lilboycaught
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Hi Lashra. Thank you for your response on the other post I started. It's ironic that I may actually get a clearer answer of that post on this one. I am also, in general, "out" about being a sub male. I don't wear it on my sleeve, but if people asked me about it, not only would I not deny it, but my attitude would be like if they asked me if I was a genius. "uh, yes, I 'reluctantly admit to that." I don't hide who I am. But society doesn't really see it that way. If you're "really" a MAN then by golly you're dominant with your woman. If friends/family knew that not only do I like being submissive to females, I actually would like a mate/marriage based on such an arrangement, they would certainly look at me differently. These are pretty sophisticated, and very well educated (everybody in my family has at least a Master's degree) people. No, they wouldn't think I was "sick," but they would think (to varying degrees) I was, well, less of a man than they had previously thought. They would consider my affection harmless, funny, and kind of sad.
< Message edited by lilboycaught -- 8/18/2009 7:03:28 AM >
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