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new to the Dom thing - 8/26/2009 2:19:48 PM

tashina

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I am new to being a Dom and I know very little. It is something that I and my hubby have wanted to explore for awhile. I feel like I need some kind of direction when it comes to what my part is and how to do it. I haven't told hubby that I am even a part of this group yet. I want it to be a surprise. I want to learn to Be the kind of Dom he wants and needs.

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RE: new to the Dom thing - 8/26/2009 2:27:14 PM

mnottertail

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Can you search for posts yet? Look for .......never mind.........
MasterFireMaam

here is a thread to her, and click on those golden links in the post, they are booklists:

http://www.collarchat.com/m_2775875/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#2776273

also, consider what would make you feel it ( Y ) <<<<<< here, see if it translates to your brain, and see if you can search it out here or start a thread, if not.

Investigate, do your homework, and you will be kicking your silly ass bitch of a husband in the nuts while casually filing your nails in no time.

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RE: new to the Dom thing - 8/26/2009 2:34:18 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

and you will be kicking your silly ass bitch of a husband in the nuts while casually filing your nails in no time.

*lmao* gosh you have a way with words!

porcelaine

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RE: new to the Dom thing - 8/26/2009 2:59:16 PM

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I've always said, a thousand word pictures are worth..........ummm, maybe I have never said.......what I mean is......

Uhhhhhhhhh, well not all the time porcelaine.........

Ron

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RE: new to the Dom thing - 8/26/2009 3:07:51 PM

tashina

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ty very much! that link helps a lot!

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RE: new to the Dom thing - 8/26/2009 4:41:38 PM

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The is also an extensive book list found here. http://www.collarchat.com/m_1726118/tm.htm

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RE: new to the Dom thing - 8/28/2009 9:20:10 PM

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Hi.

Welcome. You'll learn lots being here on Collar. Plenty of different opinions. The Mistresses I work with give free tutoring to women if your interested and there's lots of helpful advice for women on GoddessClub.com.

Hope this helps.

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RE: new to the Dom thing - 8/29/2009 4:31:36 AM

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The main thing that you need to keep in mind is that there is no "Right" or "Wrong" way to do it as long as you and your partner are enjoying yourselves and not causing injury. Read up or watch some porn just to see what sparks your interest. However, when watching Porn, remember that it's just like any other movie, everything you see is NOT real. When you find something that makes your heart beat a little faster, come here and search for more information. If you can't find what you need to know, just ask.

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