chamberqueen
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Joined: 10/25/2007 From: Kalamazoo, MI Status: offline
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Make sure that the person you are with understands the basics of the problem. I have low blood sugar so I eat just before a session. I also tend to become very quiet when I need to eat. I've dealt with the problem for over 20 years, so I made it clear that if I say "I'm getting hungry" that means I need to eat within 20 minutes; if I say "I NEED to eat" it means I need food within the next 5 minutes. I explained that it did not mean that I was being a brat or trying to get out of doing anything, but this was my way of voicing a real health concern. Some of the symptoms can, indeed, come across as similar to subspace. I get quiet, pale, my break into a light sweat or small shaking, show mild confusion, etc. I rarely "bottom out" so my Master has never seen that, but that is about the only time when I get truly cranky. It has gotten so bad that even when food is in front of me I have had to have people tell me to pick it up and eat, and my ex once actually had to feed me because I no longer seemed to have the power to do that. As you deal with the problem you will learn the early onset symptoms of it and avoid it going to those extremes.
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