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MasterSlaveLA -> RE: How does a slave leave its Master? (8/28/2009 12:56:34 PM)
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ORIGINAL: mixielicous
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ORIGINAL: MasterSlaveLA
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ORIGINAL: Falkenstein
So I would like to know if a slave girl has the same possibility, emotionnaly speaking, as a vanilla girl to leaver her master and rebuild her life with another guy?
Ummm, yeah.... of course a slave has the same rights as a 'nilla. Well, that is if she hasn't signed a BDSM CONTRACT... because then she's totally at the mercy of her Master!!! (I'm kidding, of course... just poking a bit of fun at the whole "contract" thingy). LOL
I guess as you get older in the lifestyle covering your tracks and ensuring your rights becomes easier to do without written word. There is nothing wrong with making sure you dont get yourself into a situation you cant handle and having something to back you up.
Its ok, Ive learned that even the most open minded people still judge you for something or other at the end of the day (kink, belief, execution or otherwise). yes, Im defensive.
Has nothing to do with "covering" any "tracks" or "ensuring" anyone's "rights". No piece of paper (i.e., BDSM Contract) can ever do that; only common sense can. A "BDSM Contract" is bullshit because it's not enforcable in any way, shape, or form. You want to ensure certain things, then notify the other of your wants, desires, and limits. If they're cool with them, move forward... if they adhere to them, stick around... if they violate them, then head for the door. It's that simple. No piece of paper is ever going to change this. Not ever. As such, contracts and all that are worthless. Nothing binds as tight as the heart and mind. Nothing.
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