WyldHrt
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This all depends, what limits did you set at the beginning cause you can't change them after the fact And why is that, exactly? Sorry, sub here, but still... I've asked this in other threads, but have never gotten a good answer. In a previous thread, a poster stated that expecting a D to present every possible situation in which he might want to exert his dominance to a sub during negotiation was "ridiculous" and "unrealistic". So how can a sub be expected to know each and every possible situation that might be a hard limit from the get go? Don't mean to jump on you, Mike, as I really enjoy your posts. I just don't get the "one chance to set limits" thing in the context of a relationship that includes growth, exploring, and expanding experiences. Really, how many subs would think of hard limiting "being commanded to come while babysitting my niece in her mother's home"????
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