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MissCake -> RE: New to this site, and it seems unfair. (9/7/2009 9:25:51 AM)
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DarkSteven you have been mercilessly judgmental of me and my profile. You scoundrel. You cad. It's a good thing you judged that you like me.
Mr. Bongripper. You are here, indeed, to impress. To impress the women whom you intend to bed. What you will impress them with right now is illogic, poor mastery of vocabulary and standard English grammar, and a desire to make obscure and rather crude film references that imply you are happy to fuck a woman with bacterial vaginosis so long as she washes up so you can't smell it. These are the hallmarks of immaturity that a lot of the women hope to avoid.
By-in-large, submissive women have hope for a gentleman lover who will adore them, pleasure them, and push them to relish their servitude to him. They may desire humiliation, pain and degradation, but they want it from someone who is both respectable and respectful. This is a forum where people try to locate other people who can approximate a dream. You may, with your swagger and your cocksuredness, be the dream of an underclassmen at your school, but very unlikely to be the dream of a woman who has probably cycled through her time of young men reeking with the bravado of eighteenness.
It isn't the least bit unfair. When you have come through the other side of this period in you life, as many of us have, you will perhaps learn to see what is lovably unattractive about the way you speak and your demeanor. You will find people here incredibly accepting of circumstances over which one has little or no control - age, ethnicity, disability, distance, financial status, kinks, fetishes and unusual cravings... As a community, we virtually live to be fascinated by one another here. However, you have entire control over the behaviors which render you unattractive to the population you hope to woo. That is the essence of fairness. To allow people to judge you for the way you present yourself and how you speak is perhaps the most fair situation one can imagine.
The most mature and well developed qualities you can hope to develop and exhibit to attract the type of woman you desire are perhaps humility and self-knowledge. In that endeavor, I bid you bon chance!
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