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RE: Why does my Master do this? - 6/1/2009 2:40:01 PM

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It's Panhellenic Syndrome.

Windchymes,

your PS has me laughing out loud! Am i allowed to borrow/lend it? I will tell, that it is not crafted by me!

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RE: Why does my Master do this? - 6/2/2009 2:14:59 AM

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I stopped reading after the OP, because I didn't want my answer to be influenced by what other people had to say. So okay, let's see now, why does a man sleep with one woman but not another? Well golly, yeah, why would that be? Damn, this is a tough one.

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RE: Why does my Master do this? - 6/2/2009 2:27:29 PM

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FR, after read thru

Hmmmm, I can think of one big glaring reason why people might stop communicating -- when they think, consciously or subconsciously, that the communication will lead to the end of the relationship. It might not, but if that's a serious possibility, I can see communication freezing up at that point . . . . .

& I'm hyper-sensitive about that particular scenario, FYI, lol . . .. If I smell those dynamics going on in a relationship, I force the issue. I make the communication happen cuz I'd rather get it over with & move on, if that's where it's going . . . . . . But I note lots of people seem to prefer the alternative -- let's not talk & let this thing limp along for as long as possible . . . .

My penny's worth . . . . .

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RE: Why does my Master do this? - 6/2/2009 3:06:11 PM

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As for Throwing Shit Balls, it's no different than the Nasty shit that gets stated about the Dominants

as the things I've said are VERY LIGHT in comparison to the things that get traded as fact about ppl on here

So many men have the capasity to be cruel and uncaring Steel

***So many men have the capacity to be cruel and uncaring due to nasty shit stated about Doms and anger about things traded as fact,,

probably about them..

so they continue to shit on others justifying it as OK .......

Get out of the sandbox..if there is sand in your eye from someone else no need to throw it at the next available innocent ...

GQ

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RE: Why does my Master do this? - 6/3/2009 12:10:24 PM

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I thank Steel of Utah for his input and feedback...

I apologize to the OP if I derailed her asking for help..

I am grateful that I have been given once again an opportunity to LOOK into my own process..my reactions and responses..and where they come from.....
if and how I project..what I feel is derogatory and what others may feel is advice
and suggestions and what I think is........

I love CM because it is a place of learning..and growth if one is willing.....

its all good..

GQ

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RE: Why does my Master do this? - 6/3/2009 6:43:06 PM

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I wonder if it's you assuming that its your weight when in fact it may be many other things,one the alpha does get more attention,but my experience yells me that the one that feels neglected has not been doing serving dor M.like they should,running bath water,making sure dinner is ready,massaging feet etc,and if your saying M cant get it up then why are you worried about alpha getting some? Give your M more personal attention and you will get it back!

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RE: Why does my Master do this? - 6/4/2009 5:24:25 AM

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Trying to step away from the side issues brought up in this thread......

You are asking why someone would do what your Master is doing and no one can answer for the motives of others. Also, most men have cycles where libido waxes and wanes and that's just natural. Add stress to the equation and the gap between wax and wane grows larger. So assuming you would like to remedy the situation I would suggest you change your focus.

You are focused on yourself and your sister-sub and are not focused on your Master. Change your focus and things may go better for you.

Master is stressed. Relieve his stress. Master may feel pressure to perform sexually with you. Remove that pressure. Focus on his needs.

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RE: Why does my Master do this? - 6/4/2009 8:13:47 AM

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It is possible that if he is feeling stressed he might seek out the familiar for comfort and the other woman is more familiar.
He already knows her and that means less work for him.

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RE: Why does my Master do this? - 6/5/2009 12:39:21 AM

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I still don't like the attitude of the question. Let me re-write the OP...

"My sis and I have a Master. You know, one of those machines that you put next to a hole and it sticks its dick in it and fucks it. It worked fine for a while. But now it only works when it's near her hole. Why would this happen? Should I call Tech Support?"

Gimmie a break.

K.

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