RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m??

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/20/2009 6:08:02 PM

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me and my big mouth :)

I used to have a gf who would like me on top, with her ankles on my shoulders who would pull on a leash while giving instructions, she'd also slap my face, torture my nipples and act very aggressive while I was in that position. I've had another Domme who wasn't as dominant during sex, but was still able to make me on top feel very submissive.

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/20/2009 6:18:19 PM

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a dominant blowjob.....do tell..

Yeah, because I take what I want, when I want, and how I want---he gets a blowjob because I have the most to die for mouth and just as he is about to cum, I walk away--because I can and because I'm a sadist.

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/20/2009 6:46:55 PM

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ORIGINAL: CatdeMedici

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a dominant blowjob.....do tell..

Yeah, because I take what I want, when I want, and how I want---he gets a blowjob because I have the most to die for mouth and just as he is about to cum, I walk away--because I can and because I'm a sadist.

Oh yeah.

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/20/2009 7:26:21 PM

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a dominant blowjob.....do tell..

Yeah, because I take what I want, when I want, and how I want---he gets a blowjob because I have the most to die for mouth and just as he is about to cum, I walk away--because I can and because I'm a sadist.

LOL.....I have done, but my favorite is to bite his cock hard enough to lose the erection - because I can and I am a sadist.

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/20/2009 7:34:41 PM

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Sweet J. Why do I always have to read the most unnerving post on the board immediately before going to bed?

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/20/2009 7:38:28 PM

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ORIGINAL: CatdeMedici

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ORIGINAL: GYPZYQUEEN

a dominant blowjob.....do tell..

Yeah, because I take what I want, when I want, and how I want---he gets a blowjob because I have the most to die for mouth and just as he is about to cum, I walk away--because I can and because I'm a sadist.

LOL.....I have done, but my favorite is to bite his cock hard enough to lose the erection - because I can and I am a sadist.

It's good to be validated.

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/20/2009 7:40:50 PM

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Recently when talking with a "slave" that responded to my profile he informed me that I was either submissive or a switch because I liked to be dominated in bed. His idea of dominanted in bed was that I don't necessarily desire to be on top and frankly when I am cumming the sub better be able to function without my needing to give orders because in that moment I am saying a lot of things rather loudly but I am not giving commands. Needless to say I am no longer conversing with said slave.

I suppose I would have really pushed him over the edge if I had told him that I like having a sub request intercourse, because he seemed to think that a sub/slave is only interested if ordered to be interested. And I'm sure if he knew that in a M/s relationship that is also my primary romantic relationship - I even enjoy the sub initiating it on occassion.

Gee, maybe I will lose my Domme horns for admitting such terrible things. But I have all these crazy ideas about acts not determining dominance or submission in and of themselves.

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/20/2009 7:43:09 PM

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A sub is not interested unless ORDERED to be interested? Maybe a eunuch sub, or a gay one...

{headshake} Some folks I just don't bother trying to figure out.

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/20/2009 7:49:44 PM

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Where equal mind and contest, equal go.

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Sweet J. Why do I always have to read the most unnerving post on the board immediately before going to bed?

LOL.....well if you were here you wouldn't have to read unnerving posts before going to bed, you would have unnerving things done to you before bed

Sleep well

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/20/2009 7:55:24 PM

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A sub is not interested unless ORDERED to be interested? Maybe a eunuch sub, or a gay one...

{headshake} Some folks I just don't bother trying to figure out.

Yeah, kind of weird.....and frankly if I have to ORDER someone to be interested then I really don't want to fuck them anyway.

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/20/2009 7:57:37 PM

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A sub is not interested unless ORDERED to be interested? Maybe a eunuch sub, or a gay one...

{headshake} Some folks I just don't bother trying to figure out.

Yeah, kind of weird.....and frankly if I have to ORDER someone to be interested then I really don't want to fuck them anyway.

Exactly! I don't need enthusiasm from a sub when he's bringing me a beverage, but hey! there are times when enthusiasm is definitely required.

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/20/2009 9:20:31 PM

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Serioiusly ... you actually run into guys like that?

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/20/2009 10:36:31 PM

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Serioiusly ... you actually run into guys like that?

Honestly, yes. I don't have a lot of trouble with submissive men who are verbally nasty/judgmental about my "lack of dommelitude", the way some of the women in the thread are describing, but the inability to "feel submissive" if they are not bottoming in the bedroom is more common than you might think. And for some men, if they aren't feeling submissive--they aren't feeling sexy.

The problem seems to be most common in men who haven't chosen submission after exploring other options, like going through a vanilla or male dominant phase. I distinctly remember one guy who posted to this forum just a few weeks ago, actually--from Ireland, I think. He identified himself as "pure DS" because he couldn't keep his erection when his domme wanted intercourse; vaginal intercourse wasn't submissive in his mind and thus didn't make him hard/get him off.

Personally, I think women who enjoy intercourse might want to look at submissives who have dom or vanilla life experience under their belts more seriously. Many dommes seem to look at this as a negative, but I think there might be a few advantages to the man who came to his submissive nature by the road less traveled...?

(Elan, you out there?)

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/20/2009 10:58:26 PM

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Sweet J. Why do I always have to read the most unnerving post on the board immediately before going to bed?

Peon, I don't have one, obviously yet I felt a little unnerved imagining it...(sort of like when I watched a guy get a Prince Albert - if you don't know, a male piercing - I don't exactly get just how darn empathetic I am, but I almost felt the pain of this guy squirming as I watched the needle go in)

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/20/2009 11:09:04 PM

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The last couple of posts in this thread make me sad, idiots giving male submissives a bad name.

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/21/2009 3:40:08 AM

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I don't understand why, if a Domme chooses to use her submissive's body in any way that gives her pleasure, that this may be considered submissive on her part? IMO as long as the Domme is engaging on her terms it does nothing to distract from her "Domliness" (is that a word? lol)

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/21/2009 7:04:34 AM

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I agree completely with you, Goddess2002. If a woman is directing the action, dictating when and how it's done, then sex is female dominant, not male. It's just irrational to think of it any other way.

However, there are evidently a lot of people to whom the penetrative sex act is inherently male-dominant. Maybe it's because of whose body is penetrated. Maybe it's because penetrative sex isn't possible unless the male is aroused and erect, which implies that he's enjoying it. And as we all know, if a male enjoys it, it can't be female dominant, right? ;-)

I think those notions are ridiculous, but then a lot of people believe a lot of ridiculous things.

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/21/2009 8:32:18 AM

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However, there are evidently a lot of people to whom the penetrative sex act is inherently male-dominant.

Yep. And in fairness, this should NOT by any means by blamed solely on the male submissives who feel this way. There are a TON of female dominants who feel the same way about penetration of their bodies, who will not have any kind of real intercourse with male submissives for this reason, and some of them will even get VERY nasty about female dominants who disagree on the matter. I have seen them post all sorts of nasty judgmental things about it to this forum and elsewhere.

Anyway, obviously these guys who don't "put out" do have their appropriate female counterparts. I'm just not one of them.

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/21/2009 9:04:51 AM