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So, at the end of the day, these women who deny you based on age simply aren't into the age difference kink. It isn't necessary because you aren't into the same music, are into a family life when they aren't, afraid you'll leave them....it is just that they aren't into the age kink.

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You claimed that what we dominants said excusing our not wanting to be in a relationship with a much younger person was really because we didn't have a momme domme kink. You were way off on that. And yes, by saying that it did seem as though you were considering we lied and gave excuses rather than told the truth.

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ORIGINAL: ostrow30



I think it is interesting that there are so many people in the kink community who seem so incapable of empathizing with people with other people's "kinks", and recognizing them for what they are. There are people on here who will give a million reasons why they wouldn't choose someone younger, but ultimately, it boils down to the fact that they don't understand the mommy dommy kink.

It's funny. I've spoken with others in the kink community who will be into some random kink, like "rope bondage with fox heads and ice cream in panties", or, well, any kink you can imagine, saying "oh my gosh...crossdressing! That is SO weird!" lol! I almost roll on the floor laughing at such comments. Ultimately, any of us into our fetishes are the LAST ones who should be considering any other kink "odd", as we ourselves are odd, aren't we? Is that bad? Of COURSE not! It's what gives us flavor! I must say, that never ceases to totally amaze me.

So, at the end of the day, these women who deny you based on age simply aren't into the age difference kink. It isn't necessary because you aren't into the same music, are into a family life when they aren't, afraid you'll leave them....it is just that they aren't into the age kink. I have met some women who are. Older women who LIVE for meeting men young enough to be their sons. Its what gets them hot.

So, keep looking for that woman. As diverse as all of our kinks are. ALL of us posting on here...have our odd kinks. You will find them.

It's like asking the question "Why don't women like crossdressing men?" You're going to get tons of answers why from women who aren't into crossdressers. But do any of the answers matter? Of course not! Because there are some women who ARE into that, and eventually, they will come along.

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Feel free to complain about those of us who aren't into the Mommy Domme thing, which I feel is completely different than those who are in May/December dynamics that have nothing to do with age play. 

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ORIGINAL: Ostrow

If you did have that kink, wouldn't it mean you would be into younger men?

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ORIGINAL: ostrow30

It just means that you don't have the mommy-domme kink, right? If you did have that kink, wouldn't it mean you would be into younger men?