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dearjohn -> A reason for all the fakes ? (7/30/2009 11:08:39 PM)
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What’s going on, on this site every one is asking the same question, why so many fakes?
I’d like to offer a possible reason or indeed an answer, I have been having a good look round, I know all about the fake fem subs who list themselves as being in the UK and surprise, surprise there actually in Africa or America and are desperate for their air fair back to the UK. Anyone fool enough to give these “girls” money, well if you ever see the money or the girls again I for one will be very surprised.
I have also looked at a few of the American Dommes and their profiles, most look to be honest everyday women who are looking for that some one special that also has similar interests or needs as themselves, there not on the whole in it for what they can make.
Now I am not talking about the Pro Dommes here, most if not all of the profiles I have looked at that are Pro Dommes say as much on the top line of the profile, or very close to it.
But there is here in the UK what looks like a growing trend in young ladies who seem to be here simply to cash in on what they can get, several profiles are asking for credit for mobile phones, others are asking for various amounts to be paid by male subs up front just to get the potential Mistress’s messenger address, others are saying they want a tribute before they will consider a male sub/slave or even consider talking to him, or they expect him to keep them in the lifestyle they are accustomed too, in short pay for whatever they want, yet the same is not true or doesn’t seem to be true of fem subs looking for a new Mistress or a new Master for that matter.
I know there is likely far more male subs than there are female ones, but even so why the double standard?
When did this life style become about making easy money?
If a male Dom were to ask for the same sort of things some women on here ask for he’d likely be laughed off the site and I am pretty sure he’d not get any offers either.
Yes, I am Not talking about all the UK Dommes here just a few of them, who are nothing more than parasites, all I’d like to say to those girls is if there’s something you want go get a job and earn the money yourself.
So can you wonder why there are some men pretending to be fem subs?
Secondly what is a fake ?
Is it some one who pretends to be what they are not? Some one who in there own way lives in a little fantasy world they have created for themselves? To add a bit of fun to there otherwise boring lives?
I have been around a good few years now, in my early days, having anything to do with this life style was frowned upon by society in general, that I suspect is getting a little better all the time as BDSM becomes more acceptable and yes with the internet becoming more popular it has lead to an explosion of the numbers of people becoming more involved and more involved on a public stage, so that brings me back to the question is it wrong for some one to pretend to be what they’re not in order to brighten an otherwise boring life?
Yes I will add it is wrong to try and deceive people in order to gain from it or to cause the hurt some fakes likely do, but on a site and in a life style where very few use there real name when you first get to talking to them, what constitutes a fake?
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