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Lockit -> RE: Tell me who you are... (5/7/2009 11:34:17 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

I have noticed that too, Lockit!

I am a dom, but I am also a woman.  If a guy doesn't show some kind of response in terms of calling or writing,  I figure "just not that into me"  and I move on.  If he can't hold up a conversation anymore, I just figure he has run out of things to say!  (bored now!)


It isn't that they don't contact... they do... they just say hello Ma'am and seem to think that the perfect slave doesn't do much but kneel there or serve.  I guess I want an entertainment slave and that isn't in the guidebook to the refined personal servant.  Their work is done, they are slave and kneeling... no sense in actually making her smile or laugh or have any interest in anything but kicking them between the legs.  (Or something like that)



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Tell me who you are... (5/7/2009 11:36:19 AM)

I say it all the time...  If I wanted someone sitting silently at my feet, I would get a dog. 



Lockit -> RE: Tell me who you are... (5/7/2009 11:37:12 AM)

LOL... I think I have uttered something to that effect!



CreativeDominant -> RE: Tell me who you are... (5/7/2009 11:38:47 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

I think I have had my own darwinism going on lately!  When will mankind come up with a cure for the headache?  I want some brain cells back! hehe
I've told you Lockit, I can fix that headache...but you are going to have to commute from Mo. to here.  Hell, I'll even do it Pro Bono because you are the lovely woman you are.  [;)]



Lockit -> RE: Tell me who you are... (5/7/2009 11:44:10 AM)

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ORIGINAL: CreativeDominant

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

I think I have had my own darwinism going on lately!  When will mankind come up with a cure for the headache?  I want some brain cells back! hehe
I've told you Lockit, I can fix that headache...but you are going to have to commute from Mo. to here.  Hell, I'll even do it Pro Bono because you are the lovely woman you are.  [;)]


LOL... I remember sitting and talking with you and knowing I had to move... what a friggin mistake it was!  There is a lot I am thankful for and happy about here... but medically speaking... it was the worst thing I could have done!

(Google's airfares)



CreativeDominant -> RE: Tell me who you are... (5/7/2009 12:05:33 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

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ORIGINAL: CreativeDominant

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

I think I have had my own darwinism going on lately!  When will mankind come up with a cure for the headache?  I want some brain cells back! hehe
I've told you Lockit, I can fix that headache...but you are going to have to commute from Mo. to here.  Hell, I'll even do it Pro Bono because you are the lovely woman you are.  [;)]


LOL... I remember sitting and talking with you and knowing I had to move... what a friggin mistake it was!  There is a lot I am thankful for and happy about here... but medically speaking... it was the worst thing I could have done!

(Google's airfares)
Ahem...I remember expressing concern about that when we were sitting and talking...[;)]



Lockit -> RE: Tell me who you are... (5/7/2009 12:13:22 PM)

I know... rub it in will ya? lol  But I'm a mom and had to do what a mom does... go figure! lol



ShaktiSama -> RE: Tell me who you are... (5/7/2009 12:17:08 PM)

Fast reply to OP:

Being articulate and able to speak/write well is a desirable quality like any other.  Some men have it, some men don't.  If it's something that you need or want in a potential partner, there's no reason not to insist that your needs be met--it's no different than being physically attracted to someone or having other things in common.

Personally, I gravitate toward people who write and speak well, who are literate and reasonably well-educated, etc..  It's a good indicator of common values and shared lifestyle.  I assume other dommes might have similar issues if their bodies are a major focus in their lives.



CreativeDominant -> RE: Tell me who you are... (5/7/2009 12:20:35 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

I know... rub it in will ya? lol  But I'm a mom and had to do what a mom does... go figure! lol
~winks and smiles wickedly~  now you know I DO love rubbing things..........in.  [;)][8D]



PeonForHer -> RE: Tell me who you are... (5/7/2009 12:44:42 PM)

Maybe you want a slave/vanilla switch, Lockit.

I guess I want an entertainment slave and that isn't in the guidebook to the refined personal servant. 
 
What sort of entertainment?  Juggling, conjuring, mime-artistry, pole-dancing?



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Tell me who you are... (5/7/2009 12:47:59 PM)

OOOH card tricks!  I love those!  Also fire eating, and that geek thing where the guy sticks the needle through his arm. 



Lockit -> RE: Tell me who you are... (5/7/2009 12:52:37 PM)

LOL Peon... I was being sarcastic.  Vanilla wouldn't work too well for me. lol

Now... I wouldn't mind some slave bells and a dancing man... but I want more than a body.  I need the mind and all that comes with it!  Besides all I like to do... laughter is number one and anyone that gets close to me has some.  To see it dry up in some sort of thinking that a slave has no personality or duty other than serving is a bit much for me to take in!  Not in my world! lol

I don't mean to be only critical about it... I would really like to understand this type of thinking or mindset that some submissive's have.  What makes them think the way they do?



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Tell me who you are... (5/7/2009 1:03:25 PM)

What makes submissives think the way they do?  Why not just ask for an easy solution to the unified field theory while you're at it?

The thing is, all around me I see submissive men who have actual brains and personalities that do NOT go away the minute they are collared, claimed, married, attached, whatever.   What's up with the other guys?   Really, instead of us (we?) women chuntering on about how we need a bdsm charm school, the MEN who are successful should start a course on how the other men should behave.  It would certainly raise their profile!



PeonForHer -> RE: Tell me who you are... (5/7/2009 1:07:06 PM)

I don't mean to be only critical about it... I would really like to understand this type of thinking or mindset that some submissive's have.  What makes them think the way they do?
 
I find it quite easy to understand, in an abstract sort of way.  Taking submission to the nth degree might mean, for some, to aspire to being a kind of robot.  ("Robot" comes from the same word as "slave", if I recall.).  All the 'owner's thoughts - her will - take the place of his own.  So his mind becomes like a hard disc waiting to be written to.  Nothing there, except what you put there. 




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Tell me who you are... (5/7/2009 1:08:12 PM)

Well turning into a robot when you started out as an interesting person is the most vile form of bait and switch.



PeonForHer -> RE: Tell me who you are... (5/7/2009 1:08:17 PM)

Also fire eating
 
Fire blowing any good?  I can do that.



LadyConstanze -> RE: Tell me who you are... (5/7/2009 1:08:23 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Lockit

I don't mean to be only critical about it... I would really like to understand this type of thinking or mindset that some submissive's have.  What makes them think the way they do?


I think for some of them that is how they think they should be, sort of "This is my fantasy, so if I act it out it will become reality", what they don't realize is that it might work for a particular scene but long term? Yaaaaaaaaaaaaawn

But also a lot of guys have run into mistresses who want them to be the "silent type", I guess to each their own, but I find it terribly frustrating if a guy seems to have the personality of a wet blanket and can only say "Yes, Mistress..." or "Whatever Mistress commands", they might have their uses though, cleaning purposes ;) Anything where you don't really have to interact with them, because with that attitude the interaction would be bleeping one-sided anyway.



PeonForHer -> RE: Tell me who you are... (5/7/2009 1:10:57 PM)

What makes submissives think the way they do?  Why not just ask for an easy solution to the unified field theory while you're at it?
 
I think there could be more truth to that than you might imagine




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Tell me who you are... (5/7/2009 1:11:49 PM)

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

What makes submissives think the way they do?  Why not just ask for an easy solution to the unified field theory while you're at it?
 
I think there could be more truth to that than you might imagine




I know it's true!  I have friends who are submissive women!



PeonForHer -> RE: Tell me who you are... (5/7/2009 1:20:01 PM)

Funny thing is, now, at the exact point when I think I've finally worked it all out - I've got tired of thinking about it altogether.  All thought and no action makes Peon a dull boy.



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