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RE: Master/slave questions - 7/25/2009 9:39:09 AM   
OrionTheWolf


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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

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Now then Michael,... those of us that have been around bullshit artist can see right through you.


If the pieces I wrote seem like bullshit to you, why don't you rewrite them in your terms?  I am curious to see what you would do differently.


Probably not opened my mouth if I didn't know what I was talking about. At the very least not been so derogatory and condenscending to those that to prefer a type of relationship that was 1) asked specifically about in the OP 2) You have admitted before not being able to do because you use "different tools". I would likely have kept the hypocricy out of it by not stating in one post how people were acting like a teenagers, and then in some follow up posts acting just like what you had previously condemned.

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You can do your rainbow and butterfly bullshit to swoon the girls all you like, but in the end I doubt you have what it takes to get them to stay, unless of course they are in control of you.


I know Goreans are different but I don't see a whole lot of swooning going on in my direction.



Not sure what Goreans has to do with my comment, but if that kind of deflection helps you get by, then I can understand why.

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RE: Master/slave questions - 7/25/2009 9:51:00 AM   
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Since I am driving six hours to hold the event in YOUR town, why don't you let me know when you know for sure.  Again, September works a lot better for me, but I wouldn't miss this for the world.



Any Saturday in September is fine.  If I'm out of town I'll fly back.  I wouldn't do it for just anyone, but I'll make an exception in your case.


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RE: Master/slave questions - 7/25/2009 10:17:54 AM   
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Oh please, please Sex God...use your big vocabulary on me....
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RE: Master/slave questions - 7/25/2009 10:22:34 AM   
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RE: Master/slave questions - 7/25/2009 10:56:47 AM   
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ORIGINAL: BitaTruble
He has flexed his muscles in areas of , 'my' children and the interaction I have with them,


Now this is the sticking point for me, because I chose him but they didn't.
And consent is important for me.

So him telling them what they can and can't do wouldn't be about him being dominant to me but an asshat of a stepfather to them. And although he can tell me what lawn tractor to buy with my money, him telling them they can't go to the school of their choice because he wants their college funds wouldn't fly. Not that he would, but even him having that power unused is wrong to me.

Simply because they haven't given him that power.

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RE: Master/slave questions - 7/25/2009 11:03:32 AM   
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Hi. I'm recently new to this lifestyle, howeverI have known its what I've wanted to do for a while. I have recently had a master own me. I have researched for a few years about what this lifestyle was about and everything with it.

My question is about the TPE lifestyle. I feel that this is the type of lifestyle I want to live, however I have set a few limits on what I wont give up control over due to my very strong feelings and expections (I guess you could call them expectations). I dont want to give up(nor do I think its right for me to be asked to either) my family or friends. The two other things I wont give up and go hand in hand are my future career in the military (have had these plans for a few years now) and my schooling because of a promise I made to a family member.

Now I have talked with my master and we are still having an ongoing discussion about whether or not I will have to give up ROTC and joining the military, but possibly continue schooling. He has mentioned the ROTC thing as a we'll see whether or not you shall finish it.

I was wondering if there were other master/mistress out there that could give me their opinion on this matter. Is it wrong of me to ask to keep the school and ROTC due to the promise I had made to a family member that I would continue my schooling and complete the ROTC program? I am willing to be collared and serve my master, but I feel a strong desire to fulfill this promise that I made to my family member. I am new to this, so I dont know exactly what is the right way/wrong way for a Dom to act about these things. I just want to make sure I do the right thing with all of this.



you ask for advice, then disappear. sounds like you made your decision. you arent ready to serve a man, you need to serve yourself and your needs first.

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RE: Master/slave questions - 7/25/2009 11:22:09 AM   
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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

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ORIGINAL: BitaTruble
He has flexed his muscles in areas of , 'my' children and the interaction I have with them,


Now this is the sticking point for me, because I chose him but they didn't.
And consent is important for me.

So him telling them what they can and can't do wouldn't be about him being dominant to me but an asshat of a stepfather to them. And although he can tell me what lawn tractor to buy with my money, him telling them they can't go to the school of their choice because he wants their college funds wouldn't fly. Not that he would, but even him having that power unused is wrong to me.

Simply because they haven't given him that power.


He doesn't tell 'them' what to do. They're adults. My 'baby' is going to be 30 on his birthday. Sir tells "me" what to do in the interaction I have with them which is usually something like, "Girl, butt out.. they're grown, let them live their own lives."

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RE: Master/slave questions - 7/25/2009 11:41:08 AM   
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As a kink aware professional and someone who's into MMA, boxing (Oh, really any violent one-on-one sport), I'll put my money where my mouth is (And attribute bunches of potential therapeutic value to various aspects of this whole thing, though I only note one long-term cm poster behaving in a wildly inconsistent and unwisely combative fashion): I'll fly to CA for the match, I'll gladly buy a ticket (A premium blood-location one), I'll buy a t-shirt so Apocalypso gets some well-deserved merchandising money.  I think that perhaps it is only appropriate for The CM Sex God to be the Announcer.  Perhaps he would consent to his lovely priestess and little one being ring girls.  
Davan

**Edited cause I said I'd be a judge but realized I'd be abdicating my ringside seat and right to take sides**

< Message edited by DavanKael -- 7/25/2009 11:47:29 AM >


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RE: Master/slave questions - 7/25/2009 11:53:25 AM   
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ORIGINAL: DavanKael

I think that perhaps it is only appropriate for The CM Sex God to be the Announcer.  Perhaps he would consent to his lovely priestess and little one being ring girls.

Already in the works, worthy Lady!


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RE: Master/slave questions - 7/25/2009 12:05:16 PM   
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Aah, I see.  I cast my vote and added my commentary. 
Thank thee, O CM Sex God Du Jour!  :>  < hugs > 
  Davan

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RE: Master/slave questions - 7/25/2009 12:28:20 PM   
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ORIGINAL: NihilusZero

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ORIGINAL: KneelforAnne

Oh please, please Sex God...use your big vocabulary on me....
*flutters eyelashes*


Truly shalt thy zealous, fawning reverence reap for thee an enshrouding cloud of intoxicating eros and debilitating sensuality that shall permeate into the very pores of thy internal, awakened siren.



Oh Sex God...again...again! 
*whimpers and moans*

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RE: Master/slave questions - 7/25/2009 12:30:20 PM   
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*looks at all the happy,lustfull, fawning girls...then at her Sex God....hides her straight razor behind her back*


What?



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RE: Master/slave questions - 7/25/2009 12:38:40 PM   
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**decides to be very, very good....**

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RE: Master/slave questions - 7/25/2009 12:41:21 PM   
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*looks all innocent* Huh?

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RE: Master/slave questions - 7/25/2009 12:52:30 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Leonidas

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Since I am driving six hours to hold the event in YOUR town, why don't you let me know when you know for sure.  Again, September works a lot better for me, but I wouldn't miss this for the world.



Any Saturday in September is fine.  If I'm out of town I'll fly back.  I wouldn't do it for just anyone, but I'll make an exception in your case.



Good, I will start working on the details!

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RE: Master/slave questions - 7/25/2009 2:49:11 PM   
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ORIGINAL: NihilusZero
intoxicating eros
Oi!  I'm the one who tries to impress girls by pretending to be a classicist round here.  Find your own damn shtick.


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RE: Master/slave questions - 7/25/2009 5:35:18 PM   
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-fast reply-


Ok, ok...I like both these follows, obviously one is a party of a conceptual Home Stone and that finds my favor to a greater degree; sorry Mike, it's that family honor thing and all.

But................

As this took place in the M/s section and we know that M/s is primarily about sex, submission and kinky things; I pondered a bit and decided on a suitable contest that would test each man's prowess, physical strength, skills (with the wenches), manly ability, stamina and drive. I also believe that it would serve a much greater entertainment capacity in order to draw ticket sales (for charity of course).

Here's what we do, first we'll need fifty ravenous slutlings; we line 25 up for each of our Champions and have a fuck off. The first man to bring each of their 25 sluts to orgasm is the winner. In such an event there will be much less blood loss (barring menstruating wenches) and a way greater demonstration of virility, mastery and balls.

Oh and I stand a greater chance at retaining both of my friends.  


By the way, girls we're gonna need volunteers....sign up quickly, whether you like these follows or not, cock is cock and none of you can get enough...

< Message edited by xBullx -- 7/25/2009 5:40:45 PM >


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RE: Master/slave questions - 7/25/2009 5:40:45 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Leonidas
Maybe what you really want is just some PE, without the T.  Maybe you want to relinquish some control over some things, but retain some too.  Could be too that you are wanting to start with PE, and let the T develop as your trust and submission develop?  Just a thought.


...and 20 of my points too. (dutifully deducted). I do surely wish that more people thought this way. Why is it an almost heretical concept to suggest that... you know... relationships develop over time?

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RE: Master/slave questions - 7/25/2009 6:12:12 PM   
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-fast reply-


Ok, ok...I like both these follows, obviously one is a party of a conceptual Home Stone and that finds my favor to a greater degree; sorry Mike, it's that family honor thing and all.

But................

As this took place in the M/s section and we know that M/s is primarily about sex, submission and kinky things; I pondered a bit and decided on a suitable contest that would test each man's prowess, physical strength, skills (with the wenches), manly ability, stamina and drive. I also believe that it would serve a much greater entertainment capacity in order to draw ticket sales (for charity of course).

Here's what we do, first we'll need fifty ravenous slutlings; we line 25 up for each of our Champions and have a fuck off. The first man to bring each of their 25 sluts to orgasm is the winner. In such an event there will be much less blood loss (barring menstruating wenches) and a way greater demonstration of virility, mastery and balls.

Oh and I stand a greater chance at retaining both of my friends.  


By the way, girls we're gonna need volunteers....sign up quickly, whether you like these follows or not, cock is cock and none of you can get enough...


Bull, you are the best  Only problem for me, is I would have to concede victory to Leonidas in such a contest.  I am, and always have been, a one woman man.  However, the menstruating part wouldn't slow me down one bit if that counts for anything!

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RE: Master/slave questions - 7/25/2009 6:25:45 PM   
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Ok folks, enough derailing of this thread.  If you really must continue this, please take it over to the thread dedicated to it.

The Great Collarme Pissing Contest

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