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New to this site, and it seems unfair. - 9/7/2009 7:48:59 AM

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I seek a submissive female, and every profile I come across wants a "Dominant older man that is well experienced and has this and that and blah blah blah."

So I'm young. Maybe I'm not that experienced. So WHAT? That doesn't make my love making capacity any worse than anyone else. In fact, I'd go so far to say that it's ludicrous to pass up a person in their prime.

Am I right, or have I just not come across the right profiles?

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RE: New to this site, and it seems unfair. - 9/7/2009 7:55:13 AM

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Would you like some whine with your cheese ?

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RE: New to this site, and it seems unfair. - 9/7/2009 7:59:38 AM

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Why thank you! You're so helpful.

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RE: New to this site, and it seems unfair. - 9/7/2009 8:00:18 AM

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OP, I have read your profile and your very first sentence sounds like a complaint. The rest of it sounds like you're not as mature as the standard eighteen year old.

WTF does "just remember that you gotta ice that cheese. You don't want that salmonanilla salamander shit on yaw sandwich." do to impress someone?

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RE: New to this site, and it seems unfair. - 9/7/2009 8:00:26 AM

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* Offers some crackers *

Welcome to the CM forums. You're 18 hun. Rome was not built in a day.

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RE: New to this site, and it seems unfair. - 9/7/2009 8:02:13 AM

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So I like to joke around. It's from a video and I thought it was rather funny.

I didn't get on here to impress anyone; I got on here to meet interesting people.

Why don't you go judge someone else that you don't know?

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RE: New to this site, and it seems unfair. - 9/7/2009 8:09:29 AM

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I didn't get on here to impress anyone

In that you have succeeded. A pleasant attitude and an open mind will go a long way towards your ability to gain the experience you seem concerned with.

Now, please pass the wine to this old gal, I'm thirsty.

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RE: New to this site, and it seems unfair. - 9/7/2009 8:17:19 AM

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Yep, just like every other forum, everyone just offers their opinion of the person posting rather than even considering the post at hand.

I wouldn't have even bothered if I'd known how quick to judge you "open-minded" people are.

Have a nice day.

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RE: New to this site, and it seems unfair. - 9/7/2009 8:19:38 AM

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i'm just sittin n try to under stand the ice n cheez comment.....

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RE: New to this site, and it seems unfair. - 9/7/2009 8:26:47 AM

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I5UShzfh1mY&feature=player_embedded

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RE: New to this site, and it seems unfair. - 9/7/2009 8:27:43 AM

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I dont think maturity is in age, but in life experiences and in personal grown and maturity. I dont know you, nor have I read your profile. Just this thread and your tantrum here. Age is a personal preference for some people .. .... I know I wont personally get involved with anyone younger than 30 b/c I dont think we would have much in comman and it would kind of squig my teen daughter out if I was with someone only a couple years older than her. lol

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RE: New to this site, and it seems unfair. - 9/7/2009 8:28:42 AM

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In fact, I'd go so far to say that it's ludicrous to pass up a person in their prime.

I have some important news for you. Just because you are at your sexual peak, does not mean you are at what a woman would consider your prime.

You should also consider the possibility that a man who lives for ren fest, karaoke and nihilism (seriously, I can't type it without giggling) is not going to come across as very strong or dominant to many readers. Sorry.

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RE: New to this site, and it seems unfair. - 9/7/2009 8:34:46 AM

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So I like to joke around. It's from a video and I thought it was rather funny.

I didn't get on here to impress anyone; I got on here to meet interesting people.

Why don't you go judge someone else that you don't know?

Well, the fact that I took your original post to be asking for feedback was a major reason that I provided it.

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RE: New to this site, and it seems unfair. - 9/7/2009 8:39:19 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: thebongripper

So I like to joke around. It's from a video and I thought it was rather funny.

I didn't get on here to impress anyone; I got on here to meet interesting people.

Why don't you go judge someone else that you don't know?

You're the one who started out judging. DarkSteven was just asking a (very good) question.

Relax, make friends, and you'll do fine.

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RE: New to this site, and it seems unfair. - 9/7/2009 8:40:43 AM

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Okay, what helpful feed back did you offer me? You called me immature with complete lack of any appreciation for what kind of person I could potentially be.

Why not just be nice? That's actually kind of what this thread is about in a way. Everyone is just so demanding of another's character, that they don't even bother to understand that character.

The people that reply (with two or three exceptions) just keep proving to me that I'm wasting my time here.

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RE: New to this site, and it seems unfair. - 9/7/2009 8:45:39 AM

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Okay, what helpful feed back did you offer me? You called me immature with complete lack of any appreciation for what kind of person I could potentially be.

Why not just be nice?

He WAS being nice......

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RE: New to this site, and it seems unfair. - 9/7/2009 8:47:57 AM

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ORIGINAL: thebongripper

So I like to joke around. It's from a video and I thought it was rather funny.

I didn't get on here to impress anyone; I got on here to meet interesting people.

Why don't you go judge someone else that you don't know?

Well, the fact that I took your original post to be asking for feedback was a major reason that I provided it.

Is that how you took it? I took it to be looking for someone to come along and say "that's right honey, it's not fair" then to somehow go and make all those nasty ole submissives play with him, regardless of his age or maturity level.

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RE: New to this site, and it seems unfair. - 9/7/2009 8:52:32 AM

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Okay, thank you kind people for answering my question.

I wasn't trying to complain. I was simply stating that it SEEMS that the people of this website demand too much.

I wasn't trying to start arguments with anyone, yet everyone comes in assuming that just because I'm a little bit frustrated that I should be treated like a moron.

Maybe I simply posted in the wrong place, maybe I am a "whining doofus," but at least I'm not an asshole. I am no longer posting in this forum because the majority of the people that have replied have been simply rude.

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RE: New to this site, and it seems unfair. - 9/7/2009 8:52:32 AM

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Okay. Get yourself a mentor.

If you can't get one in person, then read other people's posts. Read their profiles. When something comes up, ask yourself "How would UberLordDom react to this situation?"

Just to let you know, there's a guy here named AsherdeLampyr who's a repected Dom who's only 22 years old. But he doesn't act it. His profile's here: http://www.collarme.com/personals/v/368521/details.htm

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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

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RE: New to this site, and it seems unfair. - 9/7/2009 8:55:41 AM

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I really believe that people should feel good about themselves and at different ages or maturity it may be exibited in different ways. While in some area's a man of eighteen might be said to be in his prime, I do think there is a bit that can sound off to a woman of my age because I have been with men of all ages, at different times in my life and prime means something different to me. Prime is not just a young body that may... I did say may... be able to get it up many times, because there must be quality to be prime. A young hard body doesn't mean that hard on, many times, is something that age alone makes happen.

Prime is a man who knows how to use that hard body, blend it with heart, intent, focus and a sharing of his body rather than a... I plugged that broad six times in four hours. If all a man can do is plug a broad, that doesn't mean the plugging was good for her.

There are men of older age's that can do far more, just as often as a young hard body can, so the ego when stating something to the effect... how could they turn it down, is a bit far fetched and egotistical based on not a whole lot that is worth much to a woman who knows great love making.

While you are saying... how can they turn it down... you also are saying they are turning it down. If youth meant prime no one would be turning it down. If you have to state anything or ask anything that you have asked or said, you aren't yet prime darlin... you may be good, but you aren't prime because prime doesn't need to ask or complain... they are busy being prime.

So calm down... let people see who you are and lose the cocky defensiveness. Then you will be working on prime and might just get some prime yourself.

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