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LadyShoshin -> RE: Nailing his balls to the wall...literally (2/20/2006 12:47:07 AM)
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I have been involved in planning this same sort of scene, be prepared for lots of blood and have a way to ensure that as the nails are being pulled out of the wood, that they are sterile before being drawn back through the testes, you don't want bacteria to enter either on the way in or out. Ensure that everything is sterilized and kept sterile through the scene.
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ORIGINAL: yourMissTress
With recent discussions of playing, scenes and sadism...I began to think about what we call "playing". I enjoy reading about others adventures and thought I would share the most current scene I'm planning. I ask that if anyone has an idea that would be constructive, or maybe I have overlooked a safety issue please, by all means, let me know.
I seem to attract subs that lean to the masochistic. One in particular has a love almost equal to my own of CBT. The things that I am able to do to this boy's cock and balls are amazing. He begs for more and believe me when I say I give him a lot of pain and I have yet to hear his safeword uttered. It's awesome.
He has a favorite video it's called "Nailed". It's german BDSM porn depicting a Domina nailing a man's scrotum to a board. And it's his fantasy. I have searched the net, google and Amazon for the video, if anyone has another idea of where I can find it please let me know.
We have discussed this scene and decided to proceed with it. I have set a weekend at a local club that this will take place. We've discussed the main points of what make this fantasy work for him and why. I'm attempting to include as many of the points that are attractive to him as possible without interfering with my own desires.
I have done the necessary research on what kind of nails to use and where to find them. The nails have to be longer than the width of the piece of wood they will be driven into, and there will be concrete below the wood. This is to increase the likelihood that there will be proper space for the hammer's claw when it's time to remove the nails.
Consent and safewording have been discussed and my sub has asked that he not be allowed a safeword for this particular scene. This is based on a number of reasons, the first being that he doesn't want to be the one making the decision to stop. He knows that he won't safeword out of it. Which to me makes perfect sense that if I'm not waiting for him to safeword, I can make a better judgement as to how much is enough. Our goal is 5 nails, with a minimum of 2.
Consent has been given, and he can change his mind right up until the first nail is driven through. Everything after that is consentual by virtue of the intent, planning and conversation leading up to the event. So, for the next 4 weeks we will be playing very heavily and as often as possible so that we can raise his pain tolerance and I can finer tune my connection to him.
My plan is to start with smudging(I like to smudge before a well planned scene), then a long and ardent flogging to his back and ass, followed by some very intense CBT. Once ready to begin the nailing, there will be a fem sub near his head and chest to give him some pleasure in between nails and help him center and focus. I am then going to attempt to make him cum before removing the nails. I will be amazed if he can achieve erection in this state, but...with if any man could it would be him. Since after a man has cum he is at his most vulnerable to sensation and pain this is when I want to remove the nails. And of course, there is no safewording out of this one.
So, if anyone's going to be in Nashville at the end of March...watch the announcements board as the date approaches!!!
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