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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 5/17/2009 6:47:21 AM   
oceanwinds


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Being naked doesn't bother me, i wear very little clothing as it is, but being inspected from top to bottom embarrasses me.

When in the public, being grabbed by the wrist, to make me do something bothers me. i do not like the feeling of being someone's child.

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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 5/20/2009 1:33:57 PM   
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Reading in public. For whatever reason I've never been able to read aloud very well. I can give a speech like it's second nature, but have just always been self conscious about my inability to read well out loud. Luckily I don't have to do it anymore. 

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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 5/20/2009 1:48:17 PM   
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Forced eye contact.... eye contact in ANY situation is So Difficult for me, so its so hard during an intense/sexual act.  or if I have done something wrong.

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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 5/22/2009 7:27:00 AM   
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zaphira understands that for some, humilation is part of their relationship. She finds herself struggling with this question though because Master has never deliberatly gone out of his way to humiliate her.
This slave would have to say though that the one thing that would humiliate her the most, and bring her to tears, would be the knowledge that she somehow failed in her service.


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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 5/24/2009 10:51:42 PM   
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When someone waves or says hi and you think they are talking to you, so you react only to find that it was the person behind you and five other people just saw what a big dork you are.  Not that it has ever happened to me.

Though I'm not in love with my body, I have no problems being naked amongst strangers and have been often lol  Kinkwise...anything in which I lose decorum and am not turned on...things like barking, fetching, doing x whenever he says...tend to be extremely humiliating for me if I'm not sexually excited and sometimes when I am.  I blush a lot through any type of puppy/animal play.


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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 5/25/2009 1:20:32 AM   
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Hmmmm....

Being ordered to tell Him my innermost dark and secret desires...i think that is the most humiliating, that and being ordered to talk dirty lol!  Just can't do it because from my mouth i think it sounds so silly!  From His mouth however......major yummmmm!

gabrielle x

edited for spelling...

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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 5/25/2009 1:24:20 AM   
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quote:

Being ordered to tell Him my innermost dark and secret desires...


This would be very humiliating for me as well.


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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 5/25/2009 5:50:00 AM   
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Role playing.  Animal play.  Just the thought of anything like that makes my cheeks burn immediately.  Once - once - I had to crawl around on the floor and meow like a cat and...well...do lots of cat things.  Very, very hard to do.  The worst part was the meowing.  

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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 5/25/2009 6:48:25 PM   
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My first spank (receive). I started out as a slave to a lady 10 years elder. My first spank with me counting and thanking her definitely made my face blushed... and it totally fascinated her. I switched after that...

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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 5/26/2009 9:13:41 AM   
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Master and i don't do humilation. I don't mind being naked in fromt of Master but it would really humilate me to have to benaked in front of others. if was first it was hard to get naked for Master also.

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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 7/28/2009 7:10:43 PM   
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Panties stuffed in my mouth gets me everytime, as do gags in general, being laughed at, being dominated in front of her friends.  I'm not at all a crossdresser, but one Mistress made me wear female underwear.  That was very humiliating.  Being naked while she is clothed is a big one.  Having to beg for anything.

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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 7/28/2009 8:33:54 PM   
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I was a naked male server at a Ladies Tea Party. The Ladies were fully dressed.When it came my turn to be assigned a Lady to serve, I was introduced to the Lady when She arrived. It was then my responsibility to escort Her around to all the other Ladies present and introduce them. I escorted my Lady by the arm to the first Lady that was seated and inquired Her of Her name...Ms X, I then proceded to say... Ms X  this is Ms...........Uh.... Uh...I'm sorry Ms, but my mind has gone blank... would You repeat your name please?.. She reminded me that Her name was Ms Lilly. Thank You...Ms X this is Ms Lilly.... They said hello then shook each other's hand.... I then escorted Ms Lilly to the next seated Lady. I inquired of Her name... She told me Her name was Ms Y.   I proceeded to say ... Ms Y this is Ms......Uh... Uh... Uh...i'm really sorry, but my mind has gone blank again... My face was bright red and i was praying for a hole to open up in the floor to 'save' me! Ms Lilly reminded me again of Her name [ which is the same as my Mother's name!]  I thanked Her again... Ms Y this is Ms Lilly...They said hello and shook hands and I escorted and introduced Ms Lilly to about a dozen more Ladies. After apoligising profusely I never forgot Her name again!  We've met several times since at various meetings and events... We always remember each other!! Scotty

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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 7/28/2009 8:43:53 PM   
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Begging, and being played with and told how wet i get when being hurt or spoken to in a derogatory way....i just want to crawl under a rock when either of these happen.

Stripping, only recently has become humiliating for me. i gained some weight after being put on Temp Disability from work, and i am not feeling my cutest right now. It's a different kind of humiliation though...in that it blocks me from feeling turned on if i focus on it.

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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 7/28/2009 9:01:07 PM   
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I was spanked at a vanilla party. Over the knee. For my bratty mouth. By someone I didnn't know. I was beat red all night. Dated that fellow for a year.

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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 7/29/2009 2:22:30 AM   
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Saying my sexual desires aloud, begging for something, calling myself any names when told to do so, naked in light, being the center of attention in any kind of way, ummm...i'm not sure what else...but those are a few to start with. 

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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 7/29/2009 2:29:08 AM   
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Nowt, I can't think of anything that is always humiliating, there are things that are often humiliating but context and the person doing it makes the difference.

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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 7/29/2009 2:29:49 AM   
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Getting busted by someone I know while shopping for lingerie and lipstick.

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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 7/29/2009 3:36:05 AM   
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let's see, being insulted, slapped, spanked in public. having to serve someone i feel isn't worth it. having to be in a position where i'm noticed by a lot of people

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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 7/29/2009 6:22:13 AM   
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The first and only time I crawled on all fours with my Daddy's belt around my neck.. Now that some time has passed and O/our relationship has grown I kinda want to revisit that one. *blush*
Being spit on during some hot steamy sex was bittersweet. It seemed to fit the moment only to bother me later.

During a punishment I had to pee... I was unable to wipe myself.. my panties where kept down and shirt pulled up...Then I was left in my subbie room in the dark. The whole scene was humiliating.. However, I never shot Daddy a dirty look again during a serious conversation.

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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 7/29/2009 7:28:29 AM   
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Weekly weigh ins. At least until I reach my goal weight.



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