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New Subject - 3/14/2004 3:04:11 AM   
DomCT2002


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Status: offline 		Lets discuss spankings some. I believe spankings are not a sexual act really, it is meant to be a part of foreplay, just as it goes for nipple clamps, waxings, vibes, dildos or any other implement. Am I wrong here?

And I like to work up to the impliments, by way of bare hands, to flogger, to crop then belt etc. anyone else feel this way?

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RE: New Subject - 3/14/2004 6:58:54 AM   
iwillserveu


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Status: offline 		I think it is all fore play. Even doing the vacuuming and dishes if done right is foreplay. It becomes a definition of sex thing.

For spanking I do prefer "warming up" activities before the big guns come out.

Welcome to a normal post. You should be congratulated. Most guys who post ads on the boards never come back. (Although you are not the first.)

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RE: New Subject - 3/14/2004 8:38:36 AM   
sweetieboop


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Status: offline 		Well, if you're going to call it foreplay, then I would consider it sexual. Isn't foreplay a sexual act? I think it depends on when and for what reason you're doing it. It can be considered play or punishment. That's just my opinion however. :)

BTW, I commend you as well DomCT. I think it's very honorable of you to come back the "proper" way.

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RE: New Subject - 3/14/2004 2:50:02 PM   
Estring


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Status: offline 		I don't consider spanking as a sexual act either. I don't think anyone does, although I have known a couple of slaves that might disagree. Lol. Spanking is a great form of foreplay though. Gets the juices flowing.

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RE: New Subject - 3/14/2004 3:02:32 PM   
ZenMaster


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Status: offline 		I've been spanking for years. In fact, spanking was the first physical act I committed which was BDSM oriented. I love it because it's so natural and you don't need any toys other than your own 2 hands. I don't know that I would limit it only to foreplay because I have spanked without sex following and I've spanked with sex following. I just see it as something to increase the connection between and a Master and his own. I've also used it as a form of discipline and find it works wonders especially if the intent is to discipline and the one receiving it knows this. I've used it sensually and find it's a wonderful prelude to hot sex.

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RE: New Subject - 3/15/2004 4:32:29 PM   
MJsfool


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Status: offline 		Sir,
The spanking as foreplay is an intriguing thought. A while back my Master bred me for the first time. After wards, he took his belt out of his pants and used it on me. The reaction i felt toward that was startling. Watching Him take that belt in his hands frightened me. But i know better than to bolt from him. It was confusing to me, because it seemed He was displeased with me. It would be a lie that i didn't feel some sexual response, but seeing that belt in His hands also made me afraid. Is that a normal thing?

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RE: New Subject - 3/15/2004 4:36:52 PM   
iwillserveu


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Status: offline 		What is sex depends on the definition of "is".

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RE: New Subject - 3/15/2004 6:52:26 PM   
seattleminx


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quote:

ORIGINAL: iwillserveu

I think it is all fore play. Even doing the vacuuming and dishes if done right is foreplay. It becomes a definition of sex thing.

For spanking I do prefer "warming up" activities before the big guns come out.

Welcome to a normal post. You should be congratulated. Most guys who post ads on the boards never come back. (Although you are not the first.)


Ooo.. It depends on time, place and person I am with. I enjoy spanking very much as a start, especially in a "slap n' tickle" scene. I also enjoy biting, scratching and other such non-implement activities. It's very much "To each their own".

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RE: New Subject - 3/18/2004 2:22:20 AM   
MsAkasha8


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Status: offline 		Spanking can be the beginning, middle or end. I enjoy giving a good spanking at all times. I had a wonderful sub that was able to orgasm from spanking. It all depends on the individual.
Ms. A.

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RE: New Subject - 3/18/2004 7:50:01 PM   
MistressKiss


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Status: offline 		Wow, I agree....I believe the mind can make ANYTHING a sexual experience...just ask your submissive to wander through every room in the house one day and find something to hump...grins.

I don't usually orgasm from a spanking alone, but place a vibe in a strategic place, spank me, then crop me, then paddle me, and I'm a goner. I'm outta there. I'm floatin', baby!

It's all what the mind does with the input you give it.

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RE: New Subject - 4/8/2004 8:30:24 AM   
MistressDREAD


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RE: New Subject - 4/8/2004 9:00:38 PM   
MistressKiss


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Status: offline 		What if you have a vibe on your clit and are spanked until you cum? grins




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RE: New Subject - 4/8/2004 11:14:45 PM   
Estring


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Status: offline 		Lol. I guess that would be a sexual act. I like the way you think Kiss.

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RE: New Subject - 4/29/2004 2:33:37 PM   
Katmistress


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Status: offline 		Interesting - wonder if this should include some chat about "Good" and "bad" spankings...There is a difference between the two.
For sure if the spanking was to correct behavior and the sub/slave swore they would never offend in that way again then if the mood turned to sex.... hmmmm.....well, that would be ok. heh
If this was a "good" spanking then nothing like a good warm-up before some real exercise. (grin)
Whatcha think?

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RE: New Subject - 4/29/2004 3:14:05 PM   
GoddessMarissa


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Status: offline 		I think all spankings are good. I also think that any type of foreplay is sexual.

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RE: New Subject - 4/29/2004 4:06:43 PM   
rain


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Status: offline 		Good point,

If Your sub/slave enjoys spanking then it's not really punishment, is it? -Unless they are being spanked with something they DO NOT like, big difference between being spanked by one's hands than a belt, paddle, etc.

Spanking, for me, is definetly foreplay, if i DON"T get some afterwards, well, THAT'S punishment!

~rain~

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RE: New Subject - 4/29/2004 6:06:59 PM   
MistressKiss


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Status: offline 		What can I say? I'm a bad, bad girl....laughs

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