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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 7/29/2009 12:47:07 PM   
petmonkey


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Status: offline 		Always humiliating?  Name calling and extreme forms of PDA.  Neither of which actually rev my engine.  

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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 7/29/2009 8:46:27 PM   
xiam


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ORIGINAL: lronitulstahp
...being .... told how wet i get when being hurt or spoken to in a derogatory way....

Oh, me, too!!!  I guess because it is so true.  : |

A lot of other people said being naked... that doesn't bother me at all, but to have my sex pulled apart and closely inspected, um, yes!!  Being closely scrutinized anywhere, really, but that is by far the worst.

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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 7/30/2009 4:04:23 PM   
JenTehLuv


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Status: offline 		Being naked is always humiliating to me, considering I'm not the best looking girl on the planet lol. Also being lead by a leash in public is always something my Dom does to get me blushing from head to toe.

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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 7/30/2009 6:39:35 PM   
owmme


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Status: offline 		Giving out my name, phone number, and where I work. If someone has that information, I could really be humilated. That would really turn me on if anyone knew that information about me...

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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 7/31/2009 6:26:31 AM   
fairerthanshe


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Status: offline 		Both of these are high on my list.  The worst is when I'm overwhelmed with desire for him, whether he's been fucking me for 10 minutes or an hour, and then he says, "That's enough for now."  Feeling shamed and humiliated by the wanton desire which never seems to wane.  

~ fairer

quote:

ORIGINAL: xiam

quote:

ORIGINAL: lronitulstahp
...being .... told how wet i get when being hurt or spoken to in a derogatory way....

Oh, me, too!!!  I guess because it is so true.  : |

A lot of other people said being naked... that doesn't bother me at all, but to have my sex pulled apart and closely inspected, um, yes!!  Being closely scrutinized anywhere, really, but that is by far the worst.



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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 7/31/2009 6:53:03 AM   
thedavezone


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Status: offline 		Have you tried getting the sub to drink lots of water, and then keeping them in public until they wet themselves?  Even with a diaper on, it has interesting results.

Being spaned in public or by a house guest - that's always good.

Going swimming, especially in the ocean, and removing part or all of the bathing suit for at least an hour and bring it to shore), that's always nice.

Public orgasm - a vibrator held in by leather panties.

Pretend to video tape them peeing.

< Message edited by thedavezone -- 7/31/2009 6:55:54 AM >

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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 7/31/2009 6:59:39 AM   
Kana


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quote:

ORIGINAL: xiam

quote:

ORIGINAL: lronitulstahp
...being .... told how wet i get when being hurt or spoken to in a derogatory way....

Oh, me, too!!!  I guess because it is so true.  : |

A lot of other people said being naked... that doesn't bother me at all, but to have my sex pulled apart and closely inspected, um, yes!!  Being closely scrutinized anywhere, really, but that is by far the worst.



Hmmm, and I adore doing both of these.
Happy Days that I'm a sadist

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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 8/1/2009 4:37:23 PM   
Lostkitten3


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Status: offline 		I adore them both and I'm a submissive!!! ....A really dirty one.

quote:

ORIGINAL: Kana

quote:

ORIGINAL: xiam

quote:

ORIGINAL: lronitulstahp
...being .... told how wet i get when being hurt or spoken to in a derogatory way....

Oh, me, too!!!  I guess because it is so true.  : |

A lot of other people said being naked... that doesn't bother me at all, but to have my sex pulled apart and closely inspected, um, yes!!  Being closely scrutinized anywhere, really, but that is by far the worst.



Hmmm, and I adore doing both of these.
Happy Days that I'm a sadist


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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 8/1/2009 5:30:18 PM   
xiam


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lostkitten3
I adore them both and I'm a submissive!!! ....A really dirty one.


Did someone say humiliation  can't also be adorable?  *winks*

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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 8/1/2009 6:21:26 PM   
peachgirl


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Status: offline 		being naked doesn't bother me much, at all.  and I've had a couple of kids.  I just try my best to accept what I can't change.

BUT name calling is something I can't tolerate.  it just kills me.


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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 8/1/2009 6:36:02 PM   
bamabbwsub


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quote:

ORIGINAL: owmme

Giving out my name, phone number, and where I work. If someone has that information, I could really be humilated. That would really turn me on if anyone knew that information about me...



You're SO transparent.

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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 8/1/2009 11:57:41 PM   
sweetsub1957


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Status: offline 		(1)Telling Sir what my sexual desires are that I'm really craving.
   Total humiliation.
(2)Being totally hot to trot and He knows it, and He says "No." 
   I just feel so humiliated and, for some reason, guilty.
(3)Being all cleaned up and my pony tail in place, then accidentally
   losing it & finding out it's not totally clean.  I'm totally and
   excruciatingly humiliated knowing He's seen, umm, "it."

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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 8/2/2009 10:48:14 AM   
Lostkitten3


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quote:

ORIGINAL: peachgirl

being naked doesn't bother me much, at all.  and I've had a couple of kids.  I just try my best to accept what I can't change.

BUT name calling is something I can't tolerate.  it just kills me.


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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 8/2/2009 2:45:59 PM   
peachgirl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lostkitten3

Weenie! (Couldn't resist!)
quote:

ORIGINAL: peachgirl

being naked doesn't bother me much, at all.  and I've had a couple of kids.  I just try my best to accept what I can't change.

BUT name calling is something I can't tolerate.  it just kills me.




waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhh!!!! 


_____________________________

Have you seen that girl in the corner?
I'd like to take her out of her chains
Cause if I had my way with you baby
I would be changing your life today.
- Bob Welch

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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 8/3/2009 12:03:16 PM   
rhpaw


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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 8/4/2009 1:05:01 PM   
Lostkitten3


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LOL
quote:

ORIGINAL: peachgirl

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lostkitten3

Weenie! (Couldn't resist!)
quote:

ORIGINAL: peachgirl

being naked doesn't bother me much, at all.  and I've had a couple of kids.  I just try my best to accept what I can't change.

BUT name calling is something I can't tolerate.  it just kills me.




waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhh!!!! 



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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 8/4/2009 1:26:41 PM   
thesubmissiveboy


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Status: offline 		I second the being naked while the female is clothed. I am comfortable with myself and my body, but I still get a shameful feeling when I'm completely naked, and for some reason when I've shaved down there too. I can't explain it.

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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 8/4/2009 8:18:20 PM   
MastersPanda


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Status: offline 		Having to talk about myself, in terms of my accomplishments or achievements. I don't know why, but i just feel very embarrassed telling someone how well i did at something.

Like someone else mentioned, not being properly dressed or groomed. That one always gets me. Like when Master wants to go for a nice dinner after i just got done at the gym. Argh.

Talking dirty. I hate it i feel like such an awkward goober.

Dancing. This one is by far the worst!



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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 8/4/2009 9:04:17 PM   
shadowowl


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Status: offline 		being controled/humiliated in front of vanilla people always scares me.   Like if I am speaking with someone and I'm told to be quiet things that are obvious to anyone to make it very clear who's in charge.
ofcourse I also love it so it's a weird twisted world I live in sometimes ;)


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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 8/5/2009 3:56:01 AM   
ignoreme


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quote:

being controled/humiliated in front of vanilla people always scares me. Like if I am speaking with someone and I'm told to be quiet things that are obvious to anyone to make it very clear who's in charge.

I agree, that is very humiliating, if she commands you in a shop or so you know the people will think "wow what a wussy his girlfriend can do that and he won't even go against it".

I think my most humiliating experience for me was when my gf and I went out to a dancing and she gave all her attention to other guys, ignoring me. I never felt so humiliated and a jealous in my life.

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