daddy dom, there's at least 10 hits already.
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We really need a new forum with a discussion on Daddy Doms. Does anyone know how to make the request for a new forum?



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RE: New Forum required: Daddy Doms - 3/13/2009 8:58:38 PM   
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i will step in line with the others that have this relationship  without their Master being a daddy to them.

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RE: New Forum required: Daddy Doms - 3/13/2009 9:01:41 PM   
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OP you will have c mail in a bit.  I understand your possible reasoning, but I am not sure it will be adequate to change anything.  I don't think such a change is necessary personally.

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RE: New Forum required: Daddy Doms - 3/13/2009 9:08:27 PM   
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IT's a nice idea, but it's not soley limited to Daddies, any dom I've ever had could fit that description. And it's in fact qualities I look for in Doms.

Plus there's no one way to be a Daddy, You don't have to love and care for someone or care about their wishes, if you have a partner who  doesn't want lovey dovery stuff from the one they are lil girls to.
quote:

ORIGINAL: respectyourowner

A Daddy Dom is the most tender of all Dominants. He loves His adult (18+) little one with an undying passion. He always has his submissive's best interest in mind, even when it conflicts with his personal desires. That doesn't mean that he gives into her every whim. There can be a huge difference in her desires and her real needs. He has to be able to make that sacrifice for her if needed. And yes, at times he does punish her. This usually hurts him just as much if not more than her, but he will always do what's best for her.
He helps her set and reach her goals in life, not just in the lifestyle. He will help her improve herself to be the best she can be, not for HIM but for her ! He's not just looking to make her a better submissive, but a better person in general.

He becomes many things in her life, a mentor, a teacher, a protector, a guide, AND a lover! He offers her what she needs most of all, unconditional love and acceptance. He is consistent in his actions so that she knows what to expect from him, she knows she can depend on him!

He wants nothing more than to pull her close and protect her from the cruel world. But knowing all along that he can't ! So it is up to him to prepare her for whatever life may bring her way, and be there to comfort her when things go wrong. Knowing she will run to him when she becomes overwhelmed or frighten by the harshness of life. The Daddy Dom listens to all her fears and concerns, knowing no matter how silly or childish they may sound to him, to her they are real and he will help her confront them. He slays her dragons so to speak and he is her "Knight in Shining Armor".

The Daddy Dom hears all her dreams, desires and all the dirty little secrets, and smiles because she is bold enough and loves him enough to open herself up so totally to him. He kisses her face and holds her close letting her know she is loved no matter what. she is His little one, and he loves her unconditionally.

There is nothing more satisfying to him than to see her succeed, to watch as she grows as a person. He revels in her daily accomplishments almost as much as she does herself.

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RE: New Forum required: Daddy Doms - 3/13/2009 9:08:57 PM   
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quote:

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We really need a new forum with a discussion on Daddy Doms.

No, we don't.

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RE: New Forum required: Daddy Doms - 3/13/2009 9:10:58 PM   
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*waves to Eleven*

OP, there's your answer.


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RE: New Forum required: Daddy Doms - 3/13/2009 9:18:26 PM   
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Nuff said. Eleven has spoken.

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RE: New Forum required: Daddy Doms - 3/13/2009 9:19:08 PM   
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wow, what a way to insult the other dominants here, including the Mommies. 

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RE: New Forum required: Daddy Doms - 3/13/2009 9:31:17 PM   
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It is just one of many lifestyles. Femdom is another lifestyle. There is nothing wrong with either.

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I wonder how the other dominants, male and female, will feel about the elitist attitude that becasue you are a Daddy Dom, you are the "tenderist" and all that.

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RE: New Forum required: Daddy Doms - 3/13/2009 9:35:20 PM   
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But I dont see any of us FemDommes saying that we need a specific forum for our TYPE of lifestyle because it is different than the Domme groups.  I am a Mommy Domme, A sadist, a Fem-husband with a male wife... and amazingly all 3 can work just as well in the Ask a Mistress becasue thats over all what I am though I dislike the term.

You are a male dom, so classed under Master. Use the forum provied and search for the many other Daddys that use it along with you. You might be a unique little snowflake, but you dont need to be an elitest one.


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RE: New Forum required: Daddy Doms - 3/13/2009 9:43:48 PM   
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I am far from an elitist. This lifestyle is unique and different but more common then you might expect. I have not and will not criticize other lifestyles or call them elitist.

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But I dont see any of us FemDommes saying that we need a specific forum for our TYPE of lifestyle because it is different than the Domme groups.  I am a Mommy Domme, A sadist, a Fem-husband with a male wife... and amazingly all 3 can work just as well in the Ask a Mistress becasue thats over all what I am though I dislike the term.

You are a male dom, so classed under Master. Use the forum provied and search for the many other Daddys that use it along with you. You might be a unique little snowflake, but you dont need to be an elitest one.


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