LadyConstanze -> RE: Opinions,please, on ethical behavior (7/24/2009 9:24:57 AM)
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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze Isn't that twisting the subject a bit and playing blame the victim? He left the mail open, that's like leaving a letter around OPEN, she did not hack his mailbox, and the fact is, he was exposed as a liar and a cheat. End of story! You know, I would not open the letter of my partner, no way, but would he leave an open letter laying around and the worlds "I love you" would jump to my face, I would have a look at it. Would you advocate closing your eyes to obvious signs of betrayal? Then most people would possibly tell her "Why didn't you see the warning signs!" I am not "blaming the victim" I am saying that her behaviour, as well as his, was not stellar. If ANYone, regardless of who, were to be sneaking around in my stuff, whatever that stuff is, they would be tossed on their ear. If they've been given permission, entirely different ballgame. IF someone feels they need to snoop around in my stuff they've chosen the wrong person. My computer, my purse, my desk, my jewelry dresser, my closet, my toybag, anyplace I keep personal stuff is OFF LIMITS unless given specific permission. That is the way I was raised, the way I raised my children and the behaviour I expect of all adults. You ask before sticking your mitts in my stuff. She didn't. Edited to add: another thing I think is pathetic. If genders and the D/s were switched, and this same scenario was posted on the mistress forum, I think the replies would be vasty different. I think the male sub would be castrated, and not in a fun way.I may be wrong, but I have a hunch no. Excuse me, she didn't snoop, he let her use his computer and had a window open with that stuff, stupid move! I would feel the same way if the gender roles were reversed, it's MY duty to not leave my mail open. Look, if I don't want my partner to see what I have on the screen, I close the laptop, if I leave it open he knows he can read it, simple!
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