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TexasMaam -> RE: Nailing his balls to the wall...literally (4/23/2006 10:22:50 AM)

Amazingly, My here-to-fore pretty much a wuss of a sub has gotten much more interested in hard core pain. (Perhaps he's read some of My posts? )

We were discussing this thread night before last and he's expressed an undeniable fascination with the idea.

Would you consider emailing Me a link or pics?

I'm TexasMaam on the other side, here at CollerMe.

Sincere thanks,

TM




bdsmfun -> RE: Nailing his balls to the wall...literally (4/23/2006 11:00:34 AM)

I don’t see any more danger them putting needless in his balls. If that is his kinky,  why not. I have seen picture, nail balls to a piece of wood, so it has been done before.




SweetSarijane -> RE: Nailing his balls to the wall...literally (4/23/2006 12:29:59 PM)

I followed this thread from the beginning. I've shaken my head at all the doomsayers and ones who said how wrong it was, etc. This wasn't just some oh I think I'll nail his balls to something, and then tie him up and do it the next day, things. From my reading and following this, I saw that a lot of research into the best way to do it was done as well as hard work to make it as safe as possible to do. It's done, it's over, all participants are happy. Just because someone's kink isn't yours doesn't ALWAYS make it wrong, just not right for you.




yourMissTress -> RE: Nailing his balls to the wall...literally (4/23/2006 1:13:59 PM)

TM, you have no profile that I can find on the other side.  Please send MouseTrapp an email address that she can link you to the group with. 




enthralled -> RE: Nailing his balls to the wall...literally (4/23/2006 2:28:52 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: CalicoNymph

I've been watching this thread for some time, before and after the scene, and I'm truly glad to see the disenters among us reveal their ignorance and lack of tolerance for the needs and desires of others. This makes it more clear to me how fortunate I am to live in a city with a highly diverse and tolerant community![sm=applause.gif]

Btw, I'm the Head Dungeon Monitor for the club this scene was held in. There was more prep, planning and concern for the participants involved than I've seen for any other scene in my time serving the community. Without the love and concern of Alisa (his wife), his Mistress and his friends in the community I don't think this scene would have meant as much to eric. The energy in the room was incredible!

It's easy for anyone to spout off about the law and the risk of energy involved in the lifestyle. Frankly, most everything we do (phyically) is illegal and involves some level of risk. As someone pointed out, a flogging can cause serious injury if done improperly. One of the ways to ensure a scene is as safe as possible is to enlist the help of your friends and the expertise of others in the community, like trained Dungeon Monitors.

Stunning, you list in your profile that you like breath play. Please, for your sake and the sake of your partners, go be trained by a medical professional before you undertake this extremely dangerous activity. Oh noone will train you?? What a surprise that is![sm=ofcourse.gif]

Calico

"The purpose of life, after all, is to live it, to taste experience to the
utmost, to reach out eagerly and without fear for newer and richer
experiences." Eleanor Roosevelt

<edit> I'm highly amused by the "vanilla" posted under my name. Does that happen when you post for the first time here? If not, someone please tell me how to change it!! [:)]


[sm=hello.gif] Hiiiiiiii Calico!

enthralled <aka-shell ..... or is that the other way around? lol>




yourMissTress -> RE: Nailing his balls to the wall...literally (4/23/2006 3:29:43 PM)

Hello Calico, wonderful to see you here!  I'm also quite happy that we are a part of a very diverse and widely accepting community. 
 
Thank you for your concerned and watchful eye before and during the scene.  It was comforting to know that you and the other DM's were in support of us and our needs that evening. 
 
I will be calling on you soon enough to begin planning my next trip to the edge...





CalicoNymph -> RE: Nailing his balls to the wall...literally (4/23/2006 8:21:08 PM)

You are truly Sadistic! How long are you going to make me wait to find out what you're going to do next??

I'm sorry I didn't get to stick around Friday night to see you play. My "little Dom" had me on a curfew. And it was a shame too, I was in a very fun conversation with someone. [:)]

Calico




PlayfulOne -> RE: Nailing his balls to the wall...literally (4/27/2006 2:03:34 PM)

I've followed this for some time and I cant believe the people screaming about this being unsafe, illegal, a terrible idea.  Just because your not interested does not mean others should not have the right to pursue their wishes and desires. 

Reading the post of Miss Tress it was obvious how much thought and care she put into this.  Anyone would be fortunate to have their Dom, Domina, Top, put this much care and thought into their well being.

Miss Tress if its not to much trouble we would love to see the pics one day.

K




Reasonable -> RE: Nailing his balls to the wall...literally (4/27/2006 2:30:26 PM)

I've done piercing in the past-the only real danger is infection-or using too large a needle or nail-barring hitting delicate anatomy of course.

A scrotum is easily enough to manipluate to see exactly where vessels and tubes are located around the testicles.
Anything else can be pierced in there with no real long term damage-as long as the bore is less than about an eight inch,and things are aspectic.

But I DO reccomend using stainless steel at the very least. Iron and zinc by themselves can introduce some very nasty things that will react poorly with a salt water enviornment.

Enjoy!




KnightofMists -> RE: Nailing his balls to the wall...literally (4/28/2006 11:40:04 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Invictus754

OMG...I really have to laugh at EVERYONE who is even talking about the legality of something.  HELLO...LAWS CHANGE.  In 1919, women couldn't vote. 



OMG... you mean they can vote now??????  don't tell my slaves *w*




goddessoflight -> RE: Nailing his balls to the wall...literally (4/29/2006 6:09:04 AM)

 What an interesting discussion and I find it was a brave thing for them both to do. Something that wasn't discussed yet is that there are people out there that mentally can poke needles through their bodies,even in their mouth cheeks and feel no pain and no bleeding whatsoever afterwards. So I like it that they were willing to step out there, both adults and knowing what they are doing and they did it. Of course it's not something I would recommend just anyone go out and try. But, thats just common sense and I'm sure MissTress would agree. She's studied it, she knew what she was doing , and she did it.
 You don't have to be a "licensed professional" to do everything! If someone has a sore tooth and someone else helps pull it out, there will always be someone to say...omg, your not a "professional dentist" how could you do that horrible thing, where's the lawyers?  I'd say they have been brainwashed watching to many lawyer shows on tv and everything comes down to ,  "I'm a free american, but am I allowed to cross the street, am I allowed to speak my mind, can I do this or that?"  So are we really free? MissTress has a free thinking mind, don't try to stomp on it. If it's not your kink then either stop reading or get ideas ....lol.
 On the other hand it's good that everyone has their own opinion and can speak it. Even though it might be wrong, but stunning, baby doll, I bet the intelligent people on these threads could debate you in the ground even if it's not bdsm. I don't mean to attack you and I'm not, it's just that when someone says they are the best and think they are so intelligent I've been known to floor people with what I know. Not in bdsm, I'm just a rookie compared to alot of people on here I'll admit it, but as far as things outside this lifestyle, I'll take you on any time, or maybe I won't waste my time *w*. Am I the best? Do I know everything, oh hell no, but I learn , explore and I have an open mind.
 As far as the ball nailing, how exciting and I bet everyone there was on a natural high seeing and doing it. I've seen some pretty extreme hook hanging people on tv and it's about mind over matter the gurus in India and around the world do all kinds of things that most think are impossible.
. So what's the big deal? He was laughing and in pain, but as far as I know he didn't say stop and could have at anytime. Thats trust between two people that money can't buy.
 




Elle44 -> RE: Nailing his balls to the wall...literally (4/29/2006 9:13:16 AM)


OMG... you mean they can vote now??????  don't tell my slaves *w*
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::: laughing hysterically :::  Only if it's in their contract, Knight.  Seriously, this reminds me of a Dom I spoke to recently who said he made his slave vote his choices. 
 
But back to the subject at hand, in response to all the legal know-it-alls, the law in some cases will protect people who don't protect themselves.  A pinch is technically an assault if it causes pain.  If I consent for you to pinch me, then you have a defense.  If you cold cock me when all I consented to was a pinch, then the law will generally come to my aid.
 
Straight from the lawbooks, folks:

"Generally, the consent of the party toward whom the act is directed will prevent it from amounting to an assault and constitute a defense.  Likewise, a battery cannot be committed unless against the will of the injured party.  If a touching exceeds the scope of the consent given, the touching is not consensual and thus is unlawful. 

The rule that consent to an unlawful assault and battery may be a justification has no application where it is a matter that concerns the peace and dignity of the state.  The overriding concern for public protection makes consent ineffective as a defense in certain cases.  Thus. a consent to an assault and battery of such violence that bodily harm is likely to result does not operate as a defense. When faced with the question of whether to accept a school child's consent to hazing or consent to a fight, or a gang member's consent to a beating, courts have declined to apply the defense. Each of two persons fighting by consent is guilty of an assault, regardless of who struck the first blow.  The theory of mutual fight or combat may be asserted not for purposes of showing a justification or an excuse for what would otherwise be an assault, but rather to characterize the affray for purposes of negating a specific intent.

Consent obtained by fraud is not a defense."
 
Realistically, I don't know of a prosecutor who would waste taxpayer dollars to prosecute the kinds of activities we are discussing.  And common sense also tells us that a prospective juror on a case like "nailing balls to the wall" is going to wonder why the prosecution is wasting his or her time summoning him to court over something that was completely consentual, where all risks were addressed, the outcome was successful, and the injury received did not exceed the scope of the agreement.
 
If we are going to argue about the law, then let's at least be informed as to what it is!
 
elle




Elle44 -> RE: Nailing his balls to the wall...literally (4/29/2006 9:34:56 AM)

Oh, and Knight, forgive me as my post appears to be completely in response to your posts.  Only the first part was intended as a response to you, in jest of course.  The discussion of law is directed with the hope of educating people like Stunning.  (if it is at all possible!)

elle




seat4her -> RE: Nailing his balls to the wall...literally (8/31/2006 4:28:19 AM)

Just a word on the topic. I have been looking to have this done to me previously So I kind ov read about it a bit. One safety aspect to consider is the type of nails you use. There are some nails available made in stainless steel I was told. Those are safer as they don't rust and are easyer to sterilise. (sorry for the typos, I'm francophone).

One last thing for YourMissTress, If you are still looking for those videos, (nailed) I have a version of it in realmedia format. Just tell me and I will be pleased to send them to you.

seat4her




Master4owned1 -> RE: Nailing his balls to the wall...literally (8/31/2006 11:36:22 PM)

I have seen this on a TV show called Sin Cities,  one of the hosts - grub - had his balls nailed to a board.  I would think if it was illegal it would not have been permitted on TV.

Master4




ladycirce -> RE: Nailing his balls to the wall...literally (9/6/2006 7:45:42 AM)

make sure the pleasure giving sub can also act as a spotter, to catch a fainting maso. if someone is lying down while this is done to them, the danger of fainting and ripping the shit out of the wall is not an issue, as it is in the scene described in the video.
good luck!
supplementary bondage would be a great addition, for safety's sake.




aslv2kneel -> RE: Nailing his balls to the wall...literally (9/7/2006 6:31:05 AM)

yikes - perhaps - the ultimate leap o faith




BalletBob -> RE: Nailing his balls to the wall...literally (10/11/2006 9:22:13 PM)

OUCH ! I am glad I don't have any (or at least that's what some people tell me). But then again on Halloween, I have more than most men at work.....LOL

Waiting for a Mistress and Halloween, BalletBob

PS Ladycirce, That is a GREAT PINK DRESS your wearing in your profile. Congratulations on such good taste. Now all you need is a Britney Outfit, with Blakc Mini Skirt, White Tights and Mary Janes.....LMCLAO
Just kidding, please put your whip away.




ineverget2cum -> RE: Nailing his balls to the wall...literally (12/5/2006 1:55:32 AM)

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MrrPete -> RE: Nailing his balls to the wall...literally (12/5/2006 3:34:16 AM)

Opinions are like assholes..........everyone has one.
They are niether right or wrong only different.

Disagree all you want and say why but never pass judgement
on the person.

As soon as you do YOU have put the other person on the defense
and have lost the argument.

I have watched in fascination while a sub had his genitals pulled
through a butterfly board and his scrotum pinned down with 58
needles. I think he reached outer space by about the 5th one.
His eyes rolled up like window shutters.

Facinating to say the least but I have no desire to be a participant.

My hat is off to the successful Nailer and nailee.

Reply to Elle44:

There is no "universal" law on assault. What constitutes assault or not
depends on the jurisdiction. So one has to determine WHICH set of
law books to use prior to any discussion. What you do is bound to be legal
somewhere and not legal somewhere else. It's just a matter of location.




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