ShaktiSama
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ORIGINAL: strangedesire I find it baffling - I'm not experienced enough to have technique worth paying for, nor am I dominatrix-pretty. I'm sure that other women get this, but I'm wondering if anyone knows why. The men who contacted me had clearly read my profile, and when I asked them who they picked me rather than one of the many pros on CM, each told me that he found me intriguing for some reason. (Fair enough. I'm certainly unusual.) Still, I'm hard-pressed to think of a vanilla equivalent of this behavior. I've experienced the vanilla equivalent on a couple of occasions. It wasn't particularly that I was dressed as a prostitute or carrying myself like one. But I was an attractive woman standing or walking alone on Davie Street on a Friday or Saturday night--and hope springs eternal, darlin'. Sometimes when a man is in the market for an item and he sees the one he wants, he makes an offer--whether there is a "for sale" sign up or not. As for the various self-esteem issues that seem to crop up in your OP--I'm with RedMagic. Don't do it to yourself. Your looks are fine; you have good skin, a pretty smile, and a figure that many men find attractive. As for what submissive/masochistic men find appealing about your profile; I would hazard a guess that they are attracted by the unmistakeable stamp of intelligence, the clearly articulated desires and expectations, and the absolutely unambivalent and unapologetic sadism that you profess. These are features that you cannot learn and you cannot buy. A woman either has two brain cells to rub together and a natural, inborn streak of pure sadism--or she doesn't. You cannot fake either one, no matter how well you memorize the script or how prettily you sneer and posture for the camera. A woman who genuinely wants and needs to hurt men for her own pleasure is worth her weight in gold--no matter how much she weighs.
< Message edited by ShaktiSama -- 3/22/2009 10:50:22 AM >
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