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"Raping Sub" - 7/28/2009 5:00:22 PM

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Hello everyone. Liz and I have been moving further and further along with our relationship and talking about various fantasies that we each have and would like to try. The other night I mentioned that I would very much like to be the victim of a rape/attack. Liz agreed that it could be a lot of fun with the proper planning. The problem is neither of us have been able to come up with a good way to make it work. I am bigger then her, and can generally overpower her relatively easily. So my question for you is, have you ever done this before, and if so, how did you make it physically work when your sub could overpower you? Thanks for the advice.

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RE: "Raping Sub" - 7/28/2009 5:15:18 PM

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No disrespect here, if its fantasy surely you make it work by not fightingback. Maybe being threatened with something, such as blackmail. Maybe being tied up for fun and then the playrape taking place against your wishes. Anyhow, Im sure you will think of something that works.

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RE: "Raping Sub" - 7/28/2009 5:27:23 PM

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If you just really don't feel like getting assfucked right then, it can be rape play. YUM.

So you just hafta be properly restrained to begin with, that's all.

Once you are restrained in such a way as to limit your movement so that you can't offer much resistance, can't prevent the act and can't get away, then she can take you even if you'd just really rather not submit to it at the moment. Struggle all you want, it won't do any good. How sweet is that? MMMmmmm....

I like to restrain my boy face down with a spreader bar holding his ankles wide apart, and have my way with him. Try getting away when you're face down, with a spreader bar attached to your ankle cuffs, that holds your legs splayed wide open for her. Its very awkward, to say the least. But then with that and with wrist cuffs attached to something stationary, you're dog meat. She'll have her way.

For further immobilization you could have the spreader bar or your ankle cuffs fastened to something, or you could just be laid out ass up on a St. Andrews cross, or whatever. You get the idea.

Problem solved. Five cents, please.

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RE: "Raping Sub" - 7/28/2009 9:13:48 PM

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Blackmail. You'll do anything to protect X.

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RE: "Raping Sub" - 7/29/2009 4:54:02 AM

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One day when she wants to rape you, you will wake up with your hands cuffed behind your back and your leggs shackled together by a 4 inch chain. No matter how much bigger you are you will not have any success fighting back. Plus is she wants you in a position you don'r want to be in, a whip, a crop, a cane or many other things can change your mind.

You kinda have to be a heavy sleeper to have this work.

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RE: "Raping Sub" - 7/29/2009 4:57:03 AM

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blackmail, maybe. or somehow get KO'd and wake up tied up and unable to move. dunno how you'll do that one though

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RE: "Raping Sub" - 7/29/2009 5:01:26 AM

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An iron skillet to the noggin works well for immobilization... but I wouldn't suggest it.

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RE: "Raping Sub" - 7/29/2009 5:02:20 AM

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An iron skillet to the noggin works well for immobilization... but I wouldn't suggest it.

it'd probably make a cool sound.

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RE: "Raping Sub" - 7/29/2009 5:33:58 AM

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Why don't you venture out into the r/t GA community? I would think you would find assistance there. I had no problem with such scenes.

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RE: "Raping Sub" - 7/29/2009 11:32:55 AM

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troy,

Have her email Me privately :)

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RE: "Raping Sub" - 7/29/2009 1:45:21 PM

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LadyPact unfortunately Uncle Sam has seen fit to move us to Kansas (definately not our first choice) and we haven't had a lot of luck getting into the community out here. Oh well, with luck another move isn't far behind back to Texas.

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RE: "Raping Sub" - 7/29/2009 2:23:02 PM

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LadyPact unfortunately Uncle Sam has seen fit to move us to Kansas (definately not our first choice) and we haven't had a lot of luck getting into the community out here. Oh well, with luck another move isn't far behind back to Texas.

troy

There is a Topeka group. You can email me for further information.

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RE: "Raping Sub" - 7/30/2009 12:42:19 PM

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Never having been big on resisting, i've never felt the need to be physically overpowered to be "raped." A good, hard, choking, gagging skull fucking, then ass pounding with a great big dildo is close enough for me.

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RE: "Raping Sub" - 7/30/2009 5:40:44 PM

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Wow! How did I miss this thread? Yep, I'll have some of that 'early morning surprise'. . . .

I always used to fantasise about waking up to my face being sat on. I realised in the end that it wasn't realistic, though. I concluded that I'd probably wake up in sheer terror, having just come out of a nightmare about being suffocated by a large wet scouring pad, or similar.

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RE: "Raping Sub" - 7/30/2009 5:48:35 PM

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Peon, that's what razors and Brazilian waxes are for. If the bush feels like a scouring pad, it needs to go.

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RE: "Raping Sub" - 7/30/2009 5:58:08 PM

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Well, it just so happens I'm pretty good at Brazilians, Ms S, though I say it myself . . .

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RE: "Raping Sub" - 7/30/2009 6:11:55 PM

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I don't understand why they would need to involve other members of their community in a "rape" or consensual non-consent scene?

Several people had some good suggestions, but I had the impression that you actively enjoy the rough play and feeling overpowered, rather than being taken by surprise or having more of a psychological approach (ie. blackmail). I really enjoy wrestling/playfighting, and I'm pretty strong even though I'm petite. I'd suggest taking a martial arts class together to get comfortable with falls/takedowns and some strikes, and do some sparring. You can deliberately hold back, and there are lots of positions that can give her enough leverage to do throws and pins and such with you, even if you're bigger and stronger than she is. You can also "get away from her" after she puts you in handcuffs or something (talk to her about it first, of course) so you're at a disadvantage, but can still struggle to some extent. Another option is for her to use a knife (it doesn't need to actually be sharp), so she can use that kind of physical threat rather than muscle power by yanking your hair back and holding it to your throat or up against your stomach. Of course, if the two of you are into knifeplay, she can incorporate that into it. Instead of a knife, you could also use a realistic-looking toy or paintball gun.

For a more silly "aggressive" playfighting scene, you could always do a pillowfight or use a kiddy pool in the garage or something for jello wrestling!

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RE: "Raping Sub" - 7/31/2009 10:15:24 PM

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I'll second Andalusite. Any riggable game, like blindfolded strip poker works too.

And basic bondage can be the starter for "involuntary" strapon sex. Wrists cuffed to the ankles. Humblers. Crotchless straitjackets. Even sex swings. Once they're helpless and "open", the next move is decided entirely by you.

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RE: "Raping Sub" - 7/31/2009 10:17:37 PM

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I'll second Andalusite. Any riggable game, like blindfolded strip poker works too.

And basic bondage can be the starter for "involuntary" strapon sex. Wrists cuffed to the ankles. Humblers. Crotchless straitjackets. Even sex swings. Once they're helpless and "open", the next move is decided entirely by you.

I'm afraid I might be showing my ignorance here, but I have to ask..."sex wings"? I'm not familiar.

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RE: "Raping Sub" - 8/1/2009 12:07:41 AM

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Even sex swings. Once they're helpless and "open", the next move is decided entirely by you.

I'm afraid I might be showing my ignorance here, but I have to ask..."sex wings"? I'm not familiar.

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