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breakme -> Only allowed water (no juice, milk, beer, etc.) (4/4/2009 4:34:35 PM)

My Mistress has recently decided that I am only allowed to drink water (no juice, milk, beer, etc.). If I eat things like yogurt to get my calcium, eat lots of fruits and veggies to get vitamins, and so on, is this okay or should I be doing other things?  Thank you.



MissEnchanted -> RE: Only allowed water (no juice, milk, beer, etc.) (4/4/2009 5:21:56 PM)

Drinking all that water along with plenty of fruits and veggies sounds good to me breakme.

What proteins are you taking in along with that?





breakme -> RE: Only allowed water (no juice, milk, beer, etc.) (4/4/2009 5:26:18 PM)

MissEnchanted, I eat chicken, pork, nuts and other things like those for protein.



AngelGeena -> RE: Only allowed water (no juice, milk, beer, etc.) (4/4/2009 5:27:03 PM)

Water is the only hydration we actually need.  We are actually supposed to get our needed vitamins/minerals, etc from the foods we eat.  Not sure how the beer fit into the healthy category.....*snorts*



maybemaybenot -> RE: Only allowed water (no juice, milk, beer, etc.) (4/4/2009 5:50:35 PM)

Is this forever and ever, amen ? Or a finite period of time ?
How do you feel about it ?
There is nothing harmful about it. I personally couldn't do it for an extended period of time. I like different tastes too much.
Just out of curiosity, is this an online Mistress or RL ?



breakme -> RE: Only allowed water (no juice, milk, beer, etc.) (4/4/2009 5:57:22 PM)

I think this is forever? I like different tastes too. :( Online currently.



saphyreslady -> RE: Only allowed water (no juice, milk, beer, etc.) (4/4/2009 6:47:36 PM)

Is this plain water, tap water, flavored water?  Most all beverages have an element of water in them and there is such a thing as having too much water in your system.  I cannot see doing this forever...



DesFIP -> RE: Only allowed water (no juice, milk, beer, etc.) (4/4/2009 9:10:12 PM)

Go see a nutritionist and make sure your diet is appropriate.
Add in a multivitamin.

How many oranges do you have to eat to equal an 8 oz glass of orange juice?
How much yogurt do you need to consume to get a daily dose of calcium. And if this yogurt has sugar in it, it's less healthy than drinking skim milk.




sub4hire -> RE: Only allowed water (no juice, milk, beer, etc.) (4/5/2009 12:10:20 PM)


Seems pretty harmless to me.  I drink mostly water.  Water is the only thing that quenches my thirst.  As long as you aren't drinking 5 gallons a day there is nothing wrong with it.

Though, for someone online.  If it is a major change to you, I don't know if I could do it.  I think I'd want to know where the relationship is going and what is our time frame.

Nothing wrong with someone wanting you to be healthy.  Especially if they are. 
If you have too many doubts, ask your doctor.




RealSub58 -> RE: Only allowed water (no juice, milk, beer, etc.) (4/5/2009 12:18:10 PM)

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barelynangel -> RE: Only allowed water (no juice, milk, beer, etc.) (4/5/2009 12:22:21 PM)

There should be nothing physically hindering with drinking only water. Water is what our body is made to drink as its made of mostly water, the other stuff is crap humans have created for taste effect and enjoyment. I mean does she want you to stop eating oranges so you won't be drinking any oj, if not, you can always juice the fruits and veggies to make it liquid. Or she expecting you to cut out crap like beer and pop, perhaps coffee etc, especially if you don't drink water much. My doc is making me give up pop and coffee etc because i usually don't drink any water when i drink those all day. The human body doesn't need most of the crap people put into it, so going to just water may only put a pressure on you through a concept of cravings or simply wanting a different taste. However, you can usually get this through food including all your nutritional aspects. And going cold turkey will probably be a bitch, at least it is for me when i let go of my pop and coffee (which is really only what i drink outside of water).

Most juices are loaded with sugar, beer well you don't need that to live, do you drink a lot of milk or is it a concept of you believe you will want it now because you can't have it. BUt all in all, water only isn't unhealthy. Does she expect you to give up cereal if you eat it with milk.

However, that is a VERY BIG expectation for forever especially if this is an online relationship, wherein, she isn't there to evaluate the effects of her commands and you are changing your life for an online relationship. It may be something of an insentive to move this to an offline relationship prior to making such life changing decisions -- although, this doesn't sound like a bad one or unhealthy one, just going to probably be a difficult one.

angel




lronitulstahp -> RE: Only allowed water (no juice, milk, beer, etc.) (4/5/2009 12:23:56 PM)

As far as orders go, it's not harmful to you, it may actually benefit you in the long run, and it won't have you arrested...so better than 90% of most OL only realtionships[;)]
That being said
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My Mistress has recently decided that I am only allowed to drink water (no juice, milk, beer, etc.). If I eat things like yogurt to get my calcium, eat lots of fruits and veggies to get vitamins, and so on, is this okay or should I be doing other things?  Thank you.
  Why not read up on nutrition and address any concerns to your Mistress?  Why question her order here amongst strangers?  In my opinion there seems to be a certain amount of distrust.  Whether it's due to distance, or the fact that you're getting your first taste of restriction and you want to be a bit of an exhibitionist about it,  i think you need to address this issue with Her. If you really want your relationship to develop further, learn fairly quickly on that communication can make a relationship, and a lack of communication will likely destroy it. 

However, if this is just a case of  "I like to posture and get off from telling all the details of my pseudo-D/s relationship", then hope that works out for you.....



kazzaslave -> RE: Only allowed water (no juice, milk, beer, etc.) (4/5/2009 1:18:46 PM)

kazza's only concern here is your not being allowed to drink milk. Do you have other sources for calcium such as cheese and yogurt? If not you should start eating dairy products. Aside from that there's no problem and drinking lots of water is good for you.

kazza



Guilty1974 -> RE: Only allowed water (no juice, milk, beer, etc.) (4/5/2009 1:50:42 PM)

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ORIGINAL: sub4hire
Seems pretty harmless to me.  I drink mostly water.


Same here, I drink almost only water and coffee. No problem. Vitamins come from food more than from drinks, and milk is a lousy calcium supplier anyway. If you wish to be sure, add in a multi-vitamin. With a Western lifestyle, that's not such bad idea anyway.



ExKat -> RE: Only allowed water (no juice, milk, beer, etc.) (4/5/2009 2:15:06 PM)

I wouldn't worry about this at all. My three main drink groups are water, diet soda, and coffee...cutting down to water would only cut out harmful (if delicious) chemicals from my diet. Unless you're getting a significant portion of your daily calories through healthy juices, smoothies, milk, or protein shakes or something, switching to water isn't going to hurt you at all. I don't think you need to see a doctor or worry about it at all.

Of course, if you're just looking for some legit medical excuse to get out of an unwelcomed order, then you can just ignore this post.



Lockit -> RE: Only allowed water (no juice, milk, beer, etc.) (4/5/2009 2:49:39 PM)

See this is the problem with quick online hook ups.  You don't have the trust one needs to get into some things and must second guess it and ask strangers.  Then there could be problems with said dominant in your doing so.  Why not communicate with said dominant, ask where she gets her information, get your own information and discuss it all with her?  It might help build some trust rather than hinder it's growth between you.



breakme -> RE: Only allowed water (no juice, milk, beer, etc.) (4/5/2009 2:49:58 PM)

Thank you to everyone for your replies. I will try to respond to some comments, but will probably miss some. If I do, message me to let me know and also note whether you would like me to reply to your message directly or on this forum.

First, yes this is an online relationship but I don't think your concern is needed there. She is a great Mistress and I believe she is engaged in activities offline as well. Our relationship is online because I cannot currently relocate due to school. We have discussed possible relocation in the future. This is also not a concern for me because I like living different places, and have lived in several areas of the US.

Second, I was not overly concerned about the impact on my health. I Just wanted to run this by the group to make sure someone didn't know something that I didn't and should be concerned about. I thank you for these replies. The general conclusion seems to be that as long as I am getting calcium/ vitamins from other sources, things will be okay. Also, Mistress would be very willing to discuss this with me if I asked. I just didn't ask.

Third, I'll respond to specific questions people asked. ExKat, I'm not looking for a legit medical excuse to get out of this, though I miss juice and things like that. :(  barelynangel, I am supposed to eat cereal with water instead of milk. :( saphyreslady, Any kind of water. I'll have to ask about flavored water. Good idea. :)

Feel free to continue replying to this thread.



DesFIP -> RE: Only allowed water (no juice, milk, beer, etc.) (4/5/2009 2:56:49 PM)

Flavored waters are full of sugar. Don't do it. Do squeeze a wedge of lemon or orange into your water to flavor it.

How much coffee and caffeinated sodas do you now consume? Because cold turkey off of caffeine will cause massive headaches. You may need to taper down to do so without the pain.



breakme -> RE: Only allowed water (no juice, milk, beer, etc.) (4/5/2009 3:02:07 PM)

I don't drink coffee ever and I rarely drink pop so that shouldn't be an issue. And you're right, lemon or orange in the water is a great idea.



maybemaybenot -> RE: Only allowed water (no juice, milk, beer, etc.) (4/5/2009 6:27:28 PM)

Cereal with water ? Yuck ! I would rather forfiet the cereal and find another breakfast food. If she has set down a rule that you must have cereal with water for breakfast daily or regularly, I would be questioning the " what for " of it all. I don't take well to rules without a purpose. I don't need a dominant to think up foolish crap just because s/he can.

Rules < for me > are meant to serve a purpose in the relationship. Something that will give me " more" to bring to his table, so to speak. While drinking only water for ever is not harmful, it serves no purpose. Water is no more healthy than other fluids. If this rule was about your health, she would want you to drink water, juices, milk and healthy things. So I suspect this isn't a health related rule. Just a rule to have a rule. And not a very creative one at that. [sm=2cents.gif]

                         mbmbn



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