LAgirlsub
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Well, I know this seems to be the more common view, but from my world it's not...I am 100% gay. Period. I love the ladies. There are the rare males that I do find attractive (oh like a young Brad Pitt - always the blue eyes - he should be so complimented from a very gay woman like myself) but I don't think of men sexually. And from this POV, think about very straight males and tell them they're not really just straight. I don't want to sound like I'm offended, I'm not. But I don't buy into this view at all. There are plenty of people who fall somewhere on the continum, but many don't. I don't know if that makes me more rare, but it's something I've contended with all my life because I am feminine and get too much male attention. I truly thought it was that I don't care so they attract to me, but well it might be that I talk to everyone - I'm friendly - and maybe it's something physical...I've often wanted to say to them...have a sister? (smile). And only recently, with the so called 'annoying dommes' was one who in just a few emails - after I clearly stated my orientation - told me, as if I'm going to be talking orders from someone online I don't know, that I have to be with her and her male subs. That really upset me. Could we prove the point of this thread any better then with this example? A so called domme who didn't give a flip who I am, so much so that she ordered me about who I'm going to have sex with. It still bothers me how ugly, obnoxious and rude that was. No one tells me who I'm going to be sexual with, no less a male. And you're even asked about your underwear as their first question? Just like that? I must think very differently then many who are online. I know what I'd ask you...I'd ask if you felt comfortable to email me a picture of your face since that's what I'd like to see. On the coffee shop...if you were planning a visit, I'd go on the hunt to see if I could figure out the name of this place. It's good it's not Culver since it seems like they've redone quite a bit of their downtown. I haven't been to Venice in years (both the one here and in Italy) so I wonder if things have changed there. But I'll do my best to figure it out and surprise you if you stopped in our big city again. But either way, I'd never meet you at a Starbucks. I'm sure I could find something you'd like.
< Message edited by LAgirlsub -- 5/10/2009 6:33:26 PM >
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