QuixoticErrant -> RE: On addiction and D/s (6/24/2009 4:29:10 PM)
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ORIGINAL QuixoticErrant "Mandatory altruism is nonsensical. That's precisely what you're arguing. " {clipped}... Clearly, any notion of basic decency and an assertion that people should have it, is by direct implication, mandatory altruism. You really can not escape that. Since there seems to be a disconnect in comprehension, let me stick to one simple concept and hope that it makes more sense. It is the concept of mandatory that is completely incompatible when combined with the concept of decency. Really, do you obey the law? Do you pay your taxes? Of course ethical systems in a social contract are mandatory. Even beyond that, would you make a scene at a funeral or someone's wedding? Do you think that if you did the people there would have a right to kick you out? Of course basic decency can be mandatory. There is a disconnect in comprehension, but it is not mine. To be -decent- and -ethical- requires the recognition of another's right to make hir own choices. There is no such thing as altruism. People do things because it benefits them, even if the benefit is only that they feel good about themselves by doing it, and that feeling outweighs any downside to the act for them. How tragic that you feel that way. Let's say that your cynical view is correct, at least they feel good about doing good things and those good things also benefit you. Mandatory altruism isn't altruism at all. It is enforced slavery of action. It doesn't matter -who- is doing the enslaving, or how good their intentions. It is stripping the right to free action from another human being, and that is patently unethical and indecent. In simplified terms, what you are proposing is a -police state- where the government and my neighbors get to decide what I need to do to be a "decent" member of the community, and how I need to act, and that is just plain BS. Again, you live in a society that polices your actions already. If you really hate that, then you must accept it if a man with a baseball bat comes for you. Even "justice" is a concept that requires free will. A just man will not participate in an act of law that denies the freedom of another human being. That is also a constraint on his freedoms. He may willfully accept the restraint, but it is one none the less. Why is that not obvious? Morality and law do -not- define decency, and true freedom, including bearing full responsibility for one's choices and actions, is the -only- real right of existence. Stripping that freedom, along with the resulting requirement to teach responsibility and the repercussions of individual choice, has left us an ethically barren culture. A deeper investment in a police state will not resolve that issue, and will not 'save' people from themselves. No matter how diligent a man's intentions, how fine his speeches, or how worthy the appearance of his "cause", when he steals freedom and its repercussions from another, he becomes a criminal of the basest sort himself, because what he is stealing isn't a transitory 'thing', but the essence of someone's existence. Somehow, I am ok with the idea of stripping serial rapists, pedophiles and other "romantics" of their freedoms. Understand that your argument could be used by them to justify their actions. Once you accept the moral responsibility to restrict those behaviors, the door is opened to look at other things too. ON a BDSM note, you know full well that once you have a submissive in a deep enough subspace (s)he might very well agree to anything. Your arguments leave tremendous room to take advantage of this, and rather than being an acceptance of responsibility, it gets used in these discussions as a get out of jail free card again and again for those who do abuse it. I do not accept your "assistance" in regulating my behavior. I am content to claim responsibility for my actions, for better or worse, lest I lose myself in your mis-begotten concept of "mandatory altruism". OK fine, if the man with the baseball bat comes for you, I'll get popcorn. I wouldn't want to strip him of HIS freedoms. Before you go off on the fact that you are not consenting to the baseball bat, I will say ok, HE is not consenting to my interference. Where do you draw the line? My comments are in blue italics
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