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RE: Female slaves Headshaved - 8/25/2009 7:03:19 PM

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Been there, done it and even bought the wigs, actually own a few wigs now. (do i get a prize?)I do not believe it would humiliate or strip me as you say of anything,even at my current age. I love bald heads, they are beautiful, I often just think of shaving my hair off, I am way more then my hair. My mother had cancer her sweet lil bald head was the most adorable thing I have ever seen,I would shave my head for my owner, Yes.!

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RE: Female slaves Headshaved - 8/25/2009 8:06:11 PM

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...I am way more then my hair...

Amen.

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RE: Female slaves Headshaved - 8/25/2009 9:20:08 PM

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My Master had always had a fantasy about shaving a sub. When my hair started to fall out following my whole brain radiotherapy I was very upset and asked him to shave it off. I have never seen him so nervous before and was really surprised knowing his fantasy. He was just aware of what a big step it was. I am not able to wear a wig because of the positioning of the plate in my skull so tend to wear a cap when I go out. You would be surprised at how many negative comments I get. I am currently not working due to recovery and further treatments but I have spoken to a couple of agencies about getting back to work. They have all said that I am unlikely to get a role similar to my previous one (Finance Director of a large company) unless I can wear a wig.

He has continued to shave it as there are 2 large areas where the hair is not growing back at all so it is better to keep the rest short. It is true that when hair grows back it can be different to the original. I was blonde and straight and what hair has grown back is dark and curly!

Both he and I now realise that this is not something to be done lightly. Would I have done it without the cancer if he had asked? yes probably because it would have been something he wanted.

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RE: Female slaves Headshaved - 8/25/2009 9:28:13 PM

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ORIGINAL: candisa

Been there, done it and even bought the wigs, actually own a few wigs now. (do i get a prize?) I do not believe it would humiliate or strip me as you say of anything,even at my current age. I love bald heads, they are beautiful, I often just think of shaving my hair off, I am way more then my hair. My mother had cancer her sweet lil bald head was the most adorable thing I have ever seen, I would shave my head for my owner, Yes.!

When I first joined the community I wore my silver hair long. It was the most striking thing about me. Yes, I was sort of proud of it, but the only way to maintain its condition and length was to wear it up in an uncomfortable clip during most of the day. The clip provided protection and maintained a certain curl/body in my otherwise straight hair.

But I got tired of it after a while. It was heavy and the clip gave me headaches. And I'm not a beauty and not vain. So I cut it to a little less than shoulder length. And then went to a munch. I found out then that I really was "all about my hair". I got scolded roundly by some woman I had thought was a friend for cutting it. "You used to look so good!", she exclaimed over and over. That was the last munch I attended.

Anyway, to get back on topic, I really think that the only thing delusional about the OP is thinking that all woman would be thoroughly broken by having to shave their head. There are days I would cheerfully shave the stuff off myself and just wear a scarf instead. In my hippy days, my trademark was keeping my hair covered because I didn't want to hassle with it. In some circles, a bald head is a fashion statement. And there are things you can do to maintain your job like creative kerchiefs or wigs. Or leaving it alone. Heck the fashion articles would have you believe that if you don't wear makeup you become unemployable. Old broads like me refuse to wear makeup and cut their own hair but maintain their employment by being too skilled to replace.

Wouldn't it be funny if the fellow set up a head shaving scene as the "ultimate slave breaking humiliation" only to have the girl get all giddy with relief at losing a burden. And wigs make hair-pulling scenes much less satisfying:

Alix

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RE: Female slaves Headshaved - 8/26/2009 1:18:13 AM

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*Gasp* Probably as much as what this thread has to do with "theatrics", I'm thinking. But I've gathered you're not too interested in hearing any more about that, are you?

If you want to disagree with an opinion, fine. If you want to object to the perceived snark with which that opinion was made, that's fine, too. My objection was to your making a snide attack on the person, rather than the post.

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Thing is, where I'm from a slave is a reflection of his or her owner. Now if the master in question is snide, I suppose she's quite in line, I guess.

I agree with the first sentence, actually. Therefore, I would assume that if her D objected to what she had to say, or the tone in which it was said, he would deal with it in whatever manner he chose. That said, I fail to see how this justifies your remark suggesting that she isn't submissive.

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I do apologize. I should have noticed you're in fact more worthy of some criticism, being that you're all over this thread in Post #10, Post #15, Post #29 and Post #57—not to mention now Post #65 with the message of no way, this head shaving thing is stupid, nyah! Ok, Wyld, we hear you.

Wow, you are so right. How dare I post more than once on a thread... and in a discussion forum, no less! Unbelievable.
BTW, my compliments on your reading comprehension skills.

With that, I'm quite done with this public pissing match. If you wish to continue, feel free to cmail me.

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RE: Female slaves Headshaved - 8/26/2009 8:20:38 AM

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If you want to disagree with an opinion, fine. If you want to object to the perceived snark with which that opinion was made, that's fine, too. My objection was to your making a snide attack on the person, rather than the post.

And I believe I was disagreeing with the opinion and the package it was given in.

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ORIGINAL: WyldHrt
I agree with the first sentence, actually. Therefore, I would assume that if her D objected to what she had to say, or the tone in which it was said, he would deal with it in whatever manner he chose.

Assuming he knows, of course.

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ORIGINAL: WyldHrt
That said, I fail to see how this justifies your remark suggesting that she isn't submissive.

I think it's valid once in a while to call the cynical thoughts of those who claim to be one way or another into question from time to time, lest newcomers begin to think these smug, sarcastic attitudes exemplify anything but snarkery.

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ORIGINAL: WyldHrt
With that, I'm quite done with this public pissing match. If you wish to continue, feel free to cmail me.

Thanks for the offer, but somehow I don't believe you're quite done yet.

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RE: Female slaves Headshaved - 8/30/2009 11:31:20 AM

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*rubs hands along smooth scalp* Well my head isnt completely shaved *yet* but its pretty damn close... and I did it for my Master, though he was kind enough to do it in stages for me so I didnt go from having hair down to the middle of my back (like my profile picture, taken only about 2 months ago) to having a flattop. I dont know why exactly He had me do it, but I do know it pleases Him, so I did it... I cant say I would do it for every Dom that I meet, or if I enter another D/s relationship. Something just felt right about doing it for this Master. Plus, hair grows, wigs can be found and aren't expensive, and you can change your hair every day with a new wig... hehe I am going out to buy a purple one tomorrow... Yippy! But it does make for working to become difficult because I am a girl and work with the public my job didnt like the fact that I look SUPER butch... and made me wear a wig... Pissed Master and I both off....

But I guess I am one of very few that would allow for my Master to shave my head.... that and I am currently looking into waxing it for Him....

Jade

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RE: Female slaves Headshaved - 8/30/2009 3:18:01 PM

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hmmm, if my Master thought I would be better off with my head shaved - for whatever reason he deemed in my best interest - I'd do it. But I would only do it because we would have spent a LOT of time building the trust and the core of the relationship and I would know that his desires for me are best for me. Being with a Dom that needed to completely break me down like a prisoner would not have worked from the beginning so it wouldn't have come up because I wouldn't have stayed.

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RE: Female slaves Headshaved - 8/30/2009 3:52:22 PM

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Never no way..

A true slave cannot really say no can they?I think its great you put this right out there..so girls like me know to stay away from you.

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RE: Female slaves Headshaved - 8/30/2009 8:48:04 PM

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Whats the big deal people?

Some slaves are asked to get body parts pierced, have names branded on them, collars worn around the neck, some even WELDED around the neck ect, And We're freaking out about HAIR! It's JUST hair. It grows back.

I understand the recalcitrance if you or one of your family members is a cancer survivor or victim though, and problems with work ect.

But really people, its just hair.....

If Sir asked me to shave my head, I most likely would in difference to Him. Really, they have some pretty damn cool wigs out now, if it became a problem for me to be bald.

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RE: Female slaves Headshaved - 8/31/2009 8:53:19 AM

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Head shaved i don't think i would look goood like that. Sometines thugh if having bad hair day i want to shave it off. Master would not ask me to do that hw loves my long hair. Even when i go to get my hair cut Master tells me not to get it cut short. I obey Master in all things but shaving y head is a big deal and this one i would not be able to obey. We would have to talk about it and see why he wanted me to do it.

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RE: Female slaves Headshaved - 9/2/2009 1:24:07 PM

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shaving ones head is in some ways very symbolic of birth and regrowth I can udnerstand the reasons for asking it. But it's one of those things that should be done in stages or after a relationship has been established. Hair does grow back but it can take many months or even years if they have really long hair.

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RE: Female slaves Headshaved - 9/2/2009 5:20:20 PM

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I would certainly not be eager to shave my hair, its part of who I am and it makes me feel like a lady. However I do understand and respect the idea. It all depends on the dynamic of the relationship. So under the right conditions I wouldn't refuse.
And i'd get some super cool wigs! I'm thinking bright purple :)

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RE: Female slaves Headshaved - 9/2/2009 7:07:39 PM

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If you shave her head, she will have a helluva time finding another Master if you release her.

Yeah... because that's gonna be her burning concern. Your thought process is just as misguided as the person who started this post. Give me a break!

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RE: Female slaves Headshaved - 9/3/2009 2:45:54 AM

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As a girl i wanted long hair so much... but my mum always chopped it...cleaner and easier and like my brothers (i think she'd have preferred it if i were a boy)
as an adolecent i finally grew it and had a 3 year relationship with an insanely jealous boy who tried and tried and tried again to break me... when i finally broke up with him and saw the split ends of my shoulder lenght hair... hair that grew when i was with him... hair that he had touched... well i just had to cut it all off... not quite bald but not far off, and it was so good and fresh and clean

My Husband likes it long... as long as it will get (He likes to pull my plait) but if He would have me bald, well bring it on.... would give me the chance to wear all these lovely head scarves i have from my grand ma...

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RE: Female slaves Headshaved - 9/9/2009 3:22:21 PM

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It seems to me that a slave is a possession of its Owner, so why make your property look bad?
It is like someone buying a new car, bringing it home an running a key up each side.

But of course i am a slave and putting myself in the mind space of a Master/Mistress is impossible.

slavey

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RE: Female slaves Headshaved - 9/13/2009 12:30:48 AM

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ORIGINAL: bigsweetmaster

I am in search of a true slave to belong to me in a 247 D/s relationship.
My thought is that all subs build up a lot of walls to get through life and to be normal. I feel that a sub must be stripped of everything and brought down to a very basic level to be rebuilt into a slave.

I think that taking away all the slave's clothing and shaving their heads is a good why to remove all the barriers.

My question is, would you do this?

Mark

To answer your question OP, no, I would not do this. No way in hell. First of all, I love my hair. Second of all, my fiance loves my hair. I wouldn't even cut my hair for charity...the only way I'd cut it is if a relative or close friend needed a good wig made. And third of all I have no interest in being stripped of everything.

You see, OP, I am a submissive bottom. Well okay, kinda switchy, but still. Not a slave. Your post begins "I am in search of a true slave" then goes on to talk about what "all subs" do, and then goes on about your brilliant (cough) idea of how to turn a submissive into a slave. Because apparently in the time it took you to press the enter key and start a new paragraph, your search for a "true slave" turned into a search for a submissive who you could enslave.

Remember when you signed up for this site how you had to tick a little box that said your BDSM orientation? Remember how "submissive" and "slave" were two entirely separate choices?

You might have missed that, seeing as how you obviously missed the bit next to the photo upload saying you can only upload photos you took yourself, no commercial photos or artwork, but you'll learn.

And by "learn" I of course mean post to the forums in a few weeks about how there are no real subs who want to be a true slave and how everyone here is a fake because nobody replies to your emails.

C'est la vie, n'est-ce pas?

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RE: Female slaves Headshaved - 9/13/2009 12:47:10 AM

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ORIGINAL: bigsweetmaster

I am in search of a true slave to belong to me in a 247 D/s relationship.
My thought is that all subs build up a lot of walls to get through life and to be normal. I feel that a sub must be stripped of everything and brought down to a very basic level to be rebuilt into a slave.

I think that taking away all the slave's clothing and shaving their heads is a good why to remove all the barriers.

My question is, would you do this?

Mark

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RE: Female slaves Headshaved - 9/13/2009 6:37:53 AM

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ORIGINAL: bigsweetmaster

I am in search of a true slave to belong to me in a 247 D/s relationship.
My thought is that all subs build up a lot of walls to get through life and to be normal. I feel that a sub must be stripped of everything and brought down to a very basic level to be rebuilt into a slave.

I think that taking away all the slave's clothing and shaving their heads is a good why to remove all the barriers.

My question is, would you do this?

Mark

I know many Female Keepers who make their males shave their heads, but naturally it's easier for a man to go bald. :) It's a good litmus test for someone claiming they want to serve in a "slave" capacity.

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RE: Female slaves Headshaved - 9/13/2009 8:23:10 AM

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greetings to all,

Shaving my head would be something I'd have to negotiate with Master. I don't have a problem with the act of losing my hair (it's actually nice, if a bit itchy while it grows back).

I've had a couple of stints of neurosurgery over the years, as well as a "study" or two, and I've not only had my head shaved to different degrees for each thing, but I've got a head with a prominent lump (from the current device I have in) a nasty valley (from having the original device removed) and surgical scars. I doubt a shaved head would be an attractive look on me (and if I was commanded to not wear a wig, trying to answer the well intentioned but uninformed people asking me why I have a lump, or a dent in the side of my head, or a bunch of scars would be tiring; anwering their questions has never really been easy; the only people that I tend to come into contact with who nod, and really know what I'm on about, without me having to explain, are my family or nurses or doctors).

well wishes,

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